how many people are you willing to show your stash of toys to? I showed mine to 2 people. others know about them, though.
How many people are you willing to show your stash of toys to?
01/15/2014
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I'll show anyone who expresses the slightest interest, lol! So far that's nobody, but heck, the only people I wouldn't want to show would be maybe my parents, but only because I have so many and wouldn't want to hear them bitch about me spending so much money on all the toys, LOL!
Originally posted by
edeneve
how many people are you willing to show your stash of toys to? I showed mine to 2 people. others know about them, though.
01/15/2014
Not sure. I've shown it to 4-5 people. I guess anyone who is curious and open-minded.
01/15/2014
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Ahhh, Ohhh, very tough question. Or at least the answer is. We would show to another person/couple with similar interests in sexuality, but definitely not our everyday friends or co-workers.
Originally posted by
Wicked Wahine
I'll show anyone who expresses the slightest interest, lol! So far that's nobody, but heck, the only people I wouldn't want to show would be maybe my parents, but only because I have so many and wouldn't want to hear them bitch about
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I'll show anyone who expresses the slightest interest, lol! So far that's nobody, but heck, the only people I wouldn't want to show would be maybe my parents, but only because I have so many and wouldn't want to hear them bitch about me spending so much money on all the toys, LOL!
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01/15/2014
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Yep, I'll show it to whoever is interested, and so far only two of my friends have seen my toys...they were astonished by the size of my Eleven! LOL
Originally posted by
Wicked Wahine
I'll show anyone who expresses the slightest interest, lol! So far that's nobody, but heck, the only people I wouldn't want to show would be maybe my parents, but only because I have so many and wouldn't want to hear them bitch about
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I'll show anyone who expresses the slightest interest, lol! So far that's nobody, but heck, the only people I wouldn't want to show would be maybe my parents, but only because I have so many and wouldn't want to hear them bitch about me spending so much money on all the toys, LOL!
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01/15/2014
If someone showed an interest and they weren't trying to be a creepy perv about it, I'd show them! I have no problem showing off my toys.
Now, if they were a younger person that I didn't even think was ready for it, then definitely not. I'd keep that stuff locked up tight.
I met a girl over the weekend who immediately showed me her stash of toys and we became "besties" over it haha.
Now, if they were a younger person that I didn't even think was ready for it, then definitely not. I'd keep that stuff locked up tight.
I met a girl over the weekend who immediately showed me her stash of toys and we became "besties" over it haha.
01/15/2014
Anyone that asked to see it. Several of my friends know I have a bunch but none have asked to see it.
01/15/2014
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It's a great way to bond, isn't it?! When you see the person has high quality toys, for instance, you learn a little more about them and that they are educated about materials and not horribly prudish which is interesting. Then of course you can compare, recommend, talk and laugh about all of it. There is something freeing about bringing that out in the open, I don't know, maybe a thrill at sharing the naughty stuff with someone? I remember the huge popularity of the "Flash My Stash" feature they had here! People like to see what others have collected, it's just basic curiosity. I have had a great time meeting and talking to people on here about toys and then all sorts of sex topics. For some reason, it has turned out to be a good way to weed out people I wouldn't be compatible with, lol.
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
If someone showed an interest and they weren't trying to be a creepy perv about it, I'd show them! I have no problem showing off my toys.
Now, if they were a younger person that I didn't even think was ready for it, then ... more
Now, if they were a younger person that I didn't even think was ready for it, then ... more
If someone showed an interest and they weren't trying to be a creepy perv about it, I'd show them! I have no problem showing off my toys.
Now, if they were a younger person that I didn't even think was ready for it, then definitely not. I'd keep that stuff locked up tight.
I met a girl over the weekend who immediately showed me her stash of toys and we became "besties" over it haha. less
Now, if they were a younger person that I didn't even think was ready for it, then definitely not. I'd keep that stuff locked up tight.
I met a girl over the weekend who immediately showed me her stash of toys and we became "besties" over it haha. less
01/15/2014
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No, I totally get what you mean! It is a great thing to be able to share and talk and giggle like that with everything.
