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Update & Thank You's--Re: RIP 16 years of marriage

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Contributor: js250 js250
Update--
My ex has signed us up for counseling again and I agreed to try it, we start this week. I am vague about anything being accomplished due to my feelings about his actions and the person he is that could do that and expect forgiveness.

I still live in my place with the kids, but stay at his as well for personal and business reasons. I don't know how this is going to pan out--but have gotten re-grounded and sane. I took the time to regroup and am now back in action here--reviewing, mentoring and being an active member.

Thank You's--
I need to thank all of you who supported me, messaged me and your kindness and care really made a difference and helped me to deal with the last month. You are very special people and the community is amazing!! I really appreciate each and every one of you and your friendship!!
01/22/2013
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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
There isn't a chance I'm going to try to give any advice, nor did you ask for it. What I will say, is I'm wishing you nothing but the best of luck in what has to be a very difficult time. I hope it all plays out neatly, as these things tend to get messy. I'm in your corner and pulling for you, which ever way you decide to go. Good luck and I for one am glad you regrouped and rejoined us!
01/22/2013
Contributor: Chelynn67 Chelynn67
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Originally posted by js250
Update--
My ex has signed us up for counseling again and I agreed to try it, we start this week. I am vague about anything being accomplished due to my feelings about his actions and the person he is that could do that and expect forgiveness. ... more
Glad you posted your message, I understand what you have went through. I hope you get to find enjoyment.
01/22/2013
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
*hugs*
01/22/2013
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
I have been keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks for the update. I'm in your corner whatever you decide. Substance abuse issues do muddy the waters! Do take good care of yourself and surround yourself with people who love you and have your best interests at heart! It may take us a while to forgive him since we dont know him the way you do! I just want to see you in the best situation you can be in, and only you can decide that!!!
01/22/2013
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
You sound really good, grounded, and in control of YOURSELF. It's good to hear that! I wish you well as you move forward in the direction you choose. It's also really good to hear that you are taking care of yourself and your kids and grandkids. That's a healthy thing to do!

Be well, and please know that you have my support, whatever you decide to do! My inbox will always be open to you with no judgment.
01/22/2013
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
I'm so happy for you gaining "you" back even after all this. I wish the best for your relationship and I'm so happy to have gotten to talk to you and become (what I hope is) a friend to you. My inbox is always open.
01/22/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
Thank you so much!!! I do consider you friends--and appreciate your support through all this. I know I have my perspective back and am not giving in to him--but protecting my own interests and also that whatever I learn from the counseling is progress. With or without working anything out in the 'relationship'. You are all very special to me!!!
01/23/2013