What's your secret identity?

Contributor: spicywife spicywife
Sex addicts by night (and day...) but what are our hidden identities?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
A parent
55  (20%)
A public figure
1  (0%)
Just another "Joe" or "Jane"
26  (10%)
A student
89  (33%)
An old rascal
A business owner
10  (4%)
An executive of some kind
3  (1%)
A worker in the rat race
24  (9%)
Shh, it's a secret!
61  (23%)
Total votes: 269
Poll is closed
08/20/2009
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Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I have no hidden anything. Which is both good and bad. I don't have to separate the parts of me and yet I do get some odd looks at the family picnic...
08/20/2009
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
In the "real" world, I'm a full time nurse...
08/20/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
I have no hidden anything. Which is both good and bad. I don't have to separate the parts of me and yet I do get some odd looks at the family picnic...
That's nice. I wish that sexuality was more accepted overall. I definitely think some family members would think that we were going to burn for using sex toys even though we are married (not that it's wrong for non-married couples to use sex toys, of course).
08/20/2009
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
I too am "out" - as you all know
08/21/2009
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Preparing for law school. Being too "out" makes me very nervous, so I don't much plan on ever being so.
08/21/2009
Contributor: Gary Gary
This is my secret identity, in reality I am much much more depraved!
08/21/2009
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Quote:
Originally posted by Owl Identified
Preparing for law school. Being too "out" makes me very nervous, so I don't much plan on ever being so.
Yeah, this is pretty much me. I'd love to be completely "out" about it, but while I'll tell just about anybody in RL if the subject comes up, I can't post my face or anything in my blog. I want to become a professor, and I doubt most colleges/universities would be down with a professor who poses nude every week and writes about dildos.
08/21/2009
Contributor: mivox mivox
I'm more or less out. All my friends in the neighborhood know I "test" sex toys... have the benefits of no kids and a job where it really can't have repercussions.
08/22/2009
Contributor: Pumpkin Lady Pumpkin Lady
I'm a 22 year old pharmacy tech that ran away from home at a young age. I've been making a new life all over the country for a few years. I don't care much about my privacy but someday I might, so I'm going to keep it on the DL just in case.
08/22/2009
Contributor: Two2Tango Two2Tango
Just a stay at home mom nowadays, and hubby owns a small company, so a few friends and little family know, but thats about it. Smaller towns can be funny about what sets them off. Don't want him losing business because we dont share thier "views".
08/22/2009
Contributor: deceased deceased
Quote:
Originally posted by Mamastoys
In the "real" world, I'm a full time nurse...
Me too!
08/22/2009
Contributor: Mistress Says Mistress Says
Quote:
Originally posted by spicywife
Sex addicts by night (and day...) but what are our hidden identities?
In the real world I am a school administrator and I can't say what the bigger secret is
08/23/2009
Contributor: Avery Dragon Avery Dragon
I'm a 20 gay male who is going to school to learn computer programming and works at an adult store. The biggest challenge I have is trying to find a mainstream job. I'm out in all senses of the word, unless its certain family or people that I know would be offended by my business, I don't hesitate to tell people where I work. I just wonder how a regular job will take it that I used to work in the adult shop..
08/23/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
This is.
08/23/2009
Contributor: Dragon Dragon
Parent and a preschool teacher. One day I'll have my own school.
08/23/2009
Contributor: gone77 gone77
I'm kind of like an "other." I'm just another "Jane" yet I'm not, but I'm also none of the things you listed so...*shrug*
08/23/2009
Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
Well, I am out to those I know. My best friend was relieved when I said something about it because she and her fiance are into BDSM and she thought they were different. Haha. My mom even adds to my collection of Ben Wa Balls at random (when she sees some I might like) and my sisters keep a list of toys that they can get me for the holidays. hehehe guess I am lucky
08/23/2009
Contributor: Mrs. Sparks Mrs. Sparks
My friends know I product test... I also used to be a "phone actress," though only my closest friends know that.
08/23/2009
Contributor: Sanjay Sanjay
Quote:
Originally posted by spicywife
Sex addicts by night (and day...) but what are our hidden identities?
I'm a knitter! It's not just for old ladies you know ;-)
08/23/2009
Contributor: stuck in the middle stuck in the middle
By day I'm a supervisor with a major pharmacy chain and have recently told them about my desire to transition and to my surprise I'm still employed and they are supporting me.A few even seem to be pushing me lol.
08/24/2009
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
I'm convinced it's tattooed on my forehead in ink only I am unable to see that I'm a freak. No one's ever surprised when they find out.
08/24/2009
Contributor: stuck in the middle stuck in the middle
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
I'm convinced it's tattooed on my forehead in ink only I am unable to see that I'm a freak. No one's ever surprised when they find out.
that might just be a good thing.When my desire to transition was brought up in a meeting they had to pause the meeting for one person having to leave with chest pains they were so blindsided
08/24/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
Quote:
Originally posted by Sanjay
I'm a knitter! It's not just for old ladies you know ;-)
I knit too!
08/24/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
Quote:
Originally posted by Avery Dragon
I'm a 20 gay male who is going to school to learn computer programming and works at an adult store. The biggest challenge I have is trying to find a mainstream job. I'm out in all senses of the word, unless its certain family or people that I ... more
I wouldn't worry about it! My husband has a co-worker that used to work in an adult shop. He's had jobs since then and never had a problem. It's just a job and if you have a good work history then that's what is important to most employer's.
08/24/2009
Contributor: Sanjay Sanjay
Quote:
Originally posted by spicywife
I knit too!
You rock!
08/24/2009
Contributor: imp imp
I'm a mum, I co-parent with my partner, I don't really feel the need to hide what i do to anyone but I do respect the kink aspect can cuase some strange ideas lol. My full time job doing graphics is kept separate from my personal life although I think I am missing a huge chunk in the adult market workwise by doing this.
08/24/2009
Contributor: Darling Dove Darling Dove
I answered a student- But its not in the typical way. I'm undergoing mentorships for holistic healing training. I do not attend traditional college, but I actually share my knowledge with others. Most of my friends, mentors, and people I tutor have no clue about my sex life (except a couple who got mad when I wouldnt tell them, so I gave in)
08/26/2009
Contributor: Maiden Maiden
I'm a mother. Me and my fiance are open when it comes to our sex lives. We don't bring it up inappropriately (most of the time ...lol), But our close family and friends know how we are sexually. We answer any questions truthfully and sex is a frequent topic of conversation in our home.
08/26/2009
Contributor: Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
I'm a student, currently an undergraduate but planning on getting my PhD. My two majors are Neuroscience and Psychology. I spend my days in classes and working in a research lab where we study drug addiction and relapse. A bunch of my close college friends know I review sex toys, and one even knows about my blog. It's something I keep pretty quiet, unless I'm sure it won't freak people out.
08/26/2009