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Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
I'm trying to determine what I should spend my points on here...

Here is the issue...
I love lingerie, and would love to have multiple really sexy outfits to wear for my vacation to see someone special. My vacation is coming up in less than 2 months.

But, I'm also trying to lose a bit a weight (erm..rather, go from 175lbs to 145 -- obviously not in 2 months, but over time), and so there is a chance that anything I buy won't fit me for very long.

So as I sit here thinking of what I should do with my points, I feel torn.
Should I buy new lingerie that may only fit me for a few months, and really will only be worn once or twice? (my guy is not local, so I don't get to dress up for him often)

Should I buy new toys, even though I have a ton as it is?

Or should I simply save up?

What would you do?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Buy the lingerie!
Badass , Lover of Leather , Highmaintenancegirl916 , Moein
4  (15%)
Buy some new toys!
Ms. Spice
1  (4%)
Save your points!
MrWishyWashy , BlooJay , Beck , Breas , The Majikat , CSEA , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Sohotdinosaur , ~LaUr3n~ , blacklodge , FemmeFlo , calliope , bayosgirl , NicNat , PassionateLover2 , DeliciousSurprise , Vanille , Ms. N , OhMy! , dv8
20  (74%)
Other -- explain in comments.
JessCee , Gracie
2  (7%)
Total votes: 27
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Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I would save more points until you feel comfortable that the lingerie that you buy can be worn more than a couple of times.
02/04/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
i would buy the lingerie, with valentines day coming up, why not?
02/04/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
i would buy the lingerie, with valentines day coming up, why not?
Well..unfortunately I won't see my guy on Valentines day.

Part of me is thinking, going to see him counts as a special occasion, so I should treat myself to some sexy outfits even though I'm hoping to lose weight. Hmmm..maybe if I purchase babydoll styles, they'll fit me for longer?
02/04/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by BlooJay
I would save more points until you feel comfortable that the lingerie that you buy can be worn more than a couple of times.
I agree
02/04/2012
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
Save your points until you've lost the weight, then treat yourself to lots of sexy lingerie.

Or buy yourself a very special toy for Valentine's Day. That's what I plan to do.
02/04/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
Save so you can get lingerie that fits later. Maybe get a few now in your goal size as motivation.
02/04/2012
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
If it were me, I would buy one or two things, just to kind of "get my fix" but NOT spend all of my points, and then save up.
02/04/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Quote:
Originally posted by JessCee
If it were me, I would buy one or two things, just to kind of "get my fix" but NOT spend all of my points, and then save up.
I think that's what I'm most likely going to do. Their are a few one size fits most pieces that I know I could fit in, based on the reviews, so I think I will get those, and maybe one or two sized pieces just to have something special for the occasion.
02/04/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Quote:
Originally posted by calliope
Save so you can get lingerie that fits later. Maybe get a few now in your goal size as motivation.
I thought about doing this, but I'm having trouble figuring out what my goal size is with most of the brands.

I mean, I could probably go down to a medium in Dreamgirl lingerie now, as the last few chemises and babydolls I've had from them have fit loosely around my midsection. The trouble is, I'm a large C or small D cup, and tend to almost pop out of the cups of Dreamgirl larges. So... while I would do a medium -- I don't know if my breasts are going to get smaller or not when I lose weight..
02/04/2012
Contributor: NicNat NicNat
Save up.. If you saveup you can get stuff that'll fit you longer and you'll have more points so you could more lingerie.
02/04/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by BlooJay
I would save more points until you feel comfortable that the lingerie that you buy can be worn more than a couple of times.
I think this is a good answer. There will be some weekly discount to use together with your points!
02/04/2012
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
You may want to buy just one of each stage of your transition to the new you--that way you're indulging yourself but not spending allll your points.
02/04/2012
Contributor: Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
i think lingerie would be good cause even if u lose weight some will still fit nicely.
02/04/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
It is hard to vote not knowing what you have. I would think you need a few things to wear that help you feel pretty and sexy the size you are right now on the upcoming trip. If you have stuff that is working for you definitely save your points, but if not go shopping girl!
02/04/2012