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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
If you're at a party or get together and you're talking about sex or sex acts with a group of people of the same sex and a member or members of the opposite sex join the group, what do you do?

Do you keep proudly talking about sex and your sex life, do you become quiet and change the topic or do you simply walk away? Maybe something different?
03/29/2013
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Contributor: Munko Munko
It depends on the group of people, really. We're pretty open and we have some friends that are as well, if that's the case we just carry on, generally making it a bit more light-hearted though, and less about the nitty gritty details.

If I'm talking sex with one of my more reserved friends, and my SO, or hers walks in...we'd generally change the topic (Or, more likely, sit there giggling like school girls looking guilty because they KNOW!!)

But, it also depends on topic. Am I helping a friend work out an issue in the bedroom? If that's the case it's generally not something she or I would want to speak about with a bunch of other people. Are we just talking sex in general and not anything personal? Then we'd likely carry on regardless of who came in, or who the conversation originally started with.
03/29/2013
Contributor: Msmueller Msmueller
Depends on the group. I have one girl friend that tells me EVERYTHING and I tell her EVERYTHING then another girl friend that I'm convinced she doesnt think my husband and I ever have sex. I also have a male friend that I talk to about almost everything as well.
03/29/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
I dont really talk sex with my friends. It is more of a private conversation for my wife and I. I will talk about general things to do with sex.
03/29/2013
Contributor: bog bog
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Originally posted by Martiniman
If you're at a party or get together and you're talking about sex or sex acts with a group of people of the same sex and a member or members of the opposite sex join the group, what do you do?

Do you keep proudly talking about sex and ... more
I tend to be very open. Lots of reserved friends of mine have thanked me for showing them, through my TMI tendencies, how reserved they really are. Tons of my friends have really opened up through those kinds of conversations!
03/29/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Martiniman
If you're at a party or get together and you're talking about sex or sex acts with a group of people of the same sex and a member or members of the opposite sex join the group, what do you do?

Do you keep proudly talking about sex and ... more
Hard to answer, since I belong to a large group of couples and we always "talk about sex". No one "holds back" in that group.
03/29/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Msmueller
Depends on the group. I have one girl friend that tells me EVERYTHING and I tell her EVERYTHING then another girl friend that I'm convinced she doesnt think my husband and I ever have sex. I also have a male friend that I talk to about almost ... more
Too funny.
03/29/2013
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
If I thought they were like minded I would continue talking about it.
03/29/2013
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Like others it really depends on who I'm talking to and who walks up to us.
03/29/2013
Contributor: Chelynn67 Chelynn67
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Originally posted by Martiniman
If you're at a party or get together and you're talking about sex or sex acts with a group of people of the same sex and a member or members of the opposite sex join the group, what do you do?

Do you keep proudly talking about sex and ... more
I can talk about it but would feel the individuals out before saying too much
03/30/2013
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
It's pretty rare that sex would come up in a conversation with friends. If it does, I usually just make general comments.
03/30/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I would keep talking. I have nothing to be ashamed of!
03/30/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I don't kiss and tell.
03/30/2013
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
I love talking about sex at parties, bars, etc. It's so fun.
04/01/2013
Contributor: Zingy Zingy
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Originally posted by Martiniman
If you're at a party or get together and you're talking about sex or sex acts with a group of people of the same sex and a member or members of the opposite sex join the group, what do you do?

Do you keep proudly talking about sex and ... more
Usually focus the discussion on other people's experiencing, but actively throw in (supportive) opinions or jokes. I tend to keep my own interests and experiences very private.
04/01/2013
Contributor: Snick Snick
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Originally posted by Sera26
I love talking about sex at parties, bars, etc. It's so fun.
generally I to believe it depends on who I'm talking to however that doesn't always stop me from talking about sex this is 1 of my favorite subjects and you can learn a lot about a person when you you talk with him about sex they're like your likes and so on and even though some people I think it's intimate talk I believe showing trust honesty even though can be so much internet at times be as it may what a better way to get to know a person as well as the sharing details practices likes and dislikes tions to stimulate the mind and open it to me possibilitiesmorning of the things after all sex is just part of life like breathing eating Exedra use should be more honest with ourselves and not ashamed something that is natural for every human being and even some animals that actually enjoy sex like so many other things in life we all enjoyed nothing to be ashamed something to be celebrated and enjoyed freely trust and understanding honesty above all especially with oneself and then with others however sadly there are still many of us immature uneducated perhaps to see that still think sex is bad shouldn't be talking about tend to be jealous people instead of saying sex for what it is sharing with 1 another after all if your partner truly loves you Just Answer sexually attracted to somebody else doesn't mean they don't love you after up after the done with sex to your together you're into it together shit together stay togetherI can't think of a more poignant way of showing your love 1 trust ultimate expression of how much you love them but that's just my opinionthat said I like I started in the beginning be careful who you talk to you some people just can handle it fights in arguments are just no fun ice too shortto fight and fuss over such a little part of life even though this little part is a big big deal on both sides of the coin for all of us
04/01/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by Martiniman
If you're at a party or get together and you're talking about sex or sex acts with a group of people of the same sex and a member or members of the opposite sex join the group, what do you do?

Do you keep proudly talking about sex and ... more
i would talk but i guess not about everything.
04/01/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I really depends on who they are. If it's my family or people we're close to, I don't mind, we're open about sex. If it's a party full of people I don't really know, I'll give vague comparisons or something. Nothing specific or revealing.
04/01/2013
Contributor: jennifur77 jennifur77
It depends who they are. Some of my friends would never mention sex in public.
04/01/2013