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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
In my favorite sexual fantasy the following categories are prevalent or have major involvement...........

Multiple answers are possible so please select all that apply.

Please share only what you're comfortable with, but details and explanations are appreciated as I'm very curious as to what others fantasize about when it comes to sex.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
My favorite sexual fantasy is more romantic than sexual.
K101 , PropertyOfPotter , Taylor
3
My favorite sexual fantasy is more sexual than romantic.
bayosgirl , Silverwinds , TJtheMadHatter , K101 , melissa1973 , ViVix , MrWill , karenm , CutiePatootie , Gleb , Kirill Klyuchnik , Herzer , Evgeny Kravtsov , femmepwr , Sbmsvschoolgirl , Adnerbmw , padmeamidala , Loriandhubby , Sammi , KinkyKatieJames , Leather & Lace , LavenderSkies , Martiniman , solitudinarian , Allison.Wilder , bratcat , lilacviolet , potstickers , mdnght , Checkmate , Eugler , LoneOokami
32
My favorite sexual fantasy is both sexual and romantic.
Ryuson , BrittaniMaree , Zingy , PropertyOfPotter , Hazeleyes2012 , DawnStar , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , AliMc , ShadowedSeductress , nikki0668 , Chelynn67 , LavenderSkies , Bigkc , GravyCakes , ninja250
15
I'm a submissive in my favorite sexual fantasy.
bayosgirl , Silverwinds , K101 , melissa1973 , MrWill , karenm , Ryuson , Sbmsvschoolgirl , Adnerbmw , P'Gell , Loriandhubby , Sammi , Leather & Lace , LavenderSkies , Martiniman , Allison.Wilder , GravyCakes , lilacviolet , potstickers , Living Doll , mdnght , Eugler
22
I'm the dominant in my favorite sexual fantasy.
TJtheMadHatter , femmepwr , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Bigkc , LoneOokami
5
I'm neither dominant or submissive in my favorite sexual fantasy.
ViVix , CutiePatootie , Zingy , PropertyOfPotter , Herzer , edeneve , AliMc , KinkyKatieJames , solitudinarian , bratcat , Checkmate
11
My favorite sexual fantasy includes a man.
bayosgirl , K101 , melissa1973 , karenm , Ryuson , Zingy , PropertyOfPotter , Sbmsvschoolgirl , Adnerbmw , P'Gell , Loriandhubby , ShadowedSeductress , nikki0668 , Taylor , Chelynn67 , Leather & Lace , LavenderSkies , solitudinarian , Allison.Wilder , GravyCakes , bratcat , lilacviolet , potstickers , Living Doll , mdnght
25
My favorite sexual fantasy includes men.
bayosgirl , Sbmsvschoolgirl , P'Gell , AliMc , Sammi , KinkyKatieJames , solitudinarian , Allison.Wilder , mdnght
9
My favorite sexual fantasy includes a woman.
TJtheMadHatter , BrittaniMaree , CutiePatootie , Zingy , Loriandhubby , Bigkc , Martiniman , Eugler , LoneOokami
9
My favorite sexual fantasy includes women.
TJtheMadHatter , Somewhere Out There , CutiePatootie , Herzer , Martiniman , bratcat , Checkmate , Eugler , LoneOokami
9
My favorite sexual fantasy includes a man and a woman.
MrWill , BrittaniMaree , CutiePatootie , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , ninja250
5
My favorite sexual fantasy includes a man and several women.
CutiePatootie
1
My favorite sexual fantasy includes a woman and several men.
My favorite sexual fantasy includes men and women.
My favorite sexual fantasy includes BDSM or bondage.
bayosgirl , Silverwinds , TJtheMadHatter , K101 , melissa1973 , karenm , Ryuson , BrittaniMaree , Sbmsvschoolgirl , Adnerbmw , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , P'Gell , Loriandhubby , ShadowedSeductress , nikki0668 , Sammi , Taylor , Leather & Lace , LavenderSkies , Martiniman , solitudinarian , lilacviolet , potstickers , Living Doll , mdnght , Eugler , LoneOokami
