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Contributor: ss143 ss143
I think everyone has at least one thing they wish they could change about or aren't the most thrilled with on their body even if they have accepted that is the way that they are. So whats yours and how to you make peace with it?

Mine is my stomach between two kids and genetically predisposed to get stretch marks not my favorite body part and my thighs I am very self conscious about them.

Question: What part(s) of your body are you the least happy with? Explain in the comments what you plan to do about it or how you have come to accept it?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Something Facial
16
Arms
12
Breasts/chest
24
Stomach/abs
71
Back
5
Butt
13
Thighs/legs
31
Genitals
16
Feet
4
Nope there is nothing I dislike about my body :)
Other
14
Total votes: 206 (119 voters)
Poll is closed
05/30/2011
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Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
I need improvement in quite a few areas . For now, I'm using diet and exercise to make changes, and I'll reassess my options when I'm at my health goal.
05/30/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
My forearm-wrist area is too skinny, and I'd like my boobs just a tiiiiiiiiiiiny bit bigger. But I can live.
05/30/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Gee, I need to tick just about everything on the list....lol.
05/30/2011
Contributor: shentel shentel
Well after being pregnant with twins and having a c section my lower stomach needs work but Ive come to live with it because i work out all the time at the gym and take classes. So actually my body has lost alot of body fat.
05/30/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Quote:
Originally posted by shentel
Well after being pregnant with twins and having a c section my lower stomach needs work but Ive come to live with it because i work out all the time at the gym and take classes. So actually my body has lost alot of body fat.
I know what you mean about the c-section ugh after two my belly is a mess. I was tempted to ask the dr if she could do a tummy tuck while she had me open.
05/30/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
well, considering I am on the larger side, I would totally love to get rid of my tummy and I have always hated my thighs (even though my husband loves them)
05/30/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I've inherited my mother's huge thighs. It's ridiculous actually, my waist fits into about size 6 jeans but my thighs fit a 13. How is that fair? I also really hate my eyebrows, they're dark and bushy and tend to grow into a unibrow unless i attempt to tame them.
05/30/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I wish I could make my arms alittle bigger without hitting the weights every day. No time for the gym.
05/31/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
there are a few things i would change
05/31/2011
Contributor: Ms. Paprika Ms. Paprika
Hmm...nothing major but I'd say those funky stretch marks I have on my butt would need to go.
Either that or that tummy pooch. I've had it since I was a baby, and it just won't go away-even when I did track and field.
06/01/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Thinner thighs and I would bye perfectly happy.
06/01/2011
Contributor: Retro Retro
Quote:
Originally posted by ss143
I think everyone has at least one thing they wish they could change about or aren't the most thrilled with on their body even if they have accepted that is the way that they are. So whats yours and how to you make peace with it?

Mine is my ... more
Really want to change my stomach
06/01/2011
Contributor: Inwitari Inwitari
My midsection. Want it shrunk, but it just won't cooperate.
06/01/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by ss143
I think everyone has at least one thing they wish they could change about or aren't the most thrilled with on their body even if they have accepted that is the way that they are. So whats yours and how to you make peace with it?

Mine is my ... more
Fifteen extra ponds, a c-section gone wrong and more stretch marks than a US map has me wanting to change my stomach. Thank Goodness for lingerie!!
06/01/2011
Contributor: Crystal1 Crystal1
I've never had a flat stomach, no matter how much weight I lose, so that would be mine!
06/03/2011
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
Mine is definitely my breasts. I can work out to make my stomach, legs, and arms smaller and more defined, but breasts are just the way they are. Le sigh...
06/03/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Definitely my boobs! I am 5'6'' and 119 lbs and 34B. Sure, everyone says that "size is not a problem for you" but how wrong! So many items, esp. lingerie are made for more voluptuous women, thus my boobs kinda disappear.
I am rather athletic so my boobs don't get in my way but there are so many times bigger boobs would just feel and look so good!
06/03/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
Arms & abs. I look skinny because of my 6'4" height, and I need to lose like 3 pounds. I work out 6 days a week, plus I'm young, so it'll happen eventually. It says a lot about people that no one has answered "I wouldn't change anything."
06/03/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyBoy
Arms & abs. I look skinny because of my 6'4" height, and I need to lose like 3 pounds. I work out 6 days a week, plus I'm young, so it'll happen eventually. It says a lot about people that no one has answered "I wouldn't change anything."
I agree no one so far would change nothing but it proves that everyone no matter what size they are or how fit/unfit there is something that we want to improve. Does that make us shallow or we are high achievers?
06/03/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by ss143
I think everyone has at least one thing they wish they could change about or aren't the most thrilled with on their body even if they have accepted that is the way that they are. So whats yours and how to you make peace with it?

