The New Intimacy

Did you spend more on you or your loved one this Christmas at EF?

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Contributor: northstar northstar
C'mon, admit it! Once you add items to your basket for others, it's all too easy to add a few more for yourself, 'since you're ordering anyway'

So are you a generous george or a selfish sally? I know which I am!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
More for me
14  (29%)
More for others
19  (40%)
Equal amounts
15  (31%)
Total votes: 48
Poll is closed
12/25/2010
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Contributor: misslady misslady
How do you decide which to choose if what you bought for yourself is kind of a gift to your partner as well?
12/25/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Guess i'll be the first to admit I spent more on myself. Even if I add up every thing I bought my wife, secret Santa and the one I bought for my buddy here, I spent way more on my self.

But I love the precious...gollum...go llum...precious Eleven!
12/25/2010
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I bought just one thing for my boyfriend, and he's going to be buying the Liberator wedge for "us". I haven't gotten anything for myself. Ah well.
12/25/2010
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
When I use my holiday coupon from Eden, I am planning on probably spending a little bit more on the wife. Just have to decide what exactly to get.
12/25/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I barely spend anything on me from EF this xmas. I spent a lot on others though.
12/25/2010
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
I'll admit it. It's for me, all for me, and I'm damn proud of it. Especially being single now I'm only looking out for my own satisfaction. Maybe it won't always be that way though. We'll see.
12/25/2010
Contributor: northstar northstar
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Guess i'll be the first to admit I spent more on myself. Even if I add up every thing I bought my wife, secret Santa and the one I bought for my buddy here, I spent way more on my self.

But I love the precious...gollum...go llum...precious ... more
Like misslady, I bought things that were for 'both of us' but even if we'll both enjoy them, clearly they're more for me I did get him other items to make up for it though!
12/26/2010
Contributor: northstar northstar
Quote:
Originally posted by Darling Jen
I'll admit it. It's for me, all for me, and I'm damn proud of it. Especially being single now I'm only looking out for my own satisfaction. Maybe it won't always be that way though. We'll see.
Amen to that!
12/26/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Didn't spend anything this year for either of us in that area. Way too much other stuff to even think about it.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I mowed lawns and yards, and cleaned houses to get enough money scraped together to visit him earlier this month. Lots of hard work, but it was so worth it.
12/26/2010
Contributor: clp clp
I buy things that are for both of us. I guess that can be seen for 'both' or for 'me'; we both have fun either way.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
This is the first time I've ever spent more on myself - she's got all the toys - my collection is just getting started!
12/27/2010
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
Spent about $100 on him and about $50 on myself this year. I didn't buy for anyone else, we be broke this year!
12/27/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I ended up spending more on me, I'm bad, but I got other people stuff, so I don't feel too bad, lol
12/27/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Errr... EDIT

On EF... still more for him, but that's okay too.
12/27/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
i ordered 9.. yes 9 Faith's for the girls. So, yes I spent more on others.
12/27/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
The guy i'm sort of seeing thinks that sex toys for men are weird. He likes the fact that I have toys, but he smirks at me and jokes that they are a male replacement and then reminds me that he can do things that my vibrator can't, like cook. Lol
12/28/2010
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I didn't really spend too much since I had a lot of points and some coupons. I did get more for myself than for him, though some of it, like lingerie, was to surprise him.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
Me!!
12/28/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
Usually just me, but for Christmas, I tried equal.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Anne Ardeur Anne Ardeur
Didn't spend anything at EF. Or much of anywhere else.
01/03/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by northstar
C'mon, admit it! Once you add items to your basket for others, it's all too easy to add a few more for yourself, 'since you're ordering anyway'

So are you a generous george or a selfish sally? I know which I am!
I didn't spend anything on myself it was all on the guys and kids It's a sickness with me that I struggle with because I tend to spend on others because I don't feel as though I deserve to spend on myself. This year, though, there wasn't anything I needed/wanted so it was with a joyful heart that I got things for the guys and our kids.
01/03/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by KnK
The guy i'm sort of seeing thinks that sex toys for men are weird. He likes the fact that I have toys, but he smirks at me and jokes that they are a male replacement and then reminds me that he can do things that my vibrator can't, like cook. Lol
That IS important...though if they come out with an edible gourmet meal tasting vibrator men are in trouble....
01/03/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Really I spent an equal amount.
01/03/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
i spend more on my kids, but my wife gets some good presents also.
02/11/2011
Contributor: buzz buzz
While I didn't buy anything for myself on christmas, I am most certainly going to spoil myself silly for this valentines day. I just had a birthday at the start of the month and eden gave me a gift card, then they gave me a vday coupon, then they gave me a discount on a gift card. Omg I have so much I would be silly not to buy a bunch.

btw, who doesn't love eden?
02/11/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
Not for this Christmas, but in general I don't buy toys for myself on EF, only for my girl.
07/30/2011
Contributor: systematicweasel systematicweasel
It was probably more for my mate, but who's to say I can't have fun with it too lol
07/30/2011
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
I think I got more for my princess then me. Same with this year. That is what I'm planning.
10/20/2012