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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Just curious about where you first learned of blowjobs and or cunnilingus.

Bonus Question: If you remember your initial reaction and thoughts, what were they?


Multiple answers are possible for those who had more than one source so please select all that apply.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Mom
Dad
Mom & Dad
Brother
Sister
K101
1
Best Friend
K101 , SecretKinksters
2
Friend
spiced
1
Friends
KinkyKatieJames , Dixiemomma , BrittaniMaree , Lowl , Trixxxy , Bignuf , guppiefish
7
Kids at school
GirlOnGirl , Cosmonaut , Allstars316 , JackRaiden , CollegeFun2014 , travelnurse , TransMarc , mpfm , libbyv , Stagger13 , RonLee , rosythorn , BrittaniMaree , Jenny Swallows , chicmichiw , Trixxxy , Bignuf , guppiefish
18
Kids in the neighborhood
BrittaniMaree , Trixxxy
2
Boyfriend
Sincerely yours, N
1
Girlfriend
Stranger or strangers
Sincerely yours, N
1
I overheard people talking
rosythorn , chicmichiw
2
Watching porn movies
Eugler , C&K0143 , Trixxxy
3
Internet
Lildrummrgurl7 , TransMarc , Trixxxy , Sincerely yours, N
4
TV
rosythorn , BrittaniMaree , Trixxxy
3
Cable TV
Howells , C&K0143 , peppermintgal
3
Porn magazines
Eugler , RonLee
2
From the lyrics of a song
I read about it in a mainstream book
I read about it in erotica
eri86
1
Sex education class in school
Eugler
1
I accidentally saw two people doing it
Other...please explain.
edeneve
1
Total votes: 53 (32 voters)
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Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I heard about it from kids at school.
04/15/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Pretty sure it was the internet.
04/15/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
Mostly reading, then later on some more detailed word of mouth.
04/15/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
I saw it in porn movies I found at my father's drawer
04/15/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Probably kids at school.
04/15/2013
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
Kids at school.
04/15/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
My neighbors were a family of boys that ranged from a year younger than me to about 7 years older. They definitely told me everything.
04/15/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I learned about blowjobs at a very early age, just before first grade. A boy 2 years older than I was moved into the neighborhood late that summer and taught me about blowjobs and lots of other stuff, too.

I think I first learned about cunnilingus from a porn magazine, circa age 14.
04/16/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious about where you first learned of blowjobs and or cunnilingus.

Bonus Question: If you remember your initial reaction and thoughts, what were they?


Multiple answers are possible for those who had more than one source ... more
lol. This is a great post! I'm going to have to read all the comments.

The first time I ever heard of it -- this is really funny -- my twin sister and I were having one of our mini sleepovers with our best friend (still happens to be a super close friend) and they both knew what a blow job was, but not me! How I managed to not know things before them beats me. So we were all huddled together in the bedroom floor & they said "blow job" and were kind of whispering, so I kept saying "what?! A blood drop? Why is that bad?" LOL. It took forever for me to understand they were saying "blow job." So each time I'd say "blood drop!?" They would say "SHHHHHH!!!!!" Really loudly. I was confused for a long time, until they explained it to me.

How I learned about cunnilingus was also (surprise surprise!) from this best friend. We all lived on the same road (actually two of us still do) less than half a mile apart & her neighbor was several years older than us & she shared the lovely info with my best friend who then shared it with me. Then another friend joined us at her house & we shared the info with her. Soon everybody decided we must try it. Real fun.
04/16/2013
Contributor: Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
group of friends talkin about experiences back when i was a teen
04/16/2013
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I think that was a high school thing
04/16/2013
Contributor: SourAppleMartini SourAppleMartini
Probably saw it in a porn . I can't imagine talking about blowjobs with my classmates.
04/16/2013
Contributor: TransMarc TransMarc
Blowjobs: kids at school when I was small (the less offensive... I guess I must have seen before on TV or real life adult men asking for blow jobs to show how angry they were, ridiculous, why would you force someone to perform an act of sexual love to show how angry you are? still, I don't know if it was before or after kids talked about it.)
Cunnilingus: on the Internet waaaaaay later (around 11-12.)
04/16/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Oh hell's bells...

When it comes to stuff like this, I can't recall a lot of my introductions, but I do vividly remember giving my first blow job and I was waaaaaay younger than legally allowed.

I do, however, remember the first time I saw my first Playboy and the first time I saw Wild Orchid. *sigh* I feel like I was a sexual being from birth and there was no real learning for me, I just knew.
04/16/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious about where you first learned of blowjobs and or cunnilingus.

Bonus Question: If you remember your initial reaction and thoughts, what were they?


Multiple answers are possible for those who had more than one source ... more
it's been a long time. i'm sure at school
04/16/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious about where you first learned of blowjobs and or cunnilingus.

Bonus Question: If you remember your initial reaction and thoughts, what were they?


Multiple answers are possible for those who had more than one source ... more
Kids at school...
04/16/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I must have heard about it from kids at school but saw pictures in smut magazines, of course that was years before Al Gore had invented the internet.
The very first time I ever saw a pussy was my then GF's in the back seat of my car just before I went down on her.
04/16/2013
Contributor: rosythorn rosythorn
Mix of tv and kids at school. at first I thought it was the grossest thing ever!!! But then again if you think about sex in general to much it does have an ick factor. Luckily biology takes care of that!
04/16/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
friends, kids at school, and TV pretty much
04/16/2013
Contributor: Lowl Lowl
friends mostly...
04/16/2013
Contributor: Jenny Swallows Jenny Swallows
I'll say kids at school but it may have been neighborhood friends as well... I don't recall the conversation but at 11 or 12 I remember alternating between being horrified and being blown away (excuse pun) by the idea of it.
04/16/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Heard about it from other kids -- I remember it was a very negative context (of course) and I remember not being surprised. I'm surprised now that I wasn't surprised then.
04/16/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
too long ago to remember.
10/09/2013
Contributor: peppermintgal peppermintgal
On cable TV, ages ago.
10/10/2013
Contributor: Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
My middle school boyfriend and I ran into people talking about bjs in an online game. We didn't know what it was, so I asked one of my internet friends. He explained it to us and then was awkward for a bit when he found out my boyfriend was right next to me.
10/10/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious about where you first learned of blowjobs and or cunnilingus.

Bonus Question: If you remember your initial reaction and thoughts, what were they?


Multiple answers are possible for those who had more than one source ... more
I remember kids speaking about it way back in grade school. However, in Junior High I recall one girl who was a friend of a friend, saying she had "done it" and giving all the details. Since I had not even really kissed a boy at that point, I was not sure what to think. Kind of gross, kind of exiting, at the same time. I wasn't even totally sure she was being truthful about what went on, especially when she was talking about where he put his tongue!
10/11/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by peppermintgal
On cable TV, ages ago.
In porn or how?
10/11/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
I must have heard about it from kids at school but saw pictures in smut magazines, of course that was years before Al Gore had invented the internet.
The very first time I ever saw a pussy was my then GF's in the back seat of my car just ... more
Funny. My hubby said the exact same thing. "Saw it, admired it, ate it".
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