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What’s your “go-to” thing?

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Contributor: Stellar Stellar
There are tons of things we deem to be arousing, seductive or sexy. But what makes us cringe with passion? Let’s find out what our beautiful Eden Community think!

Mark your arousing triggers below and share with us what you feel when you see, hear, taste, feel those. Also, if I forgot to put something on the list, don’t be shy and complement in the comments.

I made this poll because I'm really interested in our community's preferences. After all, we can find out about our unique sexy style - wouldn't that be just wonderful?

Don't forget to check with our list of modern sexy triggers, get inspired or uncover your own turn-ons!
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Total votes: 125 (25 voters)
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Contributor: magicmac magicmac
I suppose dirty talk combined with the right touches gets me going.
01/12/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I must be easy. Almost anything gets me going.
esp when OW is parading around in tight clothing.
01/12/2016
Contributor: Stellar Stellar
C'mon, people, anyone else? Since when we on EdenFantasys became so shy?
01/14/2016
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
(Review Program Mentor)
For me, it really depends on the person and the situation what I find to be a turn on. If we're out in public, it's very different from if we're in the bedroom, for example. I'm about as easy to turn on as they come (no pun intended), so there's no one go-to thing for this girl.
01/14/2016
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Ear nibbles, blowing gentily in the ear, the feeling of her bare breasts on my back, her hand on the inside of my thigh... I'm sure I'm not the only one who is triggered by these subtle and not so subtle actions in addition to some of those listed above in the poll.
01/14/2016
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Just saw this topic today. My triggers by far are an emotional connection. My guy and I turn each other on after all these years just because we've grown closer and closer to one another. Of course movies, books, & toys add to the pleasure of the moment, but if we didn't have that bond then nothing could do it.
01/14/2016
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Hot and warm climates--Always!! So, anytime we are at the beach, it's on. There's something about the way the sun hits a half naked body that sets me on fire. Amy time we are dressed up for an evening (cocktail/party wear) Its a huge turn on. The feeling of a naked chest pressed up against my back--Oooo please. Kissing my neck and nibbling the curve of my waist turns me to jello. Last but not least, bind and blind fold me, and I will be gasping in pure delight!!!
01/14/2016
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I enjoy getting seduced by naughty talks.
01/15/2016
Contributor: Stellar Stellar
Maybe, some of you have some strange triggers, not so obviously sexual as those already listed?
01/18/2016
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
(Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Stellar
Maybe, some of you have some strange triggers, not so obviously sexual as those already listed?
Oh, I've got one of those! Some guys have laughs that make me a little tingly. I love to play and laugh, so if a guy has a sexy laugh, it's a big plus.
01/18/2016
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
I'm sorry, I didn't realize that was what you meant Stellar.

I'm not sure that the following falls under the "strange" category, but, I'll let you decide.

Women who wear backless tops or clothing that exposes their backs. I can't out it into words but is just something about seeing a woman's back, especially if it's even the slightest bit muscular, that to me says sexy.

Women in nerdy or stylish glasses. LOL, I never thought that vision impairment would be even the slightest bit sexy but for some reason to me, it can have an effect on me.
01/19/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I'm sorry, I didn't realize that was what you meant Stellar.

I'm not sure that the following falls under the "strange" category, but, I'll let you decide.

Women who wear backless tops or clothing that exposes ... more
Inq, is one of your fav tv shows Big Bang Theory ? The blonde is often bare backed and the brunette has very big glasses.
01/21/2016
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Inq, is one of your fav tv shows Big Bang Theory ? The blonde is often bare backed and the brunette has very big glasses.
It's not a hard and fast rule for me, it just ups the odds. For the record Kaley Cuoco use to play tennis and she was good!
01/22/2016
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by magicmac
I suppose dirty talk combined with the right touches gets me going.
For me, the look of passion on a woman as she is having or nearing an orgasm, especially if they have no idea they are being observed and are more relaxed and natural. Even if they are clothed or partially naked. That scene will always get my arousal raging, so extremely hot.
06/18/2016
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
For me, the look of passion on a woman as she is having or nearing an orgasm, especially if they have no idea they are being observed and are more relaxed and natural. Even if they are clothed or partially naked. That scene will always get my arousal ... more
Agreed! I forgot to mention that too. I also left out Confidence.
06/23/2016
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
This might be cheesy but my wife is my go to thing. Everything that she does turns me on.
07/10/2016
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
In the matter of fact, one of the sexiest things for me is when my fiance cooks for me. Food and cuisine, as a whole, is my realm, he is not as fascinated by it as I am and as I wish him to be. So any time I see him cook for me, standing in that kitchen, I'm ready to rip his clothes off at the spot. I see him cooking more frequently lately - he might be on to me
10/15/2018