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Contributor: ARPKasso ARPKasso
Would you go into debt to have the best wedding ever?
01/03/2013
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Contributor: charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
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We did go into debt to have a wedding...and I'm glad I did it. We made smart choices, and spent the money on the things I really wanted and tried to save on the things I didn't care about....and we didn't have a super pricey dream wedding....but it was exactly what I wanted, and I'm glad I did it!
01/03/2013
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
Absolutely not! We're trying to keep our wedding as low-key and cheap as possible. There's no point in going into debt when starting a new life together...
01/03/2013
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
My wedding was paid in cash or by debit, and it was pretty cheap (and looked it, too).

If I should ever get married a second time, I probably won't go into much debt. The only splurge I can really think of is hiring a professional photographer this time. The rest would be amazing creativity and calling in favors.
01/03/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope, or at least not heavily into debt.
01/03/2013
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
We didn't go into debt for ours, and it actually turned out better than I expected it to originally
01/03/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I'd prefer not to. My parents seem to think I need to take out a loan to pay for my wedding. I'd rather have a small, intimate ceremony that I can afford so I don't start my married life off with more debt than my student loans.
01/04/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
My wedding was cheap and a hole in the wall wedding nothing to talk or brag about just ready to get my divorce
01/04/2013
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
No I wouldn't. I'm good at finding deals and decorating so I have a lot of mine planned out and it won't break us but would still look decent and definitely show our personalities.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
No, I wouldn't. It's one day. Now, I would go all out for things like food but honestly only because food is one of the main reasons I'd go to a wedding.

I know it's one day and a really special day, but not debt worthy. If I can't either save up for it or afford it in general, it's not worth it. I haven't even planned my wedding but I know I'm not going to break the bank or have to be paying it all off for a while.
01/04/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by ARPKasso
Would you go into debt to have the best wedding ever?
Hell no. That sounds like a pretty . . . un-wise thing to do. It'd immediately add stress in your new life. No. I would not. Saving up your money (which is what we did to have my dream wedding) is far more worth it. Then, you go into the marriage with only thoughts of how you'll begin your lives together, not by looking for second jobs just to pay off your wedding. Nope. Would not do it. Plus, I'm like a pro when it comes to finding amazing bargains. Some things are just crazy to spend loads of money on. Decorations? You can personalize them and do them yourself for so cheap! There are plenty of things you can do to cut wedding costs, but still have a gorgeous wedding. DIY is my BFF!
01/04/2013
Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
Hell no. We had a fantastic wedding and it didn't cost us more then $5000.
01/04/2013