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Contributor: K101 K101
Okay, I'm trying to get as many answers as I can about this. So what do you or would you love to hear in bed (or when being seduced) the most?

- A compliment? If so, what kind? Something like "I love your beautiful body?"

If compliments is what you love to hear most, do you like when it's detailed or will "you're hot" do?

Do you feel a kind of thrill when your lover says "I love your ..." and follows up with what they want to do to that body part? If so, what is the body part and why does it give you such a thrill?

Or is it something besides compliments? I personally think the best thing my partner tells me would be the compliments. They make me feel sexy and definitely tend to put me in the mood, but I definitely love dirty talk too.

Would you all care to share what it is you like to be told the most? Details are very welcome!
03/15/2013
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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by K101
Okay, I'm trying to get as many answers as I can about this. So what do you or would you love to hear in bed (or when being seduced) the most?

- A compliment? If so, what kind? Something like "I love your beautiful ... more
What I love to hear more than anything else in bed is the sound of both of my partners really enjoying themselves. The soft sighs and moans mean more to me than anything else since both of them are so very quiet. When the speaking devolves to nonverbal sounds that's when it gets really good.
03/15/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
I love the soft touches and little compliments. The best compliment, though is when he really gets turned on from something I did--to the point of almost or losing control. That is the ultimate compliment for me....
03/15/2013
Contributor: Chelynn67 Chelynn67
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Originally posted by K101
Okay, I'm trying to get as many answers as I can about this. So what do you or would you love to hear in bed (or when being seduced) the most?

- A compliment? If so, what kind? Something like "I love your beautiful ... more
I love to hear him talk dirty to me and be in control
03/15/2013
Contributor: lana.banana lana.banana
dirty talk
03/15/2013
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
What I love to hear more than anything else in bed is the sound of both of my partners really enjoying themselves. The soft sighs and moans mean more to me than anything else since both of them are so very quiet. When the speaking devolves to ... more
This exactly.
03/15/2013
Contributor: Herzer Herzer
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Originally posted by K101
Okay, I'm trying to get as many answers as I can about this. So what do you or would you love to hear in bed (or when being seduced) the most?

- A compliment? If so, what kind? Something like "I love your beautiful ... more
"Just as I thought honey. Tasting you in her was wonderful."
03/15/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I love to hear my wife tell me she's horny and what she wants me to do to her. She's pretty quiet on the sexuality front and I love it when she steps out of the box and tells me something more sexual rather than just asking if I want sex or simply starting sex by touching me sexually. Basically I like to hear her be aggressive in telling me what she wants rather than me guessing.
03/16/2013
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
I like compliments about my body and endearments. I also like some dirty talk. The best thing though is his moans and deep breathing. I love knowing I can do that to him.
03/16/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I love it when our kisses are more than a peck when he gets home, followed by him saying he's turned on. Him just telling me about it, outside of the bedroom or living room is such a turn on. We tend to have a lot sex in those two rooms, and any variety is welcome. Him just being vocal, and talking about anything other than the stuff he says over and over (i.e. "I love these titties").
03/16/2013
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
Him initiating sex It really sucks to be the partner that starts the show all the time.

seriously, I'm all kinds of frustrated lately!
03/16/2013
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
any kind of compliment
03/16/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
What I love to hear more than anything else in bed is the sound of both of my partners really enjoying themselves. The soft sighs and moans mean more to me than anything else since both of them are so very quiet. When the speaking devolves to ... more
Great answer! That's sweet that you care so much about your partners' pleasure.

Js250: I know what you mean there! When you see him get super turned on all over something you did. I always take that as a compliment too, when it happens to my partner. Lol.

Martiniman: thank you for sharing. My partner can relate there! Lol. He likes that too. Very much. I too tend to be sometimes on the quiet side, and he likes for me to voice what I want to happen. That's nice because it shows you care about her (our) pleasure too. I should open my mouth more! Lol.

jr2012: I understand. I forget that it feels nice to have your partner be the one who initiates it. It seems like these days, I've not been the one to initiate it. I guess because I've had a lot on my mind and so he's been the one to start it except for once this month. You reminded me that I need to do that!
03/19/2013
Contributor: Msmueller Msmueller
I'm a sucker for compliments but hubby wants detailed descriptions and dirty talk
03/19/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by K101
Okay, I'm trying to get as many answers as I can about this. So what do you or would you love to hear in bed (or when being seduced) the most?

- A compliment? If so, what kind? Something like "I love your beautiful ... more
my partner is very quiet so id like to hear just about anything
03/19/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Compliments, moaning, that she desires me.
03/19/2013