His anger. He gets angry over the smallest of things and in turn, we end up fighting. If he could look at the whole picture and realize that his anger doesn't get him anywhere, then maybe things would be better.
Well I love him as is, but I suppose if I could change one thing, I'd make him a bit more of a switch than a sub so we could take turns topping.
But he's about as close to perfect for me as it gets so I consider myself a very, very lucky woman.
I wouldn't change him, and not because he's perfect. I just don't think it's healthy to think of what would be better if it were different in a partner that you're really happy with, unless they have such a huge, glaring flaw (i.e., anger issues, insensitive, overly sensitive, etc.), that it's legitimate to wish you could help them change it.
Ohhhhh! Mike man, it will be okay. That girl is out there waiting for ya, just say hello to every girl you meet, help increase your chances. Plus you love sex toys, thats a huge turn on for most women. Chin up man. We are in your corner.
My husband has some anger issues. He's chilled down A LOT since I first met him, but it gets him in trouble sometimes at work. He gets a little grumpy sometimes with me and I can deal with that. I just wish he wouldn't fly off the handle at work. It prevents him from getting things he should there. He's literally the best at his job in the whole company, but no one wants to work with him because of his temper.