Originally posted by
Wicked Wahine
It's a great way to bond, isn't it?! When you see the person has high quality toys, for instance, you learn a little more about them and that they are educated about materials and not horribly prudish which is interesting. Then of course you
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It's a great way to bond, isn't it?! When you see the person has high quality toys, for instance, you learn a little more about them and that they are educated about materials and not horribly prudish which is interesting. Then of course you can compare, recommend, talk and laugh about all of it. There is something freeing about bringing that out in the open, I don't know, maybe a thrill at sharing the naughty stuff with someone? I remember the huge popularity of the "Flash My Stash" feature they had here! People like to see what others have collected, it's just basic curiosity. I have had a great time meeting and talking to people on here about toys and then all sorts of sex topics. For some reason, it has turned out to be a good way to weed out people I wouldn't be compatible with, lol.
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01/16/2014
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well, bonding didn't happen when I showed my toys to someone - it was a big mistake, huge mistake!!!
Originally posted by
Wicked Wahine
It's a great way to bond, isn't it?! When you see the person has high quality toys, for instance, you learn a little more about them and that they are educated about materials and not horribly prudish which is interesting. Then of course you
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It's a great way to bond, isn't it?! When you see the person has high quality toys, for instance, you learn a little more about them and that they are educated about materials and not horribly prudish which is interesting. Then of course you can compare, recommend, talk and laugh about all of it. There is something freeing about bringing that out in the open, I don't know, maybe a thrill at sharing the naughty stuff with someone? I remember the huge popularity of the "Flash My Stash" feature they had here! People like to see what others have collected, it's just basic curiosity. I have had a great time meeting and talking to people on here about toys and then all sorts of sex topics. For some reason, it has turned out to be a good way to weed out people I wouldn't be compatible with, lol.
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01/16/2014
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Uh oh... were they totally freaked out by it?
Originally posted by
edeneve
well, bonding didn't happen when I showed my toys to someone - it was a big mistake, huge mistake!!!
01/16/2014
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oh, and beyond.....
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
Uh oh... were they totally freaked out by it?
01/16/2014
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Eeep, was there yelling and lecturing and flat out disgust?
Originally posted by
edeneve
oh, and beyond.....
01/16/2014
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I am sorry to hear that! Of course, many of us would be interested to hear what the heck happened. I guess it depends on who you decide to share with, but really, that's a risk in most personal matters. Not knowing the circumstances, I have to wonder if it is perhaps better to know that the person is like that, even though you'd of course prefer not to have had it happen. Their reaction is a reflection on them, not you; you did nothing wrong by buying and enjoying sex toys.
Originally posted by
edeneve
well, bonding didn't happen when I showed my toys to someone - it was a big mistake, huge mistake!!!
01/16/2014
I'd like to second what Wicked Wahine just said, especially about their reaction being a reflection on them and not you!
I'm dying to know who the person was ... a friend, date, boyfriend? I'm also curious to what their reaction was exactly and why they had such a problem with it. Please do tell.
If you're not comfortable discussing it here, feel free to PM me.
I'm dying to know who the person was ... a friend, date, boyfriend? I'm also curious to what their reaction was exactly and why they had such a problem with it. Please do tell.
If you're not comfortable discussing it here, feel free to PM me.
01/16/2014
I'll show anyone who's interested. My best friend and I are even in the habit of bringing along any new toys we've acquired since we've last seen each other - enthusiasts and collectors need to be kept up to speed, haha! A friend with benefits has also seen part of my collection.
(Aaaaaand this is my first post in like, two years or so. *confetti*)
(Aaaaaand this is my first post in like, two years or so. *confetti*)
01/17/2014
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Hey Rin! welcome back!
Originally posted by
Rin (aka Nire)
I'll show anyone who's interested. My best friend and I are even in the habit of bringing along any new toys we've acquired since we've last seen each other - enthusiasts and collectors need to be kept up to speed, haha! A friend with
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I'll show anyone who's interested. My best friend and I are even in the habit of bringing along any new toys we've acquired since we've last seen each other - enthusiasts and collectors need to be kept up to speed, haha! A friend with benefits has also seen part of my collection.
