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Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
Would you rather be tied down or would you rather tie someone else down?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'd rather be tied down
PinkPedal , Eva Schwaltz , Lio , padmeamidala , P'Gell , Redboxbaby , lunapixie , Redheadinfla , Shellz31 , Taylor , Collodion , Karen Affeldt
12  (20%)
I'd rather be tied down & blindfolded
ToyGurl , Dusk , kelaaa33wish , Deanne-s , CAKES , deletedacct , salaciousrex , tickle me pink , daniel and frances , liilii080 , cujo467 , DustBunny , IrishLassie , Reyes , Maeby , ichigostrawberry , [Red]
17  (28%)
I'd rather tie someone down, I don't like not being in control
Sir , dv8 , PiratePrincess , indiglo
4  (7%)
I'd rather tie someone down, I just think it'd be more fun
Owl Identified , BabyL0ve , darthkitt3n , Ms. Paprika
4  (7%)
Both
zizfaye , Sweet-Justice , married with children , Waterfall , Scott Ghost , Linga , SexyLilPixi , ToyingCouple , Sex'и'Violence , M121212 , newfoundlust , Cedarlooman , Akira , Devz , Lady Venus , zracer , slynch , LennaKieran , Dizzykakes , Miss Morphine , Airen Wolf , Lummox , Mika R. , sweetiebelle
24  (39%)
Neither
Other
Total votes: 61
Poll is closed
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Contributor: PinkPedal PinkPedal
Tied down!
05/21/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
BOth!
05/21/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
both, you have to mix it up
05/22/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Definitely tied down. Blindfolded and gagged is even better. Sometimes I get all three and earplugs, and once I got completely mummified in saran wrap with those as well. Just drink a lot of water.
05/22/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
My preference is tied down but I like to do both
05/22/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Definitely both! They're both a huge turn on.
05/22/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
We both prefer to be tied down, but being the one in control is good too.
05/22/2011
Contributor: Deanne-s Deanne-s
Quote:
Originally posted by GravyCakes
Would you rather be tied down or would you rather tie someone else down?
Definitely tied down and blindfolded. Nothing more liberating that completely surrendering control.
05/22/2011
Contributor: CAKES CAKES
Tied down and blindfolded! Sounds fun!
05/22/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by GravyCakes
Would you rather be tied down or would you rather tie someone else down?
Tied down
05/22/2011
Contributor: lunapixie lunapixie
Tied down.
05/22/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Hehe... fun ^.^
05/22/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
Tied down for sure

With a girl if she's really submissive, I think I'd be okay with tying her down. But for the most part and with my guy tied down
05/22/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Usually I'm the one who ends up tied down and blindfolded, which I don't mind in the slightest. Every once in awhile I like to be the one in control, but not too often.
05/22/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I usually prefer to do the tying, but it is very fun and gives me a hella rush to be tied as well...
05/22/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I prefer to be tied down!
05/23/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by GravyCakes
Would you rather be tied down or would you rather tie someone else down?
Depends on my mood.
05/23/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
Tie someone down. But it's not so much that I don't like not being in control, it's that I like being IN control.
05/23/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I like it when my guy takes control and owns me in the bedroom. It's sexy!
05/23/2011
Contributor: Dizzykakes Dizzykakes
I like to do both.
05/23/2011
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
I really enjoy doing the tying and decorating, but sometimes it's fun to be on the receiving end for such things. Gotta have variety!
05/23/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I like being in control more than being controlled
05/30/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I haven't tried being fully tied (just cuffed by the wrists), and I don't know whether I'd like being tied with or without a blindfold better. We shall see...

I definitely do like being controlled infinitely more than being in control. Makes me all fluttery and floaty inside
05/30/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by GravyCakes
Would you rather be tied down or would you rather tie someone else down?
I have a majorly bad habit of being tied down AND in control...submission is a definite challenge for me! I love having a willing victim as well.
05/30/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I'm not comfortable being the sub, so I voted tie someone else down. Though I don't really have much interest in doing either, to be honest.
05/31/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Tied down!
05/31/2011
Contributor: Ms. Paprika Ms. Paprika
I'd prefer being the one tying someone down-time to put those scouts skills to work!
06/15/2011
Contributor: sweetiebelle sweetiebelle
totally depends on my mood, most of the time I wanna be tied down but sometimes its fun to be in control ;p
06/15/2011