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How many lovers have you had in your past?

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Contributor: Creepellah Creepellah
I'm curious to know. I've had 4.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
1-5
24  (47%)
5-10
11  (22%)
10-20
4  (8%)
20+
12  (24%)
Total votes: 51
Poll is closed
12/16/2012
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Contributor: kdlt kdlt
Interesting poll idea! I wonder if age has any correlation.
12/16/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Creepellah
I'm curious to know. I've had 4.
What can I say? I should have been more choosy.
12/16/2012
Contributor: Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
I wouldn't really call them, "lovers," though. More.. "people I got into the pants of."
12/16/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
my wife, no others.
12/17/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
three!
12/17/2012
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
That I've actually had intercourse with? Just Husband, so one. But, I did do sexual things, but not have sex, with someone before him, so he considers me to have had two.
12/17/2012
Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
I was scrolling down looking for a number past 20...and then I cried a little.
12/17/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Creepellah
I'm curious to know. I've had 4.
just over 30 over the past 10 years
12/17/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrepid Niddering
I wouldn't really call them, "lovers," though. More.. "people I got into the pants of."
LOL! Seems accurate for me as well.
12/17/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
I was scrolling down looking for a number past 20...and then I cried a little.
LOL! I was the 1st one to choose above 20, so I pretty much died a little.
12/17/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Geogeo
just over 30 over the past 10 years
I guess 3 per year on average really isn't that bad!
12/17/2012
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
I'm a virgin actually. Loneliness, represent!
12/17/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
five
12/17/2012
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
too many
12/17/2012
Contributor: FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
more than 20
01/11/2013
Contributor: EmuLove EmuLove
I prefer not to think about the past experiences.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Pururin Pururin
Just one.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
In all honesty, one. He's the Mulder I mentioned when I joined (took my virginity in high school, then we got together several years later for a bit). I've had only a couple of one-time FWB's, which I simply cannot include in good conscience. C is currently my second.

Needless to say, the ex-husband from my celibate marriage does not count.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
Lovers? 2. Relationships...3?
01/11/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
some.
01/12/2013
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
one ex, one current. So two.
01/12/2013
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
only one..
01/12/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
Well over 20, but only 5 serious relationships.
01/13/2013
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Relationships, 2. People I've "Been" With, 3.
01/13/2013
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by Creepellah
I'm curious to know. I've had 4.
one or two
01/13/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I had quite a few in my early years, some were relationships, while others were just about sex. However, in the last 20 years I've had just one, my lovely wife.
01/13/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Creepellah
I'm curious to know. I've had 4.
Somewhere around 5-10...
03/07/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
LOL! I was the 1st one to choose above 20, so I pretty much died a little.
Liking sex and having many partners doesn't make you a bad person nor should you feel like it's a character fault or something. You have just had fun and some pretty nifty adventure. Never be ashamed of having experienced many lovers. I kinda wish I had let myself have more lovers in the past...
03/07/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I have been with 5
03/07/2013