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Contributor: js250 js250
What was/is the hardest thing to deal with? Is it the being alone, missing the shared experiences, the companionship, or is it the bitterness, anger and feeling of wasted time? (No-my relationship is fine, just thinking about this for odd reasons.)
05/20/2013
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Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I missed cuddles and back rubs the most. Between relationships I tend to have cuddle-buddies just to cuddle.

I enjoy the freedom I'm afforded with single-dom. I like to date but not have anything serious for about a year.
05/20/2013
Contributor: tami tami
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Originally posted by js250
What was/is the hardest thing to deal with? Is it the being alone, missing the shared experiences, the companionship, or is it the bitterness, anger and feeling of wasted time? (No-my relationship is fine, just thinking about this for odd reasons.)
Hubby and I have been together for close to 30 years since I was 14 years old. when we hit a rough patch and divorced about 8 years ago I missed him the most it was having him to talk to to give me a hug when I had a bad day or to laugh with and have a cuddle with it was very hard time I am very glad we are back together now.
05/20/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
The hardest thing for me for a while was what could have been. Thinking back on how things were in the beginning and how much they changed. It was hard to deal with the fact that we could have had a good relationship and we just let everything go to hell instead of doing something about it.

It obviously all worked out in the end and I'm happy we're not together now, but I was pretty bitter for a while about that.
05/20/2013
Contributor: stacylyn stacylyn
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Originally posted by js250
What was/is the hardest thing to deal with? Is it the being alone, missing the shared experiences, the companionship, or is it the bitterness, anger and feeling of wasted time? (No-my relationship is fine, just thinking about this for odd reasons.)
I miss the time that we laugh together
05/20/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
the hardest thing for me to deal w/ is what could have been.
05/20/2013
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I missed my writing partner more than my husband when we separated and divorced. I didn't mind losing anything else, but I missed him the most when I wrote. Took me a few years to find to my own writer's voice again.
05/20/2013
Contributor: pixiedustVixen pixiedustVixen
what hurts the most is the time of my life i wasted and can never get back. things i should have could have or would have done are gone because i didnt take the opportunity. i dont like even thinking about it because it makes me think about past break ups and the horribleness i felt then. now i dont like being lonely
05/20/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
I get used to having someone there, and then there isn't anyone and I have to find new things to do... It disturbs my routine. lol
05/20/2013
Contributor: .kaycat .kaycat
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I get used to having someone there, and then there isn't anyone and I have to find new things to do... It disturbs my routine. lol
I agree. It's like your whole world is built and tangled up with someone so it's like losing your life and starting over. The hard part of not wanting anyone else, or not thinking anyone else will suffice, even if that person before was your love or a shitbag
05/20/2013