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Contributor: ghalik ghalik
Sorry for the morbid question, but I was wondering the other day...

Most of my non-vibrating toys will probably last longer than I will. What about yours? Do you think you'll part with them before death or leave them behind for someone else to sort through?

Poll question idea (variation of a perennial poll topic): Would you use a used toy whose previous owner is dead?
07/02/2012
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Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by ghalik
Sorry for the morbid question, but I was wondering the other day...

Most of my non-vibrating toys will probably last longer than I will. What about yours? Do you think you'll part with them before death or leave them behind for someone ... more
I've told my partner to discard of them RIGHT away when I die. LOL. It's strange, but we've had this conversation. I have told him if I die, he's to immediately trash ALL of my writings and my way too huge stash of notebooks and such and then discard of all my toys as well. I don't want my family to come across those things. I'm a writer so I have A LOT of work that's just hanging around from the old days and regular old writings. I'm pretty positive anyone who read most of it would feel awful. I used to write a lot about a negative experience and to be honest, I'd rather my fam find my huge toy stash first! LOL. In a way I think maybe I should leave ONE toy behind in hopes of giving my family a laugh when I die. It'd be better than sadness.

Nobody is the owner of my toys. Oh hell no! LOL. If my sisters just really wanted them, fine, but otherwise, they should go in the trash. No need to keep them around if I'm not here.
07/02/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
Sorry for the morbid question, but I was wondering the other day...

Most of my non-vibrating toys will probably last longer than I will. What about yours? Do you think you'll part with them before death or leave them behind for someone ... more
OH AND HELL NO I would not use a toy that has a dead owner!
07/02/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
Yeah, I've discussed this with my guy and a close group of friends. We all made the following agreement:

If any of us die, we will make sure the person has their honor. If they happen to be naked, trashed, or in a crazy position when their dying, we'll cover them up before the ambulance comes.

If one of us dies, we will clean the person's browser history, dispose of al sex toys/sexy things, and keep their booze stash.
07/02/2012
Contributor: little miss kinky little miss kinky
I've thought of this. I suppose whoever was left behind in the family would have to throw them away when they went through my stuff LOL.

And no, I would never use someone else's stuff, dead or not! LOL.
07/02/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
At the moment, I think my mother would wind up discarding them since she's the only one that knows where I keep them. But in the event that my boyfriend and I wound up living together he could keep any we used together or that are sterilizable that he likes and toss the rest out.
As for using any toy someone else has used, not if I can't get it 100% clean (and bacteria/germ/bodily fluid free) and not if the previous owner is dead. Though I would consider buying one of the original vibrators from way back when they were first invented so I could display it somewhere. I wouldn't ever even consider using it though.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
I've never given that much of a thought actually. If it never crossed my mind, my family probably would've just found them somewhere... opened the container and closed it quick in disgust, and throw them away. My step-mom would joke about it, and my mother would probably be more respectful and just toss them in the dumpster.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Princess Zelda Princess Zelda
I would hope people would toss them out.
07/02/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
I have actually thought about this. I would not want my family to find them going through my things..ugh.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by ghalik
Sorry for the morbid question, but I was wondering the other day...

Most of my non-vibrating toys will probably last longer than I will. What about yours? Do you think you'll part with them before death or leave them behind for someone ... more
OMG!! I have no idea!! If certain people found those....Yeah I'd be dead, but still...That'd be embarrassing as hell!! And NO, I wouldn't claim a used toy from ANYONE, too creepy.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by Mwar
Yeah, I've discussed this with my guy and a close group of friends. We all made the following agreement:

If any of us die, we will make sure the person has their honor. If they happen to be naked, trashed, or in a crazy position when their ... more
LMAOOOOOO!!!! Yeah, you ROCK Mwar!!!! And so do your friends!!! LOL
07/02/2012
Contributor: LoveYouLikeThat LoveYouLikeThat
I told my husband just now to destroy all evidence LOL. My mom knows I'm on Eden, but I dont want others finding my stash LMAO.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Kissy Kissy
Oh, I have a bad feeling if I died young, my hubby would prob be with me.

Someone unknowing would be bound to find the stash.

Maybe I need to set up a secret bank account and make a friend at Edens that will be notified asap of my death and get enough money to fly to my house and destroy all evidence... and a little something $$ for their troubles. HAHA.. oh gosh that would be so thought through.. and morbid... but better than my great grandma finding out! lol!!
07/03/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
Oh god, i hadn't even thought about it!
I guess i want my partner to enjoy them by *herself* when i'm gone.
07/03/2012
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
I expect some shocked family member will discover them after they find the key to the locked toy chest. I don't care, as long as I am dead
07/03/2012
Contributor: michael scofield michael scofield
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
Sorry for the morbid question, but I was wondering the other day...

Most of my non-vibrating toys will probably last longer than I will. What about yours? Do you think you'll part with them before death or leave them behind for someone ... more
i was thinking this the other day too if i day my mom and family will be horrified when they see my fake pussys and real life like sex dolls.
07/03/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Never thought about this but I guess my parents would just find them and toss them of course! An NO HELL NO would I claim someone's USED toy dead or alive!!
07/03/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
The boxes with all the Toys in them, are labeled with my good friends address on them. In the office at work, there is a sealed envelope with instructions for my possessions and body if I kick the bucket. There is also a money order with the Bank of China for postage.

So if anything happens to me, a friend of mine has already claimed all my fun toys and such.
07/03/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
my parents will get a very unpleasant surprise, haha
07/03/2012