When being intimate, do you prefer the lights to stay on? Or, do you prefer to have them off?
Lights ON or OFF?
03/09/2012
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On.
03/09/2012
Definitely on.
03/09/2012
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There are times when it "does matter" to me, but normally, if we're in the moment, I really don't take too much thought to it.
Originally posted by
SimpleTeaser
When being intimate, do you prefer the lights to stay on? Or, do you prefer to have them off?
03/09/2012
we like candles : D
03/09/2012
Whichever they happen to be at the time, though we do occasionally dim them if one of us ends up "staring" at the light bulb...
03/09/2012
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I don't care. Though I do tend to laugh if we are fumbling around in the dark.
Originally posted by
SimpleTeaser
When being intimate, do you prefer the lights to stay on? Or, do you prefer to have them off?
03/09/2012
i dont mind either way
03/09/2012
I generally like the lights off, so i can focus on feeling and not how i look...
03/09/2012
I figure if they minded how I looked nekked we wouldn't have gotten to the sexing stage, and I have the selfish need to look at the person I'm with. Thinking about how I look doesn't really occur to me at these times (thank god!)but seeing my sig. other is really important to me.
03/09/2012
Depends on my mood, and how much time we have
03/09/2012
I used to be 100 pounds smaller and I could care less if lights were on or off, but now that Ive gained so much weight i still will have sex with lights on or during the day but prefer them off.
03/09/2012
It doesn't matter to me. I don't think we've had sex in the dark very often, though. We're both big and we don't give a damn. We know what we look like naked so why should we care?
03/09/2012
Doesn't really matter. I don't mind the lights being on -- I want to see everything anyways and I don't mind the lights off. As long as it is with someone I care about, done deal. xoxo
03/09/2012
It doesn't really matter, but I'd prefer candle light or something, so they aren't all the way on, but I can still see my partner.
But, you can't really turn the sun off with day sex, so that's why it doesn't really matter.
But, you can't really turn the sun off with day sex, so that's why it doesn't really matter.
03/10/2012
Thank you all for sharing! I am glad to see that I'm not alone in why I prefer the lights to be off.
03/12/2012
Whatever my partner is in the mood for.
03/12/2012
Whatever happens.
03/30/2012
I used to leave them on, then I was with a few guys who preferred to turn them off. Personally I'm not too bothered.
03/30/2012
Doesn't matter to us.
03/30/2012
Mood lights!
03/30/2012
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