I had a great conversation with my partner last night and found out by just playing around that she still masturbates when I'm not around. This doesn't bother me at all, but I was a little shocked that in our sexual relationship she was not comfortable enough to tell me this. So...my question is does your partner know that you still masturbate when they are not around, or is it still your little secret?
Does your partner know you masturbate when there not around?
03/27/2012
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By the way, just to be clear I feel that everyone is entitled to masturbate! Viva La Masturbation!!!!!!
03/27/2012
he has no idea
03/27/2012
Of course!
03/27/2012
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There has been a few times that I have told him, but most of the times that I do it, I don't tell him. sometimes its when he is sleeping in bed next to me lol. But he doesn't know that I do that.....(Well, at least now he will, beings he is on this site too....lol)
Originally posted by
Rod Ronald
I had a great conversation with my partner last night and found out by just playing around that she still masturbates when I'm not around. This doesn't bother me at all, but I was a little shocked that in our sexual relationship she was not
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I had a great conversation with my partner last night and found out by just playing around that she still masturbates when I'm not around. This doesn't bother me at all, but I was a little shocked that in our sexual relationship she was not comfortable enough to tell me this. So...my question is does your partner know that you still masturbate when they are not around, or is it still your little secret?
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03/27/2012
We share the information so we always know what each other is up to.
03/27/2012
Masturbation is actually one of our favorite parts of sex. We do it together, for each other and with the other person in the room or bed.
03/27/2012
yup they know and love it
03/28/2012
I'd be surprised if a guy didn't masturbate even if he was with me, so I can't really see myself hiding that I do it.
03/28/2012
It's kind of sad - but after 22+ years we've never discussed it. I have encouraged her to use our toys when I travel - the only time she admitted to doing it was when I told her to experiment with the Pure Wand and teach me how to do it. That worked out great - but never went beyond that.
03/28/2012
I'll let him know when I'm going to if he's around. We know that sometimes one of us is frisky and the other one isn't. We're open about it.
03/28/2012
I don't only know, I really enjoy the fact that she does
04/27/2012
Once in a while he ventures a (correct) guess as to what I spend the nearly non existent private time I get doing, but most of the time he doesn't really ask because he knows I'm too shy still to go into any sort of detail.
We're pretty open with each other...but sex is still something I'm rather private about with him unless we're discussing his likes and dislikes so I can get evil ideas on fun ways to play with him. <w<
We're pretty open with each other...but sex is still something I'm rather private about with him unless we're discussing his likes and dislikes so I can get evil ideas on fun ways to play with him. <w<
04/27/2012
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Yes, he knows, and he's ok with it.
Originally posted by
Rod Ronald
I had a great conversation with my partner last night and found out by just playing around that she still masturbates when I'm not around. This doesn't bother me at all, but I was a little shocked that in our sexual relationship she was not
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I had a great conversation with my partner last night and found out by just playing around that she still masturbates when I'm not around. This doesn't bother me at all, but I was a little shocked that in our sexual relationship she was not comfortable enough to tell me this. So...my question is does your partner know that you still masturbate when they are not around, or is it still your little secret?
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04/27/2012
yup!
04/27/2012
LDR, of course we masturbate. Sometimes he sees, sometimes it's by myself. It's all good. No jealousy or insecurities.
04/28/2012
sure do
04/28/2012
Of course!
04/28/2012
Yes, it is kind of obvious when he comes home and there are clean vibrators airing out all over the bathroom counter.
04/28/2012
i once told a girl i was dating that i was wacking off. she asked what am i doing when she called and i was honest. she got upset and said that my cock is hers and only she can give me pleasure lol
04/28/2012
i get the urge to tell him, but half the time i don't even half to. i tend to leave my toys out XD he knows when he goes into the bedroom
04/28/2012
Of course. My partner and I are completely open about sex and we both love to masturbate as well as have sex with each other. When we get the chance to masturbate together we do (or we masturbate separately over voice chat so we can watch porn/hear each other. Masturbation is great and you should be able to do it whether you are in a relationship or not.
04/28/2012
I feel like this should be assumed, no? I would assume it, anyways. If not, I would tell them openly of course. =P
04/28/2012
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Yes, she knows I have things so it's obvious.
Originally posted by
Rod Ronald
I had a great conversation with my partner last night and found out by just playing around that she still masturbates when I'm not around. This doesn't bother me at all, but I was a little shocked that in our sexual relationship she was not
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I had a great conversation with my partner last night and found out by just playing around that she still masturbates when I'm not around. This doesn't bother me at all, but I was a little shocked that in our sexual relationship she was not comfortable enough to tell me this. So...my question is does your partner know that you still masturbate when they are not around, or is it still your little secret?
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04/29/2012
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