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Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
I'm having so much trouble deciding what to buy first as I have alot of sex related goals. I wish to get myself a nice expensive vibrator the Tango III to be exact...I also really want the liberator wedge combo. I"m in a long term relationship since 2007 and my intentions are to keep having a great relationship and I hope to be with him in the future for as long as I can...getting married to him appeals to me.

Anyway I'm not wanting to purchase any love books or relationship help at this time we are doing great and are happy together. There is so much I want now and I want to get really good at sex,dirty talk(I do have fine art of erotic talk) and keeping our relationship alive....should I buy a porn dvd now,sex position book or maybe that costume he really wants me to wear? Just do not know where to start to build up this "foundation" more..where do I start to get to the top? I purchase things slowly takes a while to save points and money. Plz don't say anything about the review program I really don't want to join and its really not my style and my reasons go beyond its really not me also I can't even have the items ship here anyway but to another address and can be quite a long time before I get my item like over a week.

I own the books Fine art of erotic talk,1001 ways to be romantic and red hot touch(which I find red hot touch difficult because I'm more of a visual person when it comes to that kind of thing so I dont really look at this book) the others I need to find where I placed them....
11/13/2011
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Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I'm having so much trouble deciding what to buy first as I have alot of sex related goals. I wish to get myself a nice expensive vibrator the Tango III to be exact...I also really want the liberator wedge combo. I"m in a long term ... more
I wish to make a step by step plan to follow. Example- 1.romantic bedroom makeover(which my bedroom is really a dump most everything needs replacing) 2.Focus on myself(not in a selfish negative way...just good things examples- get my hair done,more relaxing time for myself...try a new perfume)

Or would number 2 be first then number 1? LOL. Well when I think about number 1 I think about health (severe ibs that I have) because if I'm feeling sick my bedroom makeover gets neglected because of feeling sick and not being able to work more to save money for bedroom makeover...ok number 1.Focus on Myself 2. (which I would say doing a bedroom makeover first I would be doing it for myself not the sole purpose of impressing anyone but of course compliments are nice LOL) I'm thinking three is 3. Sex aids (which would be liberator combo and books/porn?)
11/13/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I'm having so much trouble deciding what to buy first as I have alot of sex related goals. I wish to get myself a nice expensive vibrator the Tango III to be exact...I also really want the liberator wedge combo. I"m in a long term ... more
I wish to make a step by step plan to follow. Example- 1.romantic bedroom makeover(which my bedroom is really a dump most everything needs replacing) 2.Focus on myself(not in a selfish negative way...just good things examples- get my hair done,more relaxing time for myself...try a new perfume)

Or would number 2 be first then number 1? LOL. Well when I think about number 1 I think about health (severe ibs that I have) because if I'm feeling sick my bedroom makeover gets neglected because of feeling sick and not being able to work more to save money for bedroom makeover...ok number 1.Focus on Myself 2. (which I would say doing a bedroom makeover first I would be doing it for myself not the sole purpose of impressing anyone but of course compliments are nice LOL) I'm thinking three is 3. Sex aids (which would be liberator combo and books/porn?)
11/13/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Sounds like you are onto a great start. When I shop here, I make a list and arrange them by what I want most, and then make a purchase. Liberator furniture takes up a lot of room, so you may want to get things organized first, but it is a good idea to get it right away to know exactly how it will fit. Costumes are definitely great for spicing things up. Only you know what you really want, so I recommend keeping notes for things you really want and go that route.

You don't have to review things you buy. Hope that helps.
11/13/2011
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I'm having so much trouble deciding what to buy first as I have alot of sex related goals. I wish to get myself a nice expensive vibrator the Tango III to be exact...I also really want the liberator wedge combo. I"m in a long term ... more
I would say just make up your mind about what your priorities are. Also, it would take less time to save up points if you joined the review program, just saying. But do as you wish.

Since your focus seems to be "items that can be useful for couples," I would try that liberator ramp/wedge combo first. It comes with an instruction booklet that shows you some of the many many different ways you can use it.

Don't buy porn. Seriously. You can get it for free on the internet. If money is an issue, then don't waste it on something you can get for free.

Lingerie is always nice, and sexy costumes. Definitely try out some of those.

And get some fun sex toys! Try out a beginners BDSM kit for a little kinky fun. Get yourself a vibrator. If you're into putting things in your butt, try some anal beads (they can be worn during sex) or a butt plug or something.

Also, for the dirty talk ... A suggestion I've heard is to read erotica out loud to each other. It will help dirty talk come more naturally to you. And it's just hawt.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
If you want to focus on yourself, this new book that I just reviewed might really help.

It has lots of ideas to focus on yourself (like you say, not in a selfish way, but in a good, appreciating life and respecting yourself way) especially in the first section (foundation), and it also talks a lot about making sex even better in the third section (top).

Even better, most of the suggestions in the book are free! And it is really fast to read, the author's style is quite light.
11/13/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Antipova
If you want to focus on yourself, this new book that I just reviewed might really help.

It has lots of ideas to focus on yourself (like you say, not in a selfish way, but in a good, appreciating life and respecting yourself way) especially in ... more
yea It looks like a good book. I need an ereader first though so I can get the books I want on ereader first then the ones I can't well then I will get those so I save as much space as I can....Perhaps for Christmas he will get me the Nook color I want so bad. Right now I'm saving for his Christmas present which will be like $200. I just want this year to be more special in a year he is going to collage and will be 10 hours away from me we won't see each other hardly ever and we will use skype voice and video chat (wink) lol.

I will need to find a book on cybersex I know amazon or barnes and noble have alot of books so there will be something. I know some of the titles on EF you can also get for ereaders. Perhaps if I found a porn dvd on cyber sex...Anyway I do want at least a few porn dvds the free stuff gets old I really like digital playground if there are some specific dvds I wish to own I want them and I also want a portable dvd player to spice things up. We can watch in his car after work or even go to the park late at night and sit outside hahaha. Oh and when he goes to collage I can whip out the portable dvd player and spice things up with the porn while on skype.

Its hard what to pick first I have a hair coloring appointment next week then the week after a brazilian wax. Focus on myself a makeover will do me good and it also has him notice I made some positive changes...Hm I think when I place my next order I will get a nice vibe for myself..then after that liberator wedge combo along with a few books.
11/14/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
yea It looks like a good book. I need an ereader first though so I can get the books I want on ereader first then the ones I can't well then I will get those so I save as much space as I can....Perhaps for Christmas he will get me the Nook color ... more
I think it is great you are working on improving things. So many people let things get stagnant. Just remember it is you he likes and the extra stuff is just... extra stuff.
06/20/2012