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What do you do or receive on your birthday or your partners?

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Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
I'm just wondering what you receive on your birthday from your partner, or what you give your partner on their birthday. Please feel free to explain.
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Whatever my partner wants
pinkcupcakes , sexyk515 , Solar Ray , Kaltir , PiratePrincess , Joie de Cherresse , onehotmomma , dv8 , starsNairguitars , MaryExy , Diabolical Kitty , Britt&Daniel , Gunsmoke , Kdlips , indiglo , CandyGirly , mcrustner , BlooJay , HarlequinBunnie , MnK , Allstars316 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Feisty
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He/she gives whatever I want
CandyGirly , HarlequinBunnie , Feisty
3
I plan something
onehotmomma , Hallmar82 , MaryExy , Diabolical Kitty , indiglo , slynch , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Sir , Feisty
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He/she plans something
Feisty
1
We ignore birthdays
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , indiglo
2
Total votes: 38 (27 voters)
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Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
It depends, sometimes we ask for things we need rather than things we want. This year for my birthday he gave me a set of matching license plates from 1981 that I can put on my Cadillac this year since where I live, if you have a vehicle registered as an antique, you can run year of manufacturer plates, rather than the antique vehicle plates. I had spent some time looking for these a few years ago, he spent 6 months actively searching for them. It meant a lot to me.

For his birthday, he doesn't ever want to do anything to celebrate, saying it's just another day. But I still try to get him something nice and do something to let him know that I remember and want to do something special.

We don't place a ton of emphasis on making sure we do something special for birthdays or other holidays, since giving things to make each other feel special shouldn't be limited to a few days a year.
03/19/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
whatever i get
03/19/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Whatever they decide. Usually it's something very small... we don't overdo things for birthdays.
03/19/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Anything he wants.
03/19/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
We usually leave it up to surprise. Over the year we just pick up on things we want and want to do, then choose amongst the best choices to surprise each other with.
03/19/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
We surprise each other and do something special, but don't overdo anything. He doesn't ask for anything so I usually have to be creative, but I enjoy that.
03/19/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I know she's like to give me whatever I want - but that would be anal and she's not able to go there yet - so it's a birthday bj for me. For my part I will give her whatever she wants - but she's too shy to ask!

Oh well - we love each other fully and have a very rewarding sex life.
03/19/2011
Contributor: onehotmomma onehotmomma
we don't do too much, but I am the planner in the family. I also have a baking obsession. I like to make cool cakes (castles, cars, etc.)
03/21/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I usually receive gift cards to Barnes and Noble, my favorite comic shop, or sometimes she gets me some good cigars (I read alot and don't get cigars very often). I get her some flowers and usually a spa day. Massage, mani, pedi and sometimes a facial.
04/21/2011
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It varies, but I usually try to throw a small surprise party with one or two gifts that I know she wants with a cake or something sweet to eat. We usually get a bottle of champagne too. Usually one of the presents is something erotic while the other is not.
04/21/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
all depends on what our cash income is.
04/22/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
whatever
04/22/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
We really are not into birthdays or holidays at ALL. However, if there's something he wants, I'll try to oblige. (But not all gifts have to cost money!) No parties, no major presents, but maybe something small and thoughtful.
04/23/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
We give each other gifts, either physical or, h'rrmm.... physical.
04/25/2011
Contributor: HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
I'm just wondering what you receive on your birthday from your partner, or what you give your partner on their birthday. Please feel free to explain.
I cook him a romantic dinner, make a cake, throw a party (sometimes), and give him the one thing he wants most of all- oral from start to finish. That last thing is the one thing I hate to do above all others so it is truly a gift.
07/14/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
I get my owner wants. She creates a list and I go from there.
07/15/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
We give each other general ideas for gifts, but not usually specifics, so we know what sort of thing the other wants and can work off of that.
07/15/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
I honestly rarely receive gifts that I actually want. All that I've wanted for years and years is someone to cook for me and give me a nice, relaxing day. Have not received it yet. I've had people buy me things...sometimes. However, that's irrelevant. I am fine without receiving something - I prefer for my birthday to just be a regular day, nothing particularly special about it.

I generally am very sentimental when it comes to gifts - I try to give partners the best gifts when it comes to gifting things.
07/16/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
we usually plan something special for each other on our birthdays!
07/16/2012