I know that my man doesn't do this - not because he has no desire to, but because he is about as computer literate as a toothbrush. He does however watch porn on DVD, sometimes with me and sometimes alone. I honestly have absolutely no problem with it, not only because I want him to enjoy himself, but because I probably watch more than he does, whether it be on DVD or internet. He is aware of this and is doesn't mind at all.

In my mind it's simply enjoyable adult entertainment, although I know some people have other issues with it like that they feel it is degrading or just wrong or dirty. I simply don't see it that way for myself or my partner.

We talked about this recently. It turned out that we both masturbated and watched porn while the other was asleep (different times during the day) on a day we got in a spat and we taking time alone. It bothered both of us that we didn't know even though we both did it. It was one of those things where you don't think anything of it until someone does it to you.

So...we both agreed that we have absolutely no problem with it as long as we are honest about it and don't hide it. I would not be okay with a porn networking site or live cams. I consider this cheating. Anything live interactive is cheating to me and my partner knows how I feel about this. He feels the same way.

Other than hiding it, the only time I'd have a problem with it is if we COULD have sex and don't and then one of us goes off on their own to watch porn. Like no ones mad, no ones sick, no one is out of town...that sort of thing. This has never happened but if it were to I wouldn't want to continue a relationship where the other person preferred their solo time over time with me. I don't know how people stay in relationships like that.

We watch porn together more than we watch it separate and when we masturbate separate we do it to pictures of each other or films we have made. We don't have a huge need for porn anyways.

As far as I know, I have never visited a porn site in my sleep.

Awake? Hell, yeah. But, not while sleeping. At work? I'd have to be crazy.

I don't like live web cams. I am not really all the fond of "Amateur Porn" I like either Vintage stuff from the 70s and 80s, when I am in the mood once in a while. We have a collection of DVDs and My Man has an OLD collection of VHS tapes, and we visit sites once in a while, but it seems to go in spurts. I may not view any for months and then for a while can't get enough, and then basically forget about it for a while.

I like to read erotica at times, but that goes in spurts, too. I am waiting for Alison Tyler's new one to come back in stock at Amazon, so it's on order. I think it's called Slave to Love.

I didn't mean you watch it while you are asleep, I was talking about your partner. What if you were sleeping, and he/she went off and was watching live cam sites... how would you feel?

There is already phone porn. Heheheh

What Lauren said goes for me to. She stole my words, dammit

My partner actually doesn't like porn at all, so no issue there.

We really haven't talked about it, but I think that he wouldn't have any issue with me watching porn, whether he was there or not.

My boyfriend of 8 years or so and I both watch porn separately. Sometimes our relationship is long-distance, and sometimes one or both of us is so busy that our schedules don't really allow for the great, time-consuming sex we like to have. I think it's important that we both have something to help us get off when one of us is horny and the other is unavailable for sex. I wouldn't mind if he watched live webcams or chatted with someone online for sex, as long as I was always informed if some sort of repeated relationship was forming and as long as his relationship with the porn does not take precedence over his relationship with me. As long as he shows me that I am his primary partner, I don't mind if he has a secondary sexual outlet.

We don't consume it together during sex, but occasionally one of us will call the other into the room or pass on a link that was noteworthy. I'll loan him DVDs I buy or receive as bonuses with sex toy orders. We can talk about the porn we like together and use it as inspiration for new things to try. I frequently stumble upon a picture that really pushes my buttons unexpectedly, and I try to figure out what's so hot about it and try to add an element of that into my own sex life. I might not know that I was into submission if I hadn't been looking at porn, because my partners have always been so eager to please and low pressure in bed, with no dominance at all (until I started asking for it!). Thanks, porn!

I don't see why him watching porn should be any different than me having a box full of sex toys that he knows about and approves of. If I started spending thousands of dollars on sex toys, hiding them from him, and preferring my sex toys over sex with him, then we'd have a problem. But as long as we're both open and honest about our solo fantasy lives and they come second to our relationship, no harm done.