Mine is my ... more
just my boobs. everything else is perfect
06/03/2011
Contributor: Possibly Normal Possibly Normal
Quote:
Originally posted by ss143
I think everyone has at least one thing they wish they could change about or aren't the most thrilled with on their body even if they have accepted that is the way that they are. So whats yours and how to you make peace with it?

Mine is my ... more
I have 2 things so =P

I have Ehlers- Danlos Syndrome so I hate all the collagen in my body. Makes me very fragile and gumby-esq.

More to the point though I dislike my legs, generally from Knee area to kankle I mean ankle. My mother even describes me as "deceptively sturdy" Like I could a tiny version of a rugby player or something. RAWR!

To accept it I try to not wear flat shoes, when I wear heals not only do I look taller then my measly 5 foot 0. But it makes my calves and ankles look slimmer.

Meh Gotta live with it since they haven't developed ankle liposuction yet. =D
06/03/2011
Contributor: clp clp
I am generally not on speaking terms with my shins.
06/04/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
i'm working on changing 4 areas on my body (arms, abs, butt, thighs).
06/06/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
slightly smaller stomacch and i would be good
06/06/2011
Contributor: KrissyRoro KrissyRoro
It's sad nobody has voted "Nope there is nothing I dislike about my body "
We should all be happy with who we are how we are! =( Too bad the world couldn't work that way.
06/06/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Don't like my thighs.
06/07/2011
Contributor: Noira Noira
I'm overweight but I love my body and myself, and believe me, that self-confidence does a lot for someone. I get sick and tired of passive aggressive comments from skinnier women who hate that I'm okay with myself, people eying my dessert and sighing and then commenting about how they can't eat anything sweet... yeah, you can, you just WON'T. I'm sick of people telling me all about so and so on the Biggest Loser, sick of 'oh, you're having a salad today, are you finally going on a diet?' comments, sick of 'wow, your food looks so good' as you eat your half a salad and throw away all the good stuff...

I think the biggest reason I won't diet is them. D: I'd rather be confident and love my XL self and know that my friends love me for who I am, than be skinny and told how wonderful I look by shallow, self-conscious women who can't get over their image of themselves in the mirror for long enough to enjoy a cookie.

I just can't quite vote 'there's nothing I hate about my body'. I grew very fast as a teenager and so I have arm, stomach, and boob stretch marks. I don't like them at all. I also have one dramatically longer flap of skin on my vagina (for some odd reason) and it gets in the way. D: Apparently this isn't abnormal, but I always wondered if my vagina was falling out from masturbating or something when I was young. I'm tempted to get it pierced just to come to terms with that 'is masturbating breaking my body' fear. I think that would reunite me with that piece of skin.

But these are small things. I would not change me.
06/08/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Quote:
Originally posted by Noira
I'm overweight but I love my body and myself, and believe me, that self-confidence does a lot for someone. I get sick and tired of passive aggressive comments from skinnier women who hate that I'm okay with myself, people eying my dessert and ... more
Good for you
06/08/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
I am content with my body. Its shape, at least. However, I would change my genitals (of course). Obvious reasons.
06/08/2011