27
My favorite sexual fantasy includes the outdoors or a public place.
Adnerbmw , KinkyKatieJames , Martiniman , Allison.Wilder , lilacviolet
5
My favorite sexual fantasy involves a friend, friends or acquaintances.
Herzer , Chelynn67
2
My favorite sexual fantasy involves a co-worker, my boss or my partners boss.
My favorite sexual fantasy involves only the person I'm in love with.
Silverwinds , K101 , karenm , Zingy , PropertyOfPotter , ShadowedSeductress , nikki0668 , Bme , LavenderSkies , GravyCakes , bratcat , potstickers , Living Doll
13
My favorite sexual fantasy involves a stranger or strangers.
bayosgirl , TJtheMadHatter , P'Gell , Allison.Wilder , mdnght
5
My favorite sexual fantasy involves the one I love and a stranger or strangers.
Sammi , KinkyKatieJames , Martiniman , solitudinarian , Checkmate
5
My favorite sexual fantasy includes the one I love and a friend or friends.
Herzer , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , AliMc , Martiniman , Checkmate
5
My favorite sexual fantasy includes the one I love and a co-worker or boss.
My favorite sexual fantasy involves the one I love only watching and doing as I tell them.
My favorite sexual fantasy involves cuckolding.
I consider my favorite sexual fantasy to be freaky!
bayosgirl , TJtheMadHatter , CutiePatootie , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , P'Gell , Chelynn67 , LavenderSkies , Bigkc , Allison.Wilder , lilacviolet , potstickers , mdnght
12
I consider my favorite sexual fantasy to be normal.
Silverwinds , TJtheMadHatter , K101 , melissa1973 , karenm , Ryuson , BrittaniMaree , Zingy , PropertyOfPotter , Herzer , femmepwr , P'Gell , AliMc , Sammi , KinkyKatieJames , LavenderSkies , Martiniman , solitudinarian , GravyCakes , lilacviolet , Living Doll , ninja250 , Checkmate , Eugler
24
I consider my favorite sexual fantasy to be boring.
If my favorite sexual fantasy came true it would change my life.
bayosgirl , Ryuson , Zingy , PropertyOfPotter , Allison.Wilder , Eugler
6
I desperately want my favorite sexual fantasy to come true!
Silverwinds , TJtheMadHatter , Somewhere Out There , MrWill , Zingy , PropertyOfPotter , Adnerbmw , ShadowedSeductress , nikki0668 , KinkyKatieJames , Chelynn67 , Bigkc , Martiniman , GravyCakes , lilacviolet , Eugler
16
It's best if my favorite sexual fantasy were to remain a fantasy!
bayosgirl , Ryuson , Zingy , ninja250 , mdnght , Checkmate
6
I've tried to fulfill my favorite sexual fantasy, but have been unsuccessful.
MrWill , Martiniman
2
My favorite sexual fantasy of all time has come true!
K101 , karenm , CutiePatootie , LavenderSkies , solitudinarian
5
Other...please explain.
TJtheMadHatter , edeneve , P'Gell , Allison.Wilder
4
Total votes: 283 (52 voters)
Poll is closed
03/25/2013
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Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
I'm currently trying to make mine happen
03/25/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
My favorite fantasy is me being dominant over a woman (the number of women varies), the level of BDSM varies too. I miss being with women soo much! *le sigh. I chose other because my ultimate, ultimate dream fantasy would require me to have a sex change, something I'm not going to do and have no real desire to do. Thank goodness for double ended harness dildos!
03/25/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Ahem. Having sex with multiple men at once. It's something I would never do, but God it's hot to fantacise about.
03/25/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
In my favorite sexual fantasy the following categories are prevalent or have major involvement...........

