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Is it better to have loved and lost?

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Contributor: lulz lulz
Do you think it's better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all?

If you've never loved then you wouldn't really know what you're missing out on and would probably be less depressing than if you had something and you lost it.
02/23/2013
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Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I'm in the middle of losing someone right now, someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I know that I truly Love him, and we're "on break" because of the Child Issue. I'm likely going to lose him because he wants children, and I don't.

At this point, having finally experienced Love in a healthy relationship, I wished I never did due to having to lose him. What's the fucking point of finally attaining Love only to have it taken away? It gives credence to the existence of the Puritan God that punishes anything wonderful in our lives.

It's heartbreaking, and fills you with regrets for the rest of your life. As well as failure in having The One that got away.
02/23/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
I'm in the middle of losing someone right now, someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I know that I truly Love him, and we're "on break" because of the Child Issue. I'm likely going to lose him because he wants ... more
If you both love each other and want to be together--why not try counseling to work out a possible alternative to having a child? Then if there is no compromise for either of you at least you will have a closure without regrets and what ifs....Hugs, Hon--I am so sorry you are dealing with this!!!
02/23/2013
Contributor: rihanne rihanne
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Originally posted by lulz
Do you think it's better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all?

If you've never loved then you wouldn't really know what you're missing out on and would probably be less depressing than if you had something and you lost it.
no.
02/23/2013
Contributor: hillys hillys
Loved and lost. It's sad, but you are living life as much as you can. no regrets.
02/23/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by lulz
Do you think it's better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all?

If you've never loved then you wouldn't really know what you're missing out on and would probably be less depressing than if you had something and you lost it.
yes i do! sharing love is worth the loss, wether it be death or someone leaving.
02/23/2013