do men really complain about a loose vagina? my wife just mentioned something about wondering if assholes get blown out like vaginas...and i wondered, do vaginas really get blown out from sex? i mean, i can imagine that having children might cause some significant stretching, and cause a women to feel a little insecure about the size or elasticity of things down there...but, i wouldn't think that a dick would cause such a thing. i've never had sex with someone and thought for a second that "this pussy is blown out." i'm starting to think that this might be another of those horrible things that people say about women to make them feel dirty for having sex.

also, i have some understanding that as a women gets older there is some...settling that occurs in that area. this, also, seems not what a person would mean if they used the turm "blown out." so, is this something that really happens to women from having lots of sex, or just another of those ways to frighten a girl away from being sexual?