how long did it take for you to be comfortable enough with a partner to reveal the entire truth of who you are in the bedroom? or do you still hold some things back?
Revealing one's sexual self
12/27/2012
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I haven't been with anyone for more than 3 years, and honestly it wasn't regular enough for me to reveal everything.
Originally posted by
misterazor
how long did it take for you to be comfortable enough with a partner to reveal the entire truth of who you are in the bedroom? or do you still hold some things back?
12/27/2012
It takes me awhile. Some stuff may come off as wierd at first. So I wait till I know the moments right.
12/27/2012
My basic stuff he accepted, although he's convinced there's more to me than what I've mentioned. Thing is, he doesn't have it in him to be a Dom, so he doesn't know exactly how much of a sub I am - hence, there's a part of my sexual identity that he'll never experience.
12/27/2012
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I still hold back because it would freak him out.
Originally posted by
misterazor
how long did it take for you to be comfortable enough with a partner to reveal the entire truth of who you are in the bedroom? or do you still hold some things back?
12/27/2012
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then perhaps someone someday will get a wonderful surprise. thanks for the post.
Originally posted by
ViVix
I haven't been with anyone for more than 3 years, and honestly it wasn't regular enough for me to reveal everything.
12/28/2012
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we all have 'em. that's what i was getting at. thanks for the post.
Originally posted by
Rod Ronald
It takes me awhile. Some stuff may come off as wierd at first. So I wait till I know the moments right.
12/28/2012
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maybe. maybe not. have you dropped hints? maybe he's worried that he would like it, and wouldn't know how to process that. or maybe he doesn't have it in him.
Originally posted by
Chilipepper
My basic stuff he accepted, although he's convinced there's more to me than what I've mentioned. Thing is, he doesn't have it in him to be a Dom, so he doesn't know exactly how much of a sub I am - hence, there's a part of my
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My basic stuff he accepted, although he's convinced there's more to me than what I've mentioned. Thing is, he doesn't have it in him to be a Dom, so he doesn't know exactly how much of a sub I am - hence, there's a part of my sexual identity that he'll never experience.
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are you sure? it would take more than i can imagine for my wife to freak me out. not that all men think alike, but sometimes we feel we need to tone it down so that we don't scare our partner. just a thought. thanks for the post.
Originally posted by
deltalima
I still hold back because it would freak him out.
12/28/2012
It took me a few years to entirely open up
12/28/2012
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