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How many people know about your EdenFantasys "life"?

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Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
It sounds much creepier than it really is. He's been our delivery man for like 6 or 7 years now, and he's always flirted (with both of us), but not in an out-of-line way or anything. He commented on how often he was seeing us when we started ... more
That's hilarious that he is "in on it" when he makes your product deliveries for your reviews!
04/06/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Mom, dad and half a handful of friends know. Never felt the need to share with most of my other friends, they would not understand. But most of them a quite a bit older and are set in their old school ways.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Most people know I have a lot of toys, a few have been curious and have asked where I shop. I don't mind talking about my toys or Eden whenever the subject comes up!
04/06/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
We apparently have a lot in common with you and your husband, too.



As far as me being open with my family about the fact that my husband and I both use sex toys and watch porn (*gasp*), I can't ever see that happening. They ... more
Yeah, they (his family) think I'm a "whore" too. I was pregnant when we got married, which meant *gasp* I "let him touch me" before our wedding night. LOL! He tried to talk to them, that it was BOTH of us, not just me, who were involved in the conception. We had bought a house together and were living in it. His parents weren't even sleeping with each other, and hadn't for years, so who had the dysfunctional sex life? At least their son gets laid.

And the fact that I'm a "Bleeding Heart Liberal" doesn't help any either.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Erotica Explorer Erotica Explorer
Only my girlfriend knows.

I'm a very quiet and secretive person in the "real world." Very few people have any insight whatsoever into the workings of my mind, and I'm fine with this.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Miss Zombie Miss Zombie
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Originally posted by PiratePrincess
My friends and boyfriend know, but at this point I wouldn't tell my family. I'm not sure how they would react. And only my close friends who don't judge know.
See that is my problem. Only my husband knows that I have an account here. He is okay with it of course. None of my friends or family know. I am afraid they will freak out. :/
04/06/2011
Contributor: Miss Zombie Miss Zombie
I don't know what my problem is, I have never really cared what people think. haha

One of my biggest concerns is my mom is the "masturbation is wrong" type of people. Sex was meant for man+woman. Of course she will associate sex toys with strictly solo masturbation. Not to enhance my sex life WITH my husband..

I hate to tell her this but she is always saying how proud she was that I stayed a virgin until 19, well, the reason being is that I masturbated to keep myself at bay. haha
04/06/2011
Contributor: Daniel & Brittany Daniel & Brittany
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Originally posted by Miss Zombie
I don't know what my problem is, I have never really cared what people think. haha



One of my biggest concerns is my mom is the "masturbation is wrong" type of people. Sex was meant for man+woman. Of course she will ... more
haha "keep yourself at bay: i like that, as far as solo masterbation goes, its just not like that anymore, every toy we own is used as a couple, as is all of my friends toys, sex toys have become a couples thing this day in age.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
I'd like to share Eden Fantasys with a few close friends, but I'm not sure how they'd react.
04/06/2011
Contributor: SamsDelight SamsDelight
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
We apparently have a lot in common with you and your husband, too.



As far as me being open with my family about the fact that my husband and I both use sex toys and watch porn (*gasp*), I can't ever see that happening. They ... more
I am with you guys on the anti social husband. Both of our families always wonder how he ended up with someone like me. I love to go out and enjoy life. My husband is happy sitting at home with WOW and D&D. He says he puts up with enough male drama at work to last him a life time.

P'Gell- I made the mistake of making a play date for my husband. I was told later my husband is a snob all because he would not talk to anyone. Needless to say he won, I will never set him up for play dates again.
04/07/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
Only my boyfriend and me know.
04/07/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
I guess technically my brother-in-law knows because he's the one who got us our first gift card here.
04/07/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
Just my husband and I know.
I don't care if other people know, I just haven't told them. It's not really something to bring up in casual conversation.
04/09/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
Just my husband knows
04/09/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
Myself and a couple of online friends. None of my IRL friends or family know.
04/09/2011
Contributor: Miss Zombie Miss Zombie
Thanks for all the replies guys! I have enjoyed reading them. I have come to the conclusion that sometimes certain things are best kept secrets. I will stand by this until some people in my light lighten up I guess. It's not really hurting anything that nobody really knows. *shrugs*
04/10/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
a few of my closer friends my mom sisters and boyfriend
04/10/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I don't really feel the need to tell people unless I think they might be interested in joining up.
04/11/2011
Contributor: Kat Shanahan Kat Shanahan
Nobody in my life knows. It's none of their business, really, and besides, I like having a little secret that would shock the hell out of everyone if they knew!
04/11/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Over the weekend I didn't get on Eden because my laptop was having trouble connecting to the wireless network. My dad came and fixed it. When he checked the web browser to see if it would work it immediately opened up to Eden. It was totally embarrassing. He was not pleased at all. I said it was a pop up, thankfully that was enough to cover my tracks. I could never tell my family. Only my significant other knows. This weekend was a close call.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Miss Zombie
Since Eden has become more like a social network, it is usually a daily for me. I am always looking, reading, and keeping myself updated with products and commenting on people's profiles or reviews. Whether you are "employed" by Eden or ... more
My family and friends show a varying degree of approval for my Eden Life. The guys love it, my sister is sort of proud, my friends think I am sex obsessed, and my Aunt has said I'm "not a nice girl" for talking about sex toys and my life in general.

