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Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
Hello Everyone, I have a question.

When do you say, well.. this is enough. I'm done with this. It could include relationships, friendships, work related, ect. When is something ENOUGH for you? What is your breaking point for certain situation?

Lemme make it easier, because I know these are a lot of hard questions.

Example #1 : You are married. You are in an argument, what is your breaking point where it is enough? What sets you off so badly that you just need to walk away or punch something?

Example #2 : You have friends. You have a specific friend that lets you down all the time. You still stay friends with them because they are your friend. What is your absolute breaking point when it comes to friends?

These are just random questions and I really want to know your opinion about them. If you don't, that is just fine too.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
My breaking point is.. Let me explain!
Sodom and Gomorrah , brevado , dv8
3
My absolute enough moment is.. Let me explain!
I don't have a breaking point.. Let me explain!
I don't have an "enough" moment.. Let me explain!
Other -- Please Explain!
- Kira - , itismedi , js250 , Creepellah
4
Total votes: 7 (7 voters)
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08/18/2012
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Contributor: Sodom and Gomorrah Sodom and Gomorrah
My breaking point is probably when someone starts insulting. I'll get upset and probably say something I'll regret but I won't break up the friendship. I'm quick to say sorry and even if I don't agree I'll just let it go.
08/18/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I don't stay friends with people "because they're my friend." You're not there for me? Cool. I won't be there for you either. Problem solved. I don't tolerate that kind of bullshit. I don't do fair weather friends. I also don't have many friends because of this, but I'd rather have one or two people I can count on than 50 people who don't give a shit.

For my husband I usually call time out if he starts going into a rage. Like, starts yelling and cussing loudly. Also if the argument has been going so long I feel like I'm gonna lose it soon. We both go into different rooms for a while to cool off or he goes for a drive at this point.
08/18/2012
Contributor: itismedi itismedi
I like Kira have a low BS meter. I made a New Year's resolution a few years ago that I have actually kept. I cut the drama out of my life. That unfortunately meant cutting off several friends and it has been one of the best decisions I have ever made.

With my husband, we are pretty good at reading each other. If I am in a mood, he tries not to antagonize me and the same goes for the reverse. If he is in a mood, I will be mindful of it too. Very rarely do we FIGHT. When we do one of us will usually call it off when it seems to be going in circles.

My kids...They just exasperate me at times and I just say, "fine. Go ahead. Don't listen to the voice of reason". LOL
08/18/2012
Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
I don't stay friends with people "because they're my friend." You're not there for me? Cool. I won't be there for you either. Problem solved. I don't tolerate that kind of bullshit. I don't do fair weather ... more
Exactly! No bullshit.
08/18/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
With my husband it has been many times--the last year or so, though, I just head out and take a cool off period. He knows I am at my shop and I know he will not show up. When we are both back to normal and can calmly talk to each other I go back home--works for us and we do not say or do things we regret later.

Friends--if you are my friend, it means you have the same respect for me that I do for you--you do not bs me--you are there for me as I am for you. Backstab or cause excess drama--gotta go, will not tolerate that type of friends any more.
08/18/2012