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Contributor: Dragon Dragon
There are always times that you don't think about sex.

- When the child runs a 104.8 fever, and you are watching her to see if it goes to 105 and she goes to the emergency room. That was last night.

(There are other times in my life.)
When don't you think about sex?
02/16/2009
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Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
Hell, I'm currently studying for a an exam on neuroanatomy and I'm still thinking about sex.

I don't think about sex when I'm angry though. More often lately I've been angry with my boyfriend. Again, long distance relationships suck. I feel like he doesn't make a conscious effort to make time for me. The only thing we have is talking on the phone, and I hardly get 30 minutes a day, usually less than that. When I try to bring it up, he says I'm being selfish and childish. Then I get angry and defensive and blah. It sucks even more when I decide than I'm gonna masturbate before I go to sleep and then we get in a fight and it's a totally buzz kill (quite literally). Wow...didn't really mean to rant here. Suddenly I'm not thinking about sex anymore...
02/16/2009
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
Lots of times - especially the past few weeks, when I'm running from 5am to 8pm. By the time I get home, I just want to crawl into bed and sleep. Or, like DBD, when the kids are sick, or I am sick.
02/16/2009
Contributor: Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
Depression strips me of all sexual thoughts and desires sometimes.
02/16/2009
Contributor: Airlia Airlia
When my head's in the toilet after a big night out instead of in his lap...
02/16/2009
Contributor: sry sry
When I'm in the "zone" when I'm playing my video games all I think about is I'm in first place by 5 kills and like 15 assists and I try to keep it that way. No sex... no problems.... Nothing but GAME. Then at the end I'm delighted sometimes by the calls of my enemies "You hacker". )

But when ever I'm not in the zone all I seem to ever think about is... sex sex porn sex....
02/16/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
..When I am rearranging a closet because my husband is horrible at packing stuff,
02/16/2009
Contributor: Dragon Dragon
I don't think about sex when I'm afraid that whatever I say or do is going to go wrong. Again. Or worse when I do feel sexual, am having a good time and something goes wrong.

That can take me days to recover.
02/16/2009
Contributor: Cinnamon Chambers Cinnamon Chambers
When we are camping, in a desert, with lots and lots of sand on everything.
02/16/2009
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
When I have a yeast infection. That's it. My period, exams, lack of sleep, and intense hunger do not take priority over my sex drive. I have on quite a few occasions dropped all my books while cramming right before a big test, pulled out some nice porn or erotica, and masturbated til I felt like studying again.
02/16/2009
Contributor: Gatita Gatita
While I'm nursing my little guy. He is so attached to my boobs, he has to feed on one & tweak, pinch, rub, smack, rub his toes on them & switch back & forth taking little sips from each. Since I'm so NOT a touchy feely person, the last thing I want is to be touched after a nursing session.
02/16/2009
Contributor: Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
Quote:
Originally posted by Gatita
While I'm nursing my little guy. He is so attached to my boobs, he has to feed on one & tweak, pinch, rub, smack, rub his toes on them & switch back & forth taking little sips from each. Since I'm so NOT a touchy feely person, ... more
Oh I remember those days! I was the same way. I breastfed one child until just at her first birthday, got pregnant 3 months later, and then breastfed the other for 6 months. Yeah, I don't know many people who want to have sex just after breastfeeding. It was just... odd... not the good kind.
02/16/2009
Contributor: Swallows Swallows
The other night, the kids were fast asleep, and we were engaging in some heavy duty sex- toys and all. We always have the tv on so that, well, the kids don't get up to go to the bathroom, which is right next to our bedroom, and hear us. I know when I was a kid, hearing my parents would have been shocking and horrifying, right? So anyway, there was a brief silence in the tv program that was on (thank goodness), and I heard my 5 year old run into the bathroom and I just felt that something was wrong. We immediately stopped what we were doing, put our clothes on, and ran into the bathroom where we found him throwing up. He had 102 degree fever, poor baby was sooo sick. To all you parents, I'm sure that you will agree that your children's needs are never an inconvenience for you, no matter what!
03/13/2009
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
When the kids were younger and at home, they always came first. Now, it's if I know they are out somewhere and I worry about them until they text me that they are home. Doesn't matter how old they get, you always worry about them. I didn't think about it when hubby was waiting for his heart surgery- although he did- or afterwards for a couple of weeks. Otherwise, I can think about it most anytime!
03/13/2009
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Swallows
The other night, the kids were fast asleep, and we were engaging in some heavy duty sex- toys and all. We always have the tv on so that, well, the kids don't get up to go to the bathroom, which is right next to our bedroom, and hear us. I know ... more
Never an inconvenience to me....ever. My kids needs come first and as a result they are actually very polite and undemanding. Hearing retching in the bathroom is definately a buzz kill though. Happened to me a few months ago during a very hot and heavy session...I felt awful for my daughter and we spent the rest of the night sponging a hot forehead and being parents.

I don't tend to think about sex when I am in emotional turmoil though a good raunchy fucking can alleviate the hormonal emotional mood swings at times...still it's not the time I feel at all sexy.
03/30/2009
Contributor: Firemeup Firemeup
When my husband's away on a business trip, actually. I seem to shut down sexually, and it takes me a while to rev back up when he gets back. I know I should masturbate to keep things going, I just don't really feel like it.
03/31/2009
Contributor: systemofadown19 systemofadown19
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
There are always times that you don't think about sex.

- When the child runs a 104.8 fever, and you are watching her to see if it goes to 105 and she goes to the emergency room. That was last night.

(There are other times in my ... more
music and video games.....video games mostly....lol rite now I'm playing Dead Space on my xbox360....I fucking love that game!!....Gears of War 2 is the shit!!
05/20/2009
Contributor: systemofadown19 systemofadown19
Quote:
Originally posted by Firemeup
When my husband's away on a business trip, actually. I seem to shut down sexually, and it takes me a while to rev back up when he gets back. I know I should masturbate to keep things going, I just don't really feel like it.
I've lately been doing that as well.... I know college has shut me down on masturbation, as well as video games, and the social envirement
05/20/2009
Contributor: Perish Perish
Quote:
Originally posted by systemofadown19
I've lately been doing that as well.... I know college has shut me down on masturbation, as well as video games, and the social envirement
Same same here lolz. When i'm on Call Of duty 4/5, sex is the last thing on my mind. That's the only time that i am not thinking about it really. Not even headaches stop me from watching a good porno and going at it...even though it feels like your head is going to explode (ouch).
05/21/2009