(Aaaaaand this is my first post in like, two years or so. *confetti*) less
(Aaaaaand this is my first post in like, two years or so. *confetti*) less
I wish I had a friend in real life that I could show my stash to without it being weird. Lol.
01/18/2014
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We remember seeing a thread here on Eden where members sent in a picture of their stash. Some were very impressive and made us feel we were not the only ones with an arsenal.
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
Hey Rin! welcome back!
I wish I had a friend in real life that I could show my stash to without it being weird. Lol.
I wish I had a friend in real life that I could show my stash to without it being weird. Lol.
01/18/2014
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Oh that's cool!
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
We remember seeing a thread here on Eden where members sent in a picture of their stash. Some were very impressive and made us feel we were not the only ones with an arsenal.
I know I don't have quite the collection like some people do
01/18/2014
I'm honestly not really much of a toy girl, but I talk about lingerie with just about anyone who'll listen, and have no problem showing it to anyone when the topic comes up. If I were big on toys, I think that I'd likely be the same way with those.
OH, that is unless they're interested in me. I don't think that it would be wise to whip them out in front of those who would like to get in my pants, as it would certainly come off as a flirtation - I've made the mistake of showing the wrong guy my lingerie before, and he won't stop asking me to dance for him - but provided their curiosity was on a platonic level, I would be happy to bring them out.
OH, that is unless they're interested in me. I don't think that it would be wise to whip them out in front of those who would like to get in my pants, as it would certainly come off as a flirtation - I've made the mistake of showing the wrong guy my lingerie before, and he won't stop asking me to dance for him - but provided their curiosity was on a platonic level, I would be happy to bring them out.
01/18/2014
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I have had this happen before. I have told the wrong person before about my collection or something and they have taken it as flirtation and me wanting to get with them.
Originally posted by
surreptitious
I'm honestly not really much of a toy girl, but I talk about lingerie with just about anyone who'll listen, and have no problem showing it to anyone when the topic comes up. If I were big on toys, I think that I'd likely be the same way
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I'm honestly not really much of a toy girl, but I talk about lingerie with just about anyone who'll listen, and have no problem showing it to anyone when the topic comes up. If I were big on toys, I think that I'd likely be the same way with those.
OH, that is unless they're interested in me. I don't think that it would be wise to whip them out in front of those who would like to get in my pants, as it would certainly come off as a flirtation - I've made the mistake of showing the wrong guy my lingerie before, and he won't stop asking me to dance for him - but provided their curiosity was on a platonic level, I would be happy to bring them out. less
OH, that is unless they're interested in me. I don't think that it would be wise to whip them out in front of those who would like to get in my pants, as it would certainly come off as a flirtation - I've made the mistake of showing the wrong guy my lingerie before, and he won't stop asking me to dance for him - but provided their curiosity was on a platonic level, I would be happy to bring them out. less
01/18/2014
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Haven't showed them to anyone but, people know about them.......
Originally posted by
edeneve
how many people are you willing to show your stash of toys to? I showed mine to 2 people. others know about them, though.
01/18/2014
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Yeah, been a crazy... well, more like just one year, now that I think about it. Dad got a liver transplant, I started college, and like nine other smaller things happened. My toys have been severely neglected for several months, so I'm trying to rectify that.
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
Hey Rin! welcome back!
I wish I had a friend in real life that I could show my stash to without it being weird. Lol.
I wish I had a friend in real life that I could show my stash to without it being weird. Lol.
I lucked out in the friend department. My best friend's just as toy-crazy as I am. In fact one of our favorite things to do is to window-shop on Sex Street (my name for a two-block stretch of downtown Philly with four or five sex shops). Screw normal outings, I wanna gander at some fake penises, damnit!
01/18/2014
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I'll have to take another pic of my stash sometime. It's not tremendously larger (may actually be the same size, since I've discarded a few and plan on getting rid of a few more duds), but I honestly love having an excuse to line them all up.
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
We remember seeing a thread here on Eden where members sent in a picture of their stash. Some were very impressive and made us feel we were not the only ones with an arsenal.
