How do you help a friend whose not willing to help themselves my good friends girlfriend broke up with him almost a year ago and hes still depressed about it. His ex is a femasist and alcholic and basically a nutjob. The night I met her she was wasted before I even got there. He proposed to her bit she gave the ring back two days later and moved out. I keep telling me he needs to move on he even seeks theraphy because of her but nothing I say or do helps what would you do?