I've usually been the "odd" one in the relationship. I can only think of a couple times when my partner did something that blew my mind.

I've liked getting pegged from the first time. I was worried that it'd freak out my current gf before I brought it up to her. I've talked about it with 3 partners over the years and really NONE of them were against it. It made me wonder how many girls would want to strap one on and shag their boyfriend.

I don't do the golden showers, not my thing. It really grosses me out actually. less

My former boyfriend had an extreme "water sport" fetish. Basically, he liked urine. I'll just put it like that. I was just fine with it and it usually made me giggle, because if I needed to use the restroom in his presence he'd be trailing behind me wanting to. . . yeah. Haha!

I was never into anything like that, but I accepted it and since it gave him pleasure (plus it wasn't disgusting or degrading to me), I let him do things to me and I did things for him.

Has anyone else been in this same boat? Has anyone else been with a partner who had an intense sexual fetish that wasn't the norm?
(Norm meaning, kinky-ness, extreme hardcore, bondage, etc.)
How did you feel about it? Were YOU the one in the relationship who had the fetish, but your partner didn't? How did you or your partner react? less

Usually I'm the one with the weird fetishes in the relationship. My partners are into the s&m/rough sex thing at first but then get bored with it so then I get bored with them because I can tell that they're not into it so the sex suffers and we break up. less

I don't really have any strange fetishes. I like to get and receive pain, but I don't think that's a fetish. I have drunk blood, during sex, but I had my partner tested. Its a very risky practice.

I worked with a guy in Philly who liked fat women. He was a feeder and he had a gainer or a feedee at home. He liked to feed his women till they were incapacitated. Like over 600 pounds.

Its kind of like the movie Boxing Helena. Interesting and disturbinng movie with Julian Sand playing a surgeon obsessed by the perfect woman. She wants nothing to do with him. So he lures her into his mansion, drugs her, removes her limbs. Now she is dependant on him to be dressed, groomed (like a doll), bathed and fed, and in the end when the police come to rescue her she does not want to leave because what is the alternative? She was made into a freak, and here was someone who would love her and take care of her. less

I don't really have any strange fetishes. I like to get and receive pain, but I don't think that's a fetish. I have drunk blood, during sex, but I had my partner tested. Its a very risky practice.

I worked with a guy in Philly who liked fat women. He was a feeder and he had a gainer or a feedee at home. He liked to feed his women till they were incapacitated. Like over 600 pounds.

Its kind of like the movie Boxing Helena. Interesting and disturbinng movie with Julian Sand playing a surgeon obsessed by the perfect woman. She wants nothing to do with him. So he lures her into his mansion, drugs her, removes her limbs. Now she is dependant on him to be dressed, groomed (like a doll), bathed and fed, and in the end when the police come to rescue her she does not want to leave because what is the alternative? She was made into a freak, and here was someone who would love her and take care of her. less