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How often do you match your underwear?

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Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
I personally have a mild fixation about matching. I don't feel dressed unless my bra and panties match. Even better if I have matching socks and they correspond someway to my outfit so I look sufficiently "put together" at every stage of underdress.

This is true for me even when I have absolutely no intention of having anyone other but me see my undergarments.

I've been told by guys and girls alike that it's pretty strange. Most guys say girls they've been with only bother matching if it's like their birthday or anniversary or something, and that then they'll just pull out a black bra and panty set. Not to diminish people who do that, it's just not how I personally operate lol.

For me it compares to like, idk, wearing super baggy granny panties and a random bra. You might be able to get away with it depending on what outfit you're wearing, but will you feel as great and sexy wearing those as you would wearing a sleek matching set? Cute matching underwear puts an extra pep in my step lol

How often do you all match your undies? Does it change the way you feel about yourself when you do match? Discuss
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Everyday/almost always
5  (12%)
Every other day/frequently
7  (17%)
One-two days a week/sometimes
4  (10%)
One-two days a month/rarely
11  (26%)
Only on holidays/special occasions.
15  (36%)
Total votes: 42
Poll is closed
12/13/2011
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Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherrylane
I personally have a mild fixation about matching. I don't feel dressed unless my bra and panties match. Even better if I have matching socks and they correspond someway to my outfit so I look sufficiently "put together" at every stage ... more
I would have liked an "I don't care" option. I buy my bras because they fit right, and they rarely, if ever, match my undies. I don't care about matching, and I don't think I even own a set that matches.
12/13/2011
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherrylane
I personally have a mild fixation about matching. I don't feel dressed unless my bra and panties match. Even better if I have matching socks and they correspond someway to my outfit so I look sufficiently "put together" at every stage ... more
They rarely match. My bras are kinda boring because I wear sizes where they don't make a lot of interesting bras for. I have a lot of panties. So generally they don't end up matching.
12/13/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Mine only match if I'm wearing them specially for my man. Otherwise, they don't match. I only have a few bras that I like and tons of panties, so I just wear whatever. It doesn't make me feel any different if they match or don't.
12/13/2011
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
i match if i really want to impress my bf but he doesn't care whether they match or not
12/13/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
LOL! Only if I'm wearing white pants, I'll wear white underwear. Otherwise usually black underwear.
12/13/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
You forgot to add a "never" option.
12/13/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I match most of the time, whether it's being seen or not, but I do have a lot of black so that might be considered cheating according to what you posted lol
12/13/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Only coincidentally. I have a gray bra, so whenever I happen to grab a pair of gray panties out of my drawer, then I match. But I don't actually own any bra/panty sets.
12/13/2011
Contributor: her angelness her angelness
most of the time, i try to.
12/13/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherrylane
I personally have a mild fixation about matching. I don't feel dressed unless my bra and panties match. Even better if I have matching socks and they correspond someway to my outfit so I look sufficiently "put together" at every stage ... more
I hardly ever worry about that, I wear only white socks and majority of my bra and panties I do buy in a set but im not saying I wear them that way..
12/13/2011
Contributor: Pink Jewel Pink Jewel
I try to match!
12/14/2011
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
I need a "never" option.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Mike Honcho Mike Honcho
Quote:
Originally posted by Chirple
I need a "never" option.
Same here. LOL

I do find it slightly sexy when the GF matches her panties and bra.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I do on occasion, but it's never really been something I've gone out of my way to do unless there were a reason.
12/14/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
I do try to match. But if I'm in a hurry or just can't find something to match I'll go as close as I can
12/14/2011
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I answered for my wife who matches as often as she can.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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I am SUPER picky about my bras, so I really only have two that I wear regularly. If I had to match, I would have to either only own several pairs of panties or quite a few more $40 bras, neither of which work for me! I LOVE my sexy panties, but bras are a different story. The only time I do is when I dress up in my steampunk outfit, in which I have a see-through shirt and a thick petticoat on, so on some occasions people may notice
12/14/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
Quote:
Originally posted by Chirple
I need a "never" option.
Yea, so do I! LOL
12/14/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Only on special occasions. Otherwise I don't care.
12/14/2011
Contributor: klyte klyte
I'm the same way, my girlfriend thinks its ridiculous.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I try to do it every day, unless I'm in a hurry.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
That's a never. Bra and panty sets NEVER fit right for me, since my top and bottom are different sizes, so I don't even bother. I'll go for comfort over style, every time. Besides, most sets that I see aren't very "for everyday use" supportive. As someone who's got a DD cup size and a large rumpus, I've got to have the support.
12/14/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
i don't match underwear often. mostly b/c i don't have a reason to often.
12/14/2011
Contributor: alliegator alliegator
I don't own any matching sets. The closest I get is having to wear all dark or all light to go under an outfit I'm wearing. I do have some holiday panties though so I match the season, if not the bra.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
I do match, but I don't necessarily match the bra with the panties. I match my bra with my shirt, and my panties with my skirt or pants.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Only on special occasions.
12/14/2011
Contributor: 12345678 12345678
I only have one matching set, actually. I'd like to do it more often though, it is a nice look.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Constantly if I can find the right set.
12/14/2011
Contributor: (Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
I usually buy the matching undies if I get a nice bra. I'm particular to Body by Victoria Demi with the modal underwear...so soft, and the bras actually come in my weird size.

But I only wear underwear when I wear a short dress/skirt without stockings/tights or if I'm on the first day of my period and I'm worried my tampon won't hold up.

So I do match almost always, I just really never wear underwear!

I also like to match even if I know I'm going to be home most of the day eating ice cream and watching Glee or playing video games.
12/15/2011