When Eden Cafe was giving away the V-Day gift boxes they had us answer some questions and this was one of them. What's more important romance or friendship?
This was mentioned on Eden Cafe in the contests. What's more important romance or friendship?
02/13/2012
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Its kind of equal to me....I find it really hard to pick
Originally posted by
unfulfilled
When Eden Cafe was giving away the V-Day gift boxes they had us answer some questions and this was one of them. What's more important romance or friendship?
02/13/2012
It's kind of hard to choose just one.
I mean, they both play a big vital part. If I had to have over the other though, maybe friendship.
I mean, they both play a big vital part. If I had to have over the other though, maybe friendship.
02/13/2012
For me friendship is the major bond that is a constant in a relationship. If you are friends with each other, you will have a deep, lasting connection that will sustain you through the bad times. Romance is just the fluff that makes it sweet. I would choose love and friendship over romance. Romance is what I had in High School, friendship and love is what I have now as an adult. Just my opinion, though.
02/13/2012
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I tend to lean more towards that answer. Ideally, a nice combination of both to keep spark alive and whatnot, but I would much rather know that I will always have a friend who will always be there through the good times and the bad.
Originally posted by
js250
For me friendship is the major bond that is a constant in a relationship. If you are friends with each other, you will have a deep, lasting connection that will sustain you through the bad times. Romance is just the fluff that makes it sweet. I would
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For me friendship is the major bond that is a constant in a relationship. If you are friends with each other, you will have a deep, lasting connection that will sustain you through the bad times. Romance is just the fluff that makes it sweet. I would choose love and friendship over romance. Romance is what I had in High School, friendship and love is what I have now as an adult. Just my opinion, though.
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02/13/2012
I think friendship lives longer time than romance relationship. In romance you have one chance only to loose the relationship.
It is usual to see a 20 years of friendship that shows respect, but you rarely find that in romance -as I think-.
It is usual to see a 20 years of friendship that shows respect, but you rarely find that in romance -as I think-.
02/13/2012
I need both in a relationship. When I first started to date men, I had a relationship that was a friendship with sex. He wasn't romantic at all- he would never take me out to a nice dinner, he wouldn't get me something that showed he cared, and I'm pretty sure he had no idea what spontaneity was.
What his idea of a relationship was for me to come to his house, we'd talk about books for maybe a few minutes, we would smoke and he would drink for a little bit, maybe have sex if I could talk him into it, and then he would either go to sleep or have me watch him eat something. It was so disappointing; if I wanted to do all of these things, I would have gone to my best friend's house, and we would have had more fun.
I don't want my man to buy me things, but I want him to show that he's thinking of me and that he cares about me. That could go from him picking a flower off the side of the road to making us a special dinner. It's not so much the act, as it is the thought behind it. I want someone that I can confide in and talk to, and someone that can tell me he loves and cares for me.
What his idea of a relationship was for me to come to his house, we'd talk about books for maybe a few minutes, we would smoke and he would drink for a little bit, maybe have sex if I could talk him into it, and then he would either go to sleep or have me watch him eat something. It was so disappointing; if I wanted to do all of these things, I would have gone to my best friend's house, and we would have had more fun.
I don't want my man to buy me things, but I want him to show that he's thinking of me and that he cares about me. That could go from him picking a flower off the side of the road to making us a special dinner. It's not so much the act, as it is the thought behind it. I want someone that I can confide in and talk to, and someone that can tell me he loves and cares for me.
02/13/2012
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