I definitely have a lot of social phobia. Currently nothing helps. I can only socialize through the internet, and even then it's still a bit of a struggle. I've never been able to get a job because I'm too afraid to talk to people or put myself out there, and if a class mentions that participation is a part of the grade, I drop it because I know I'll fail otherwise. I was on medication for my depression, and it was supposed to help anxiety, but it never did anything for my social phobia. Trying to force myself to socialize doesn't help at best, and makes things even harder at worst. It's just generally not fun.