What do you wish you knew before you first tried sex?

Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
I wish I knew more about the physics of it. health videos, parents, teachers, they always stress the psychological aspect, but no one ever explained how difficult it can be just to lie right and get the penis in.
04/27/2012
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Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
To RELAX.

Or lube.
04/27/2012
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
That I wouldn't be a sex god on the first try. I was pretty arrogant, back when I was a kid, thinking that I would be great at everything. Unfortunately, my first few times only enhanced this belief. It was a short while before I realised that I had to do more than just stick my penis in the vagina. I wish I had known that beforehand. Would have saved quite a bit of embarrassment.
04/28/2012
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
Nothing, really. It actually went pretty well. :B
04/28/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
To realize it's going to hurt like hell to get that cherry popped. We didn't succeed the first time, but got it taken care of the next time we were together.
04/28/2012
Contributor: VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
I agree with unfulfilled! That it was going to hurt like hell. I mean I knew it would hurt but I didn't know how exactly it was going to feel and to what extent. It was really painful for me and we eased into it really slowly. It took a few days in a row to go all the way. Blah it was awful. I'm glad it's over and I never have to do that again!
04/28/2012
Contributor: Peaches2000 Peaches2000
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Originally posted by T&A1987
I wish I knew more about the physics of it. health videos, parents, teachers, they always stress the psychological aspect, but no one ever explained how difficult it can be just to lie right and get the penis in.
I always recommend sitting in a hot tub prior to round 1. It relaxes everything.
04/28/2012