Honestly the only ones I care about are my guys opinion and possibly my children who couldn't care less at this point.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Miss Zombie
All of my friends and family are uptight and closed-minded types.



The problem is, I am a sexual person. Strictly dedicated to my husband. We are always trying new things and trying to find new ways to expand the sexual part of our ... more
To answer your question it really depends on your marriage! It's perfectly fine to keep this a special secret you share only with your husband and it's equally fine for you to be completely open with friends/relatives. How comfortable is your husband with you possibly discussing your sex life with outsiders? That should really be the question you answer first. Some people are really hurt when their partners are too open about what they feel should be private.
After that it's really up to you and how comfortable you are discussing these things.
04/12/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Just my hubby knows how addicted I am to this site, but I'm still new here.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Miss Zombie Miss Zombie
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
To answer your question it really depends on your marriage! It's perfectly fine to keep this a special secret you share only with your husband and it's equally fine for you to be completely open with friends/relatives. How comfortable is your ... more
He really doesn't care one way or the other. It's not really that I want to tell people about OUR sex life in detail, its more like I'd like to tell them about Eden. If I were to tell other people, I wish the outcome would be good or at least accepting, but I know it wouldn't. Like I said in my other posts they see sex toys or anything to do with sex automatically a bad thing.

People are crazy in their beliefs. :/

I am really glad that some of you here have understanding people in your lives that you can comfortably share these things with. I am lacking in that department so I have to share with all of you guys.. lol
04/14/2011
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
I'm slowly starting to tell people about the blog for various reasons. So far the people who know the full story are about 3 or 4 classmates, one of my brothers, my therapy group and the previous therapy group and therapists. I've also told a bunch of people I make a few bucks running a blog with out elaborating on the details.
08/26/2011
Contributor: VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
This is a funny question to me! I totally keep it secret from my boyfriend. He's fun but he's really not into kinky things or toys or anything like that. If he knew he would be cool with it but he'd probably think it was weird of me. He also doesn't know about my secret toy stash. I get boxes all the time from blog giveaways so whenever I get a package he doesn't notice or ask.

My mom kinda knows because I gave her a little Kama Sutra oil bottle from the mini set. I told her I go on this "naughty website" and I told her they have cool things other than toys, like gold dust or bubble bath ect ect... She was pretty cool with it but I didn't really tell her anything else. So yeah...

It's a secret. >.>
08/26/2011
Contributor: VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
OMG! I want to share something! On my computer desk I have a ton of junk. An empty Capri Sun, an empty glass, odds and ends of paper, blah blah blah... Trust me it's messy. I had a vibrator on my desk in a plastic sleeve that I was reviewing the night before and I didn't put it away. It was hidden near the top of my keyboard underneath some paper and junk. It was the satisfier slim, the white freebie. My dad came over to give me a new computer screen and he was moving things around on my desk. He totally could have seen it and I would have died of embarrassment. Thankfully he totally overlooked it because it was underneath things he didn't move. Oh thank goodness!!! That was too close.
08/26/2011
Contributor: Miss Zombie Miss Zombie
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Originally posted by VioletMoonstone
OMG! I want to share something! On my computer desk I have a ton of junk. An empty Capri Sun, an empty glass, odds and ends of paper, blah blah blah... Trust me it's messy. I had a vibrator on my desk in a plastic sleeve that I was reviewing ... more
Haha that is funny!

My mom came over a few days ago, and I actually asked my hubby if there was any Eden stuff laying around before I opened the door!



She still doesn't know. However, I posted a affiliate link on my tumblr and I only have two people that are close to me that follow it, so I am thinking either my cousin-in-law or my friend have been dabbling a bit, because I got commission through my link! lol
08/26/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
The people who matter know. The people who don't, don't. It's less EF and more that it's generally how I separate my life; I'm open with those close to me about intimate things, and not with people who aren't.
08/26/2011
Contributor: Miss Zombie Miss Zombie
Well, here's the latest on this discussion..

I got into a conversation with my mom on what she thinks of "sex accessories". The result was less than desirable. She showed her severe distaste for things of that nature. So I decided then and there that I would not share anything with her about Eden. It's sad too because Eden has a lot more to offer than just vibrators and dildos. She's a bit double sided on the whole sex thing though, it's honestly sickening to me. She's A-okay with oral sex, but sex toys and masturbation... no way! lol

Doesn't make much sense to me. I guess that is where our individuality comes in at.
08/26/2011