I swear, when I have my own place, my bedroom will have a big glass display cabinet like one I've seen a few times here in the forums, so that my collection can out there for all to see (well, so long as no kids are visiting. Bedroom would stay locked then).
01/18/2014
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Nice! That's so awesome. My online friend and I will sometimes window shop together but its different when you can't actually feel and touch everything hahaha or squeal and go "oooh look at this one!"
Originally posted by
Rin (aka Nire)
Yeah, been a crazy... well, more like just one year, now that I think about it. Dad got a liver transplant, I started college, and like nine other smaller things happened. My toys have been severely neglected for several months, so I'm trying to
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Yeah, been a crazy... well, more like just one year, now that I think about it. Dad got a liver transplant, I started college, and like nine other smaller things happened. My toys have been severely neglected for several months, so I'm trying to rectify that.
I lucked out in the friend department. My best friend's just as toy-crazy as I am. In fact one of our favorite things to do is to window-shop on Sex Street (my name for a two-block stretch of downtown Philly with four or five sex shops). Screw normal outings, I wanna gander at some fake penises, damnit! less
I lucked out in the friend department. My best friend's just as toy-crazy as I am. In fact one of our favorite things to do is to window-shop on Sex Street (my name for a two-block stretch of downtown Philly with four or five sex shops). Screw normal outings, I wanna gander at some fake penises, damnit! less
Instead, I sometimes get lucky that my fiance wants to go with me.
01/18/2014
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We have a lot of fun turning on the vibrators and then making weird faces at each other. XD Kind of a "mad scientist" thing if I had to try and name it. We also make terrible sex puns and finger the masturbation sleeves, lamenting that we could only use them on our toys since neither of us have the right equipment or a readily available man.
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
Nice! That's so awesome. My online friend and I will sometimes window shop together but its different when you can't actually feel and touch everything hahaha or squeal and go "oooh look at this one!"
Instead, I sometimes ... more
Instead, I sometimes ... more
Nice! That's so awesome. My online friend and I will sometimes window shop together but its different when you can't actually feel and touch everything hahaha or squeal and go "oooh look at this one!"
Instead, I sometimes get lucky that my fiance wants to go with me. less
Instead, I sometimes get lucky that my fiance wants to go with me. less
... It occurs to me that perhaps I could ask my beneficial friend if he'd be interested (if we e'er meet up again, he's even busier than me). I know he has at least one toy of his own.
WOW I forgot how easy it is to be candid on a toy forum.
01/18/2014
I would probably not be showing anyone my toy collection unless we were also going to be using them together.
01/18/2014
We had some friends discover them when we moved. In the rush forgot to pack those first, they packed them and had a good laugh.
01/28/2014
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how fun. I used to have an EF friend that we together online searched fucking machines . it was a ton of fun discovering something different & sharing it w/ each other.
Originally posted by
Rin (aka Nire)
Yeah, been a crazy... well, more like just one year, now that I think about it. Dad got a liver transplant, I started college, and like nine other smaller things happened. My toys have been severely neglected for several months, so I'm trying to
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Yeah, been a crazy... well, more like just one year, now that I think about it. Dad got a liver transplant, I started college, and like nine other smaller things happened. My toys have been severely neglected for several months, so I'm trying to rectify that.
I lucked out in the friend department. My best friend's just as toy-crazy as I am. In fact one of our favorite things to do is to window-shop on Sex Street (my name for a two-block stretch of downtown Philly with four or five sex shops). Screw normal outings, I wanna gander at some fake penises, damnit! less
I lucked out in the friend department. My best friend's just as toy-crazy as I am. In fact one of our favorite things to do is to window-shop on Sex Street (my name for a two-block stretch of downtown Philly with four or five sex shops). Screw normal outings, I wanna gander at some fake penises, damnit! less
01/30/2014
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The first time (not that we have gone to that website a lot) we saw fucking machines in action, it was a big turn on. Think the place is in SF. There were vids of girls using them. They had brief "samples" of the action and if you wanted to see more I guess you had to pay.
Originally posted by
edeneve
how fun. I used to have an EF friend that we together online searched fucking machines . it was a ton of fun discovering something different & sharing it w/ each other.
01/31/2014