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Contributor: js250 js250
--Choose item styles that you KNOW flatter your figure?
--Play it by ear and go with whatever catches your eye?
--Like one type or a variety of types?
--Choose ones your partner prefers?
--Choose them based on what you like--who cares about what your partner thinks?
--Shop by brand?

Or other...Now, what do you do differently when shopping for a friend as a gift?
06/06/2013
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Contributor: evanescentowl evanescentowl
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Originally posted by js250
--Choose item styles that you KNOW flatter your figure?
--Play it by ear and go with whatever catches your eye?
--Like one type or a variety of types?
--Choose ones your partner prefers?
--Choose them based on what you like--who cares ... more
I definitely go for what flatters my figure! That is what is first and foremost for me, if I can find it in my size. For me that means a lot of boyshorts, hiphuggers and cheekies. I think I only own one thong. XD

After that I look at colors and patterns, both in what I like and what goes well with my coloring.

My partner generally just likes whatever looks good on me and doesn't seem to have a preference; except lace. He likes it, but I don't own a lot of it because it's so delicate.
06/06/2013
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
--Choose item styles that you KNOW flatter your figure?
--Play it by ear and go with whatever catches your eye?
--Like one type or a variety of types?
--Choose ones your partner prefers?
--Choose them based on what you like--who cares ... more
Hmm..

I tend to go with whatever catches my eye. I used to go by only what I thought would flatter my figure, but then I tried on a piece that I thought would never work for me... It totally did work though! So now, I like to try whatever I think is pretty.

I choose items that I like, but I also choose ones that my partner likes. We have different ideas of what makes a piece of lingerie sexy; he prefers dirty and slutty, and I prefer sweet and pretty -- so it's hard to find a piece that meets both of our preferences.
06/06/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
--Choose item styles that you KNOW flatter your figure?
--Play it by ear and go with whatever catches your eye?
--Like one type or a variety of types?
--Choose ones your partner prefers?
--Choose them based on what you like--who cares ... more
For me it is usually Coquette and Baby Dolls because I love that company and the style of lingerie. My partner too loves baby dolls more then anything else.
06/06/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I search & then search some more for what I like - just can't find very many, though - bummer.
06/06/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
--Choose item styles that you KNOW flatter your figure?
--Play it by ear and go with whatever catches your eye?
--Like one type or a variety of types?
--Choose ones your partner prefers?
--Choose them based on what you like--who cares ... more
A little of all. For a friend, I just avoid buying lingerie or clothing for friends. It's hard to tell what would fit them and what they would like.
06/07/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
My main thing is comfort, and support (when shopping bras). After that, then whether I think it flatters me, and whether or not I feel comfortable in mentally.
06/07/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I like to go for styles that I know will flatter me, but I am willing to try new styles if I know my boyfriend would like it. Although, in all honesty, I could probably wear a paper towel and he would find it sexy.

If I am shopping for bedroom only lingerie, I am more willing to experiment with new things. However, for items I know I will be wearing under clothing, I have to ensure there is plenty of support. I have a decently large chest, so I need a supportive top. Otherwise, I'll be really uncomfortable, which will put me in a bad mood.
06/07/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
I usually go with flattering then it is appearance. However, as with all things--I do try new styles and either love 'em or hate 'em!!When shopping for friends--I choose styles that I know they would like.
06/07/2013
Contributor: never shy never shy
I find most important to choose something I will find sexy on myself so usually it has to flatter I like to cover my stomach then I like try to find out if my husband will find it sexy. I like corsets and baby dolls.
06/07/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I like things that really catch my attention, then I will check out the reviews. I also get things that will be easy to cam in as well. I also like to try different styles especially if I like the piece.
06/07/2013