Multiple answers are possible so please select all that apply.

Please share only what you're comfortable with, but details ... more
Mine includes my partner, only him. And me of course! Lol. Some BDSM is involved and a lot of times I'm the sub. And lastly, I have had my favorite sexual fantasy of all time come true. Many times! I have more than one though, but can't say I really have one that hasn't been fulfilled. But I do enjoy "fulfilling" them over and over!
03/25/2013
Contributor: Somewhere Out There Somewhere Out There
Mine includes multiple women and tons of pillows
03/25/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
In my favorite sexual fantasy the following categories are prevalent or have major involvement...........

Multiple answers are possible so please select all that apply.

Please share only what you're comfortable with, but details ... more
Well, I'm neither sub nor dom, and it's definitely more sexual. However, I have several fantasies that I consider to be favorites...some with guys, some with girls. It's hard to choose just 1.
03/25/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
Mine is a fantasy of my partner being dominant with me, which we do sometimes. I've been wanting to try one of me being dominant with him.
03/25/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Sexual fantasy would be My husband and I with another female of my choosing
03/25/2013
Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
I have lots of different favorite fantasies. Most of which involve myself and anther female (or a couple of other females), usually my husband too, especially if a larger group of women... the threesome is kind-of a regular part of our sex life. I'm not sure how we find fun girls, but I consider myself fortunate.
03/25/2013
Contributor: Gleb Gleb
My favorite sexual fantasy is more sexual than romantic.
03/25/2013
Contributor: Kirill Klyuchnik Kirill Klyuchnik
My favorite sexual fantasy is more sexual than romantic.
03/25/2013
Contributor: Hazeleyes2012 Hazeleyes2012
It's always fun to fantasize.....
03/25/2013
Contributor: Evgeny Kravtsov Evgeny Kravtsov
My favorite sexual fantasy is more sexual than romantic.
03/25/2013
Contributor: emtgod5150 emtgod5150
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Ahem. Having sex with multiple men at once. It's something I would never do, but God it's hot to fantacise about.
My wife has the same fantasy. Her only real fantasy is double penetration. She said that she would love to clone me so that the two of us can have our way her however we wanted.
03/25/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
most of mine have come true but they are still fun to think about
03/25/2013
Contributor: DawnStar DawnStar
I guess mine is both romantic and sexual.
03/25/2013
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
The only thing My Man doesn't understand is that my fantasy is NOT something I really want to happen. I do what I have to do and think what I have to do to have an orgasm. I consider it freaky, I consider it normal (as it contains one of most women's favorite fantasies) and I do not want it to come true.

He's wanted to do some things (regarding other people) to make it come true, but I think I wouldn't really want that. We sometimes incorporate some of that in what we do, but not the entire thing, plus it changes from day to day, and some of it I don't even think is physically possible.

What works for me when I'm working up to a climax is not what I really want from sex in real life. Maybe some of the basics, but not the details.
03/25/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
Mine could definitely come true if I talked to my boyfriend about it. I'm not 100% sure I'm ready for it yet. I am still perfecting the details
03/25/2013
Contributor: Bme Bme
My sexual fantasies involve my wife and as soon as I get home I will be putting them into play.
03/25/2013
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Little student in pigtails (me) getting spanked by an older professor or teacher in his 40's. sigh.
03/25/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
My favorite sex fantasy involves BDSM and dominance with my wife being the dominant and being much more sexual and creative than she currently is.
03/27/2013
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
Wow, this was an interesting poll. I never really take the time to stop and think about my fantasies when I'm not, uh, fantasizing.
03/28/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
Almost always my fantasies involve my partner and together, and those often are easy enough to make a reality since we're very open about what we want in bed. However, my partner would like to have a threesome and while the idea does excite me very much, it's something i feel like i'm not comfortable with because of my own personally issues involving what i see as my insecurities.
03/31/2013
Contributor: mdnght mdnght
I have several of various different kinds that I consider favorite, but I can definitely pick one. But typically my favorite kind includes some level of, umm, me being forced or coerced, so let's hope it just stays a fantasy and never comes true! (in a literal sense, at least. playing out a fantasy like that with a partner I trust is something I'd very much like to try someday)
04/01/2013