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Contributor: Badass Badass
Do you prefer to get it on with the lights on or off?
Why?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
On
ladychristie , PeachieClean , AndroAngel , Moein , Beck , SexyRayne , Howells , dv8 , TheSlyFox , mpfm , Mwar , kz916
12  (28%)
Off
OrangeKushBB , Puss in Boots , deltalima , slynch , rawsonbr
5  (12%)
Other...?
Coralbell , js250 , Rossie , OhMy! , Secret Pleasure , True Pleasures , spunkmonkey , Eliyahu , Missmarc , PassionateLover2 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Lucky21 , Lover of Leather , All His , NicNat , GravyCakes , PDXlady , LacyRogue , BlooJay , Sunshineamine , Do emu , Ice1 , darthkitt3n , ViVix , mistressg , Various
26  (60%)
Total votes: 43
Poll is closed
02/10/2012
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Contributor: OrangeKushBB OrangeKushBB
It's more romantic with a candle lit too, regardless if you're having passionate sex or rough sex (:
02/10/2012
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I prefer dim lighiting or candle light.

We almost always light candles when we have sex at my boyfriend's. I hate not being able to see what I'm doing, but his room has horrible fluorescent lighting that's really bright and unflattering and definitely doesn't help set the mood.

My room has a chandelier with a dimmer switch, so when we're here we usually dim the lights a little, and sometimes add candles as well.
02/10/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
We always have dim lighting or candles. I love seeing him and know he's watching me as well.
02/10/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
We have the nightlight on and it's bright enough for us.
02/10/2012
Contributor: ladychristie ladychristie
I voted on but it really doesn't matter
02/10/2012
Contributor: Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
I voted other because I gthink it depends. I am comfortable with the lights on but if i have the choice lights off is better.
02/10/2012
Contributor: PeachieClean PeachieClean
On! I like seeing everything clearly. We've only done it a handful of times with the light off, and that was only because he woke me up for sex and the light was already off.
02/10/2012
Contributor: Puss in Boots Puss in Boots
I prefer off. I'm not a very visual person and it allows me to focus on other senses.
02/10/2012
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
Doesn't matter to us either way.
02/10/2012
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I prefer the lights on, because that means that I get to see him, and he is definitely worth watching. I think direct daylight is best, worth waking up for.
02/10/2012
Contributor: Moein Moein
On, but not soo light. Also candles can be a choice.
02/10/2012
Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
Both.
02/10/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Coralbell
I prefer dim lighiting or candle light.

We almost always light candles when we have sex at my boyfriend's. I hate not being able to see what I'm doing, but his room has horrible fluorescent lighting that's really bright and ... more
Sounds good.
02/11/2012
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Eye contact is important for us so we always have some form of low lighting. Dim lights or candles are essential.
02/11/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
really depends on what we're doing, really...
02/11/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by Puss in Boots
I prefer off. I'm not a very visual person and it allows me to focus on other senses.
I dig!
02/11/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you prefer to get it on with the lights on or off?
Why?
Both, I am fine with either
02/11/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
I prefer dim lighting or candle light.
02/11/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Depends on my mood at time.
02/11/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I like to watch everything.
02/11/2012
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
I'm a visual person, but I do like both.
02/11/2012
Contributor: Lover of Leather Lover of Leather
Lights on or off, with candles, outside during the day, or night, it's all good!!!
02/11/2012
Contributor: All His All His
as long as the hubby's doin me i could care less about the lights lol
02/11/2012
Contributor: NicNat NicNat
It really dosent matter. It just depeneds when we decide to have sex.
02/11/2012
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
depends on my mood
02/11/2012
Contributor: PDXlady PDXlady
Depends
02/11/2012
Contributor: LacyRogue LacyRogue
Dim lighting. But candlelight really is the best
02/11/2012
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
On, usually. I like to see his reaction to stuff.
02/19/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I like light on most of the time. Sometimes I like just a small lamp on.
02/19/2012