If your lover has a cold/ is sick, would you still want to sleep with them?

Contributor: Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
Well I dont have a boyfriend, but if I did and he was sick I wouldnt wanna kiss or anything like that... maybe have sex in some positions where our faces werent close lol
07/16/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
depends on how sick, a little sick no biggie
07/21/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
I can't afford to get sick cause of health issues
07/21/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
if i got a cold or if he has a cold, i still want some. if either of us is throwing up, i might have to pass up
07/22/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I drink raw milk, so I'm pretty sure my immune system is well protected. I'm not worried about getting sick.
07/22/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I won't want to have sexy intimacy if I'm sick, but I will probably want snuggling. Sleeping in the same bed is fine and good, but nothing scandalous will happen until everyone's recovered
07/22/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
I will usually if they're sick, but if I'm sick I've generally got no libido.
07/22/2011
Contributor: v23 v23
Doesn't bother me. . . I take care of him.
07/26/2011
Contributor: playtimeohsofun playtimeohsofun
we just dont kiss if sore throat or running nose or do oral either if we are super sick like flu then no
07/26/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
There would be some comforting cuddling if either of us is sick, but zero kissing/sex/etc until either the sickness is over.
08/07/2011
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
If he's sick, i usually get sick whether we're apart or not, so it doesn't matter to me.. since one of us almost always has a sinus infection anyways.
11/20/2011
Contributor: KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
As long as they wont die if we have sex we will.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
I'd prefer not too, but it's good because when my partner is sick, he doesn't want to either so it works for us.
11/20/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
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Originally posted by *Ashley*
So if you haven't figured it out, I'm sick. We'll, I have a funky nose. I don't feel very attractive so I don't want to get intimate with my partner. Who would want to hear sniffling and sneezing while having sex. Don't forget ... more
I dont care! if they are in my household more than likely i will get it anyways so i dont let a cold or whatever get in the way!as long as they feel up to par to do it then im game!
11/20/2011
Contributor: Nora Nora
If he's sick, I'm going to get it anyway and vice versa, but generally we both steer clear of each other when we are "that" sick.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
It'd have to be something pretty bad to keep me away.
11/20/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
I'm fine with it, unless the sickness has rendered me totally debilitated. But my honey doesn't really like doing anything like that when he's sick. Then he just wants cuddles.
11/20/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by *Ashley*
So if you haven't figured it out, I'm sick. We'll, I have a funky nose. I don't feel very attractive so I don't want to get intimate with my partner. Who would want to hear sniffling and sneezing while having sex. Don't forget ... more
if he's sick, i usually get sick, and vice versa. its just the way of the world. he INSISTS on kissing me even when i'm sick, despite my protests, to make me feel better. then he gets sick. its pretty silly, but it's what we do. i think lovin' makes you feel better faster than medicine anyway.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Trishcuit629 Trishcuit629
Quote:
Originally posted by *Ashley*
So if you haven't figured it out, I'm sick. We'll, I have a funky nose. I don't feel very attractive so I don't want to get intimate with my partner. Who would want to hear sniffling and sneezing while having sex. Don't forget ... more
Having sex actually helps the immune system. That means that you get better faster if you have sex while sick
11/20/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
We still do it with little mouth contact and skip oral as well. Unless we are extremely sick.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
Sure, sick people need TLC
11/20/2011
Contributor: GenderSexplorations GenderSexplorations
Depends on how sick they are but usually it doesn't bother me.
11/21/2011
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
Depends how sick he or I am, if we can tolerate sex then sure why not.
12/05/2011
Contributor: Cherry21 Cherry21
Quote:
Originally posted by *Ashley*
So if you haven't figured it out, I'm sick. We'll, I have a funky nose. I don't feel very attractive so I don't want to get intimate with my partner. Who would want to hear sniffling and sneezing while having sex. Don't forget ... more
Doesn't bother me, but I've been with my husband for 8 years, lol. We've had sex with leg casts on, thats not easy!
12/07/2011
Contributor: Drakoni Drakoni
Unless we're talking crawl in bed and dead to the world type of sick, we'll still have sex. That is how we found out that I clench my Kegels when coughing. My mate gets squeezed every time we have sex while I have a cold. LOL
12/10/2011
Contributor: beachluv51800 beachluv51800
I am a big germ phobic, so no sex, no kissing and yes, sleep in the other room - LOL!
12/10/2011
Contributor: HomuHomu HomuHomu
He can blow his snot all over me, as if I care. XD He's my HUSBAND, I'm perfectly comfortable with all of his grossness.
12/10/2011
Contributor: Paula Paula
Quote:
Originally posted by *Ashley*
So if you haven't figured it out, I'm sick. We'll, I have a funky nose. I don't feel very attractive so I don't want to get intimate with my partner. Who would want to hear sniffling and sneezing while having sex. Don't forget ... more
A little cough is not a big deal but anything more is not gonna happen. My parner feels the same way though.
12/10/2011
Contributor: OroNomi OroNomi
Quote:
Originally posted by Jobthingy
Chances are, if you are living in the same house, sleeping in the same bed, you are going to get it anyways. If were in the mood while sick, of course.
This is exactly how I feel. We spend every day together and even work together, so it would only be a matter of time anyway. Might as well get it on if we're feeling well enough to do so!
12/10/2011
Contributor: joja joja
I usually figure that if they're sick, I'm gonna get it regardless of whether we have sex. That said, I have a pretty good immune system and often don't get sick when my SO does.
12/10/2011