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Ladies, how do YOU....wipe? (private voting :))

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Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
In the last few months, my girlfriend has gotten comfortable using the toilet in front of me (I'm still getting used to it...) and I've noticed one big difference between us. How we wipe. She wipes by sitting up slightly and reaching around the back, and I do it by, well, spreading my legs.

I'm actually very interested if there's one way that most women do this or if maybe I missed something in bathroom etiquette school?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Reach around
23
Spread Legs
60
Other
9
Total votes: 92 (85 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
I spread my legs. I've seen people do the reach around though. Most everyone i've seen or talked to spreads em though.
01/07/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
First reach around, then squat and spread my legs, just to make sure I'm nice and dry.

Wiping from front to back is the sanitary way to go, lessening the chance of infections.
01/07/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I was always taught to wipe from front to back, but I wipe front and back separately.
01/07/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I actually do both!
01/07/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I actually can not do the reach around, no matter how hard I try. I just can not turn my body like this without cramping up and pinching nervous, so I have to spread them.
01/07/2012
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
Quote:
Originally posted by (k)InkyIvy
I was always taught to wipe from front to back, but I wipe front and back separately.
ditto
01/07/2012
Contributor: mandaj mandaj
lol spread em but always front to back!!!!! dnt want no infections!!!
01/07/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
Quote:
Originally posted by (k)InkyIvy
I was always taught to wipe from front to back, but I wipe front and back separately.
me too!
01/07/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by wrecklesswords
In the last few months, my girlfriend has gotten comfortable using the toilet in front of me (I'm still getting used to it...) and I've noticed one big difference between us. How we wipe. She wipes by sitting up slightly and reaching around ... more
Wow, now I really need to be careful what I do in front of my partner. I cannot believe people notice those things about each other. I wouldn't want him to know how I wipe now...
I do a bit of both actually. Front to back is important though, to avoid infections
01/07/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by wrecklesswords
In the last few months, my girlfriend has gotten comfortable using the toilet in front of me (I'm still getting used to it...) and I've noticed one big difference between us. How we wipe. She wipes by sitting up slightly and reaching around ... more
I voted for reach and spread.

For peein'? spread legs.

For pooin'? Both, I guess. Reach around, go front to back, when it's all clean, check the other way. I'm absurdly clean about my nethers.

And baby wipes FTW.
01/07/2012
Contributor: eeep eeep
I spread them, then wipe front to back. My bum is a bit too big to reach around comfortably.
01/08/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I guess it just depends on what exactly you're doing...
01/08/2012
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
I actually can not do the reach around, no matter how hard I try. I just can not turn my body like this without cramping up and pinching nervous, so I have to spread them.
That's how I feel about it. I have tried because I feel odd peeing in front of my lady and she does this proper-looking reach around and I do this spread-leg thing.
01/08/2012
Contributor: karay123 karay123
I did the reach around when I was pregnant and couldn't go from the front anymore.

You actually SHOULD do the reach around so that you don't wipe anything from your anus into your vagina. (sorry if tmi & totally grody)
01/08/2012
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Quote:
Originally posted by karay123
I did the reach around when I was pregnant and couldn't go from the front anymore.

You actually SHOULD do the reach around so that you don't wipe anything from your anus into your vagina. (sorry if tmi & totally grody)
No that's not TMI. I always knew the whole front to back thing, I just didn't know how most women achieved this, lol! Spread-legged or reach around haha.

I feel weird having asked this question, but I was genuinely curious.
01/08/2012
Contributor: Snozzberries Snozzberries
Quote:
Originally posted by badk1tty
I voted for reach and spread.

For peein'? spread legs.

For pooin'? Both, I guess. Reach around, go front to back, when it's all clean, check the other way. I'm absurdly clean about my nethers.

And baby wipes FTW.
Those flushable ones are INCREDIBLE.
01/08/2012
Contributor: November November
I put spread, but then after I'm done with that I do something else, I stand up to dry my bottom. I guess that's the same as the reach around? Maybe it's the reach around in standing position? Does anyone else do it this way?
01/08/2012
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Quote:
Originally posted by November
I put spread, but then after I'm done with that I do something else, I stand up to dry my bottom. I guess that's the same as the reach around? Maybe it's the reach around in standing position? Does anyone else do it this way?
I will usually do an extra wipe or two to make sure I've gotten all the wetness from anything off.
01/08/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Oooh yes! Flushable wipes, FTW!!
01/08/2012
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
i spread my legs.
01/09/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I spread 'em, but my best friend does the reach around, lol.
01/09/2012
Contributor: idunshire idunshire
Front to back and spread 'em! XD
01/09/2012
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
I spread em...its easier for me.
01/09/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
That's funny, I've never noticed how another wipes. I wipe front to back to avoid bacteria/infections.
01/09/2012
Contributor: Puss in Boots Puss in Boots
I actually stand up and do both. I just never got used to wiping while sitting.
01/09/2012
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Quote:
Originally posted by Puss in Boots
I actually stand up and do both. I just never got used to wiping while sitting.
Hmm, I've never wiped while standing... at least not the initial wiping, lol.
01/10/2012
Contributor: LoveDove LoveDove
I wipe while sitting, but I wipe front and "back" separately. And I try to wipe from front to back on the front part.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I stand up and reach around. I've been told that's what little kids do (the standing part) but I've never really thought about it that much.
01/16/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
Quote:
Originally posted by wrecklesswords
In the last few months, my girlfriend has gotten comfortable using the toilet in front of me (I'm still getting used to it...) and I've noticed one big difference between us. How we wipe. She wipes by sitting up slightly and reaching around ... more
after patting, I stand spread legs and wipe from the back. when I was little whoops got yeast infections and learned the proper way.
01/17/2012