How was your first time having sex?

Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
My first time having sex was quite horrible. It hurt so bad we couldn't even get it in because I was in too much pain. LOL. It took up to 7 different tries through out the week for sex to finally feel good. How about you? Was your first time painful or magical?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
It was magical!
bayosgirl , P'Gell , LaSchwartz , MistressDandelion
4  (12%)
Hurt like a Motherf-cker!
xOhxSoxScandalousx , Envy , MissCandyland , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , LLmama , curiousnwilling , Bignuf
7  (21%)
Other?
El-Jaro , LAndJ , VictoriaDaniel1 , CalebC , humpday , Cookie Monster Mike , kitty1949 , Beck , Danneh , panthercat23 , Tangles , Taylor , Terri69 , SimpleTeaser , solitudinarian , Noelle , Boyqueen , Eden062112 , ace.eric.pollen , Tianna Silver , giftdgecko , dv8
22  (67%)
Total votes: 33
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07/16/2012
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07/16/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Hurt a bit, but it wasn't awful. Hurt more when he used his hands and it seemed like FOREVER than when he actually had his penis in.
07/16/2012
Contributor: CalebC CalebC
... virgin.
07/16/2012
Contributor: Envy Envy
Felt awful, bled a lot, didn't want to do it again. That was with my ex. Second partner I had it felt better, but it still doesn't feel all that great to me.
07/16/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
It kind of hurt.
07/16/2012
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Quote:
Originally posted by xOhxSoxScandalousx
My first time having sex was quite horrible. It hurt so bad we couldn't even get it in because I was in too much pain. LOL. It took up to 7 different tries through out the week for sex to finally feel good. How about you? Was your first time ... more
First time I had sex, it wasn't bad. But it didn't reach my expectations I guess. I was hoping for more from the overall experience for the first time. Sure it felt good, but something was just missing to make it incomplete.
07/16/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
My first time having sex was wonderful! I was with My Man (we later had an Open Relationship, so even though he was my First, he wasn't my only.) He had been with women before, so knew what to do.

I didn't let him give me oral sex. (What was wrong with me?) But the man knows how to use his hands. We had been playing with manual sex for a while, and he certainly knew where a clitoris was. It was lovely. I was not able to have an orgasm (I had just figured out how to do it myself) but just being with him and making love was wonderful. I remember being in the bathroom of his house before hand, putting the spermicide in and just shaking he put me at ease and it was beautiful. It didn't hurt and I really had a good time. He did, too, obviously.

We had played a lot and he had fingered me for several weeks, so I didn't bleed and had no pain.

A short time later I let him give me oral sex and I had my first orgasm with an other person. Amazing and wonderful, indeed.
07/16/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
Other. It was boring as hell.
07/16/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
It hurt like hell.
07/16/2012
Contributor: Danneh Danneh
It wasn't magical or terrible. It was just... sex.
07/16/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
It didn't hurt but it was more boring than anything else.
07/16/2012
Contributor: Tangles Tangles
It didn't really hurt, but it was kind of awkward. We were both virgins.
07/16/2012
Contributor: LLmama LLmama
My first time was awkward. Honestly, I only did it cause I didn't want to give him head! LOL He was home on leave from the navy and we were kind of rushing things. He fingered me for the first time ever and I couldn't resist it. I begged him for a condom and he finally found one. Once we actually got to the deed, it hurt like a son of a bitch and afterward I was so overwhelmed I dry heeved outside! Thank god we're still together, married for 5.5 years! lol Now I'm a freaking horny maniac all thanks to him!
07/16/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
It wasn't painful or wonderful. I remember thinking THIS is what the big deal is?
07/16/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
It was awful
07/16/2012
Contributor: curiousnwilling curiousnwilling
I'd heard it was terrible and painful and awkward, so I went and got a dildo. I figured I'd get the terrible pain out of the way on my own, and so it wouldn't be excruciating when I had sex for the first time.
07/16/2012
Contributor: SimpleTeaser SimpleTeaser
Quote:
Originally posted by kitty1949
Other. It was boring as hell.
Yeah, I'm going to go with this one. It was with my best friend at the time and was boring and awkward.
07/17/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
It didn't hurt, but it wasn't magical. Boring, really.
07/17/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by xOhxSoxScandalousx
My first time having sex was quite horrible. It hurt so bad we couldn't even get it in because I was in too much pain. LOL. It took up to 7 different tries through out the week for sex to finally feel good. How about you? Was your first time ... more
It wasn't terrible, but definately not magical. We were in the back of his VW Baja Bug! Once we did it, I've been like a nympho ever since!
07/17/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by xOhxSoxScandalousx
My first time having sex was quite horrible. It hurt so bad we couldn't even get it in because I was in too much pain. LOL. It took up to 7 different tries through out the week for sex to finally feel good. How about you? Was your first time ... more
My very first time I was kind of shocked and it hurt a BIT (no fun..and I was not into the guy anyway...he used me). All over lovers, however, including my first anal, were amazing, gentle and awesome lovers. I married the best of them, too!!!!
07/17/2012
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
It was just... uninspiring and didn't feel good at all.
07/18/2012
Contributor: Eden062112 Eden062112
Quote:
Originally posted by xOhxSoxScandalousx
My first time having sex was quite horrible. It hurt so bad we couldn't even get it in because I was in too much pain. LOL. It took up to 7 different tries through out the week for sex to finally feel good. How about you? Was your first time ... more
Actually, it didn't hurt.
07/18/2012
Contributor: ace.eric.pollen ace.eric.pollen
07/26/2012
Contributor: Tianna Silver Tianna Silver
My first time didn't hurt or anything, but it definitely wasn't fun. Good thing I moved onto to someone better
07/26/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
Is forgettable an option? Second time is the one I remember
07/26/2012