The New Intimacy

If you could go back in time, knowing what you know, Would you go out with your first boyfriend or girlfriend again?

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Contributor: kaykay0427 kaykay0427
I sure as hell wouldn't... I would get with my current boyfriend faster...
02/05/2013
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Contributor: HB042 HB042
Go out with? Sure. Marry? Not a chance!
02/05/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Yes. I learned a few things during that relationship, so in the end it was all worth it. Well, none of it was truly horrible. He genuinely loved me, I just didn't love him as much.
02/05/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
Yes, I wouldn't change that. That and other experiences made me who I am today.
02/05/2013
Contributor: CountryPrincess CountryPrincess
Well when it comes to my ex husband, I might have gone out with him but I would have left the first time and not been that girl that wanted to make it work and found my man now sooner, before he married his ex LOL
02/05/2013
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Not really - I'd chase another friend (The One) so I can get him early and have the relationship that would have really meant something.

The opportunity wasn't obvious to me then, and I regret never having seen it. The second opportunity came too late in our lives for anything long-term ...
02/05/2013
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
Absolutely! She had some nice large breasts, I'd LOVE to play with those again!!
02/05/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Yes, it was a very positive experience.
02/05/2013
Contributor: hillys hillys
NOPE
02/05/2013
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
I've said it before, but I wouldn't change a single thing about my life and my past, good or bad.
Time isn't the one sided thing that people sometimes mistake it for, changing something you perceive as being a bad decision could drastically alter your current life and you'd have no control over if it's a positive or negative change.
You could go decide to not date that first boyfriend or girlfriend, and wind up changing your timeline so that you never meet your future wife or husband...never have your future kids...there's just way too many ways it could go wrong even with the best intent and planning.
02/05/2013
Contributor: Hoshigetsu Hoshigetsu
Absolutely. He gave me the best monthes of my life and I definitely would not want to change that experience. He also gave me an experience to finally love someone and open up.
02/05/2013
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Quote:
Originally posted by kaykay0427
I sure as hell wouldn't... I would get with my current boyfriend faster...
Yes, because although it didn't work out.. and although he was kind of a jerk, and I felt a lot of hurt after our relationship ended.. that experience helped make me who I am today.
02/05/2013
Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
That is a tough question for me. My first real girlfriend was when I was 15 and she was 18. We were only together for a few months before she passed away from a heart attack, on Christmas Eve. She had had problems with her heart since childhood. I think if I could go back and prevent that from happening I definitely would. I was just starting to fall in love with her and every since I have wondered what would have become of it.
02/06/2013
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
No, oh god no. I wouldn't even be friends with that person.
02/06/2013
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
Absolutely not. I never would have been involved with him and I would have gotten with my current boyfriend much sooner.
02/06/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
If I were transported back in time to then, yes I would.
She contacted me last year, I have no negative feelings. I would NOT however have an intimate relationship with her now.
I'm very much in love with my current and forever partner.
02/06/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by kaykay0427
I sure as hell wouldn't... I would get with my current boyfriend faster...
absolutely
02/06/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I don't think I'd change a thing; it was all pretty magical.
03/05/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Hell to the NO. I shudder when I think I wasted all that time with him.
03/05/2013