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In your current or last relationship, which came first?

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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Just curious which of the following came first in your current relationship?

If you're not in a relationship at this time, use your last relationship where both sex and love existed.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Sex
K101 , wwwww , solitudinarian , Eugler , GirlOnGirl , js250 , Geogeo , Hazeleyes2012 , Stinkytofu10 , TJtheMadHatter , Chelynn67 , RonLee , bayosgirl , twelve13 , bog , The Vixen , XxFallenAngelxX , Evgeny Kravtsov , SecretKinksters , JodiPrince , Roman Petrosyan , melissa1973 , Chastity Darling , evie.amor
24  (42%)
Love
Lildrummrgurl7 , Britt&Rich , Living Doll , DawnStar , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , BlackCherry , peachmarie , Sbmsvschoolgirl , Kitka , KinkyKatieJames , ShadowedSeductress , bratcat , GONE! , Akira , Vanille , SydVicious , ihavemagicpants , Bignuf , Rory , MrsHouseWife , gehuwd , catgirl9 , AliMc , Isola , gsfanatic , Noelle
26  (46%)
Sex and Love happened at the same time
Bubba29 , Frankie , Melan!e , Silverwinds
4  (7%)
Other...please explain.
edeneve , surreptitious , Rossie
3  (5%)
Total votes: 57
Poll is closed
03/20/2013
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Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious which of the following came first in your current relationship?

If you're not in a relationship at this time, use your last relationship where both sex and love existed.
The truth is, sex came first.
03/20/2013
Contributor: wwwww wwwww
Sex came first. Mostly because it takes me so long to go from liking someone to loving them.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Love. We were long distance for a while and we didn't have sex until 3 years into our relationship because of how little we saw each other.
03/20/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
Sex
03/20/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
Sex--then love. We were best friends for a few years first though....
03/20/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious which of the following came first in your current relationship?

If you're not in a relationship at this time, use your last relationship where both sex and love existed.
sex first
03/20/2013
Contributor: Hazeleyes2012 Hazeleyes2012
Sex and love kind of worked itself together at the same time....
03/20/2013
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
Love. I was best friends with my boyfriend for two years before we became a couple.
03/20/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
sex is already here - not sure when love will come. we're definitely fond of each other, though.
03/20/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
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Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious which of the following came first in your current relationship?

If you're not in a relationship at this time, use your last relationship where both sex and love existed.
We were in a long distance relationship for a few months before we ever actually had sex, but we had lots of phone and cam sex before that. So it was technically sort-of-sex, love and then penetrative sex.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious which of the following came first in your current relationship?

If you're not in a relationship at this time, use your last relationship where both sex and love existed.
sex
03/20/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
For me, attraction and some love come first before sex.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
I fell in love way too fast, which doesn't surprise me since it was my first relationship. We waited about 6 months after we started dating before we had sex. I don't know for sure when he loved me.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
We met online, we didn't even know what we looked like before falling in love
03/20/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I hate to say it, but in all honesty we had sex before there was true love.
03/21/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
Sex. Definitely. Then love. That's how it's been in all my relationships. I don't see anything wrong with it.
03/21/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious which of the following came first in your current relationship?

If you're not in a relationship at this time, use your last relationship where both sex and love existed.
Sex first, love later
03/21/2013
Contributor: The Vixen The Vixen
They both happened around the same time, but I'm pretty sure sex came before actual love did.
03/21/2013
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
It's almost always sex first for me. It definitely has been for this relationship and my last one.
03/21/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
While it's usually sex for me, my partner and i deiced to wait having sexual relations when we started dating (we had sex for the frist time close to 4 months into the relationship). I knew i was in love with them long before we had sex the frist time. However, telling them i felt this way came a while after we had started to have sex.
03/21/2013
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
I fell for him pretty early on and truth be told the sex was fairly early too. Can't be sure which came first..
03/21/2013
Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
It was pretty close together, with love coming sliiightly before.
03/21/2013
Contributor: Evgeny Kravtsov Evgeny Kravtsov
Sex
03/21/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Sex...which happened in the the first 8 hours of meeting.
03/21/2013
Contributor: JodiPrince JodiPrince
sex first then love ..we dated for a small time before having sex and the more we were together the more we fell in love and the sex just made its way in there lol
03/21/2013
Contributor: Roman Petrosyan Roman Petrosyan
Sex
03/21/2013
Contributor: Rory Rory
Love was first by a long shot! I was 14 when we started going out. We didn't have sex until I was 18. Did I mention I was 14 in 1972??? We are still together today!!!!
03/21/2013
Contributor: Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
Sex came first. He was supposed to be my rebound guy and now hes my husband
03/21/2013
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
I was 14 when I met my husband. Love definitely came first
03/21/2013