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What's the longest you've been married, or with a partner?

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Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I'm after the longest relationship you have had, so it doesn't have to be the most recent, or the current one.

Since there are people in poly relationships, I have made this poll multiple choice
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
less than 1 year
2
1-2 years
12
3-5 years
7
5-7 years
8
8-10 years
4
11-15 years
2
16-20 years
3
21-25 years
2
26-30 years
1
31-35 years
1
36-40 years
41-49 years
1
50-59 years
60 or more years
I have never been married or in a commited relationship
4
other
Total votes: 47 (47 voters)
Poll is closed
06/08/2013
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Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I'm after the longest relationship you have had, so it doesn't have to be the most recent, or the current one.

Since there are people in poly relationships, I have made this poll multiple choice
I was in an on again off again relationship for 6 years.
06/08/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
We have been married for almost 20 years.
06/08/2013
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
Enjoying the bliss of 27 years.
06/08/2013
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
I've only been married once and that was short lived. I left after one of our fights 6 months into the marriage lol. I've been with the same booty call for 3 years, although I think that's over now. He has 2 many girls that I refuse to be second to anyone or anything other than his work and his kids. I'm beyond ready to settle down but he's not.
06/08/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I'm after the longest relationship you have had, so it doesn't have to be the most recent, or the current one.

Since there are people in poly relationships, I have made this poll multiple choice
Over thirty wonderful years for us...still in love and still having fun. Find the right person, grow together, appreciate your differences and it can all be a wonderful trip. Sure helps too, if they were, and stay, your best friend!!!
06/08/2013
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
We've been married for 24 years and hope to have many many more.
06/08/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
in a relationship for 10 years now
06/08/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
We've been married for 8 years this year.
06/08/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I'm after the longest relationship you have had, so it doesn't have to be the most recent, or the current one.

Since there are people in poly relationships, I have made this poll multiple choice
married 4 years, together 8
06/08/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
1.5 years
06/08/2013
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
My boyfriend and I have been together for about one and a half years. Going strong!
06/08/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by melissa1973
I've only been married once and that was short lived. I left after one of our fights 6 months into the marriage lol. I've been with the same booty call for 3 years, although I think that's over now. He has 2 many girls that I refuse to be ... more
Good for you, number one for getting out of an unsatisfactory marriage, though I'm sad for you that it didn't work out. And number two, for refusing to be second best, (obviously, his children & his work to support them come first in that regard). As long as you got what you wanted out of it for these past 3 years, that's fine, but I think you are worth a heck of a lot more than just being one in a string of available women! Good luck on your search for someone to settle down with!
06/08/2013
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
3-5 years
06/08/2013
Contributor: Nezzie13 Nezzie13
My current relationship is 1 yr and counting, and it's my longest. I know that's not much to some people, but for me it's amazing!
06/08/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
my wife and I have been together for 20 years.
06/08/2013
Contributor: Ayumi Ayumi
The longest I've been with a partner is almost 3 years.
06/08/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years.
06/08/2013
Contributor: GingerSpice GingerSpice
over a decade
06/08/2013
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
My fiance and I have been together for just under 5.5 years, and we're getting married in 9 weeks!
06/08/2013
Contributor: rosythorn rosythorn
We just had our 1 year!
06/08/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
4 years.
06/08/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
My late spouse died just about twenty two years to the day of when I first met her.
Now, my partner and I have been together for just over five years.
06/08/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
Until recently i have never been in a relationship that lasten much longer than 6 months, and was usually the one to terminate the relationship. Before i met my partner i was in a terrible "relationship" (being the 'other woman') for a little over a year, but when i met my current squeeze that all changed. We're not into the third year of our relationship (officially on the 2nd of this month ), and it's only gotten better and better, and i look forward to many more years with them!
06/08/2013
Contributor: ChaiMocha ChaiMocha
My boyfriend and I will have been together for 6 years straight in august. 7 years if you count the first time we started dating.
06/09/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
The one I am in currently has been the longest.
06/09/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
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Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I'm after the longest relationship you have had, so it doesn't have to be the most recent, or the current one.

Since there are people in poly relationships, I have made this poll multiple choice
The longest relationship that I have ever had was just under three years, but quite frankly, we'd been done for a while when we broke up. It was long distance, and it just wasn't working.

I've never really had a "relationship" where I've been in the same place as the person I'm seeing and we've gone out together on normal dates and had mutual friends and all that sort of mumbo jumbo. Maybe one day, though.
06/09/2013
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
My longest committed relationship was two years. After that, I stopped having committed relationships and really haven't missed them. I'm a bit of an odd-shaped puzzle piece and am finding that I prefer to be by myself.
06/09/2013
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
my S.O. and I are coming up on our 9th year together. We don't plan to get married, but do want to stay together forever.
06/10/2013
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
My partner and I have been married nearly 3 years, but have been together for almost 11!
06/10/2013