My and my wife have tried to have another baby for about 5 years now. After multiple miscarriages and a very nasy and nearly deadly ectopic prenancy that involved the removal of one of her tubes, we pretty much gave up all hope. Our blood types hate each other, which doesn't make matters any better. It took us nearly 7 years to concieve our son. So our chances were slim.
Today after 14 days past her period, she took a test as a fluke. She's pregnant and we are both scared shitless. We went and made sure at a clinic and called the Doctor that dealt with her ectopic ordeal. However, we still can't beat the cloud of dread over us both.
Has anyone else dealt with this? We haven't told anyone. We can not deal with another disaster like before. We got use to it, but still this can't happen again.
Any words from people who have been through this will help more then you know less

Has she had a rho-gam shot?

I think all you can do is to be hopeful. Be happy for what it is now and expect good things. Go to the doc and get checked out regularly if you're worried and keep a close eye on it. I don't want to sound negative but I think it's best to be happy and hopeful but at the same time not to completely give your hopes up if something happened to go wrong... not that I'm saying it will. Gosh, I don't know if this came out right or not. I hope you get what I meant. I'm wishing you all the luck in the world though. less