Bluntly--I told my hubby when we got together that if you kiss her you might as well fuck her. That is my cheating line....to me if you want to kiss, there are issues that pertain to fidelity and commitment.

Same here, would break my heart if my girlfriend kissed another man, just saying.

My guy and I have a pretty open relationship since we're long distance, so for us it's only cheating of the other person isn't aware of the full situation or if feelings develop with the new person.

We've talked about this together. And while it may sound crazy, neither of us is comfortable even flirting with someone else, or making an extremely close friendship with someone of the opposite sex. It can be a fine line, so we have chosen to stay as far away from it as we can.

I would definitely consider it cheating to kiss someone else. So since that would be cheating, we have both decided not to even do the sort of things that would lead up to wanting to kiss someone else. If that makes sense.

Basically, to me, paying the kind of attention to someone else that we would normally pay to each other is just not ok. It can start you down a path where the line gets blurrier and blurrier. Not to say we don't talk to members of the opposite sex, or have friends, it's just... different. We reserve our main focus of attention for each other. But that's a choice we've made, and your mileage may vary!

Kissing is really intimate so I draw my line there. If he is willing to kiss her then he is willing to do more.