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Contributor: Awkward1 Awkward1
I am new to exploring my own sexuality. I don't want to have sex yet - I just want others to
02/16/2009
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Contributor: tantric tantric
so... this means you use toys? don't use toys? Well either way welcome to the community and I trust that plenty of others do indeed want to have sex, so it seems as your wants have been fulfilled.
02/16/2009
Contributor: Awkward1 Awkward1
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Originally posted by tantric
so... this means you use toys? don't use toys? Well either way welcome to the community and I trust that plenty of others do indeed want to have sex, so it seems as your wants have been fulfilled.
Whoops! For some reason the last line wasn't posted in my question. Yes, I use toys, but I was saying also that I don't want to have actual sex yet, though I do want others to stimulate me, women in particular. I was wondering if anyone has personal expirience or advice about how I would find others interested in similar stimulation. I am still awkward, and don't know how to go about bringing up the subject with women I know or don't really know well. Are there places women can meet sexually, specifically in the VA region? I don't know how/where to start. Sigh....
02/16/2009
Contributor: Average Joe Average Joe
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Originally posted by Awkward1
Whoops! For some reason the last line wasn't posted in my question. Yes, I use toys, but I was saying also that I don't want to have actual sex yet, though I do want others to stimulate me, women in particular. I was wondering if anyone has ... more
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02/16/2009
Contributor: tantric tantric
sorry my post was irrelevant, (it did make me laugh after reading the rest, so it wasn't a total waste of typing) but once again it seems as if your wishes have been fulfilled, Joe has pointed you in the right direction, now it's up to you.
02/17/2009
Contributor: Dragon Dragon
You are what is called a "Unicorn." There was a thread awhile back on the entire subject. link

Just because you want to explore your sexuality without penetrative sex doesn't make you any less interesting. More so, in many cases. You just need the confidence and security to set your own rules - including safety.

Good luck and take care! I think we would all love to know where your adventures take you.
02/17/2009