I'm in a happy monogamous relationship and my partner encourages (Okay, let's be honest here. He demands!) that I post pictures of myself online in various states of dress and undress. I'm not gonna lie and say there's no ego boost when someone who sees them tells me I'm hot. Flattery is a natural reaction to compliments. So no, if you enjoy dirty compliments (or compliments at all), there is not something wrong with you and that doesn't make you desperate.

As for stalkers and rapists, you need only walk by someone staring out a window two stories up that you never looked at in baggy sweats, no makeup and a ball cap to catch the attention of one of those. Posting naked pictures of yourself on the internet is not the cause of rape. RAPISTS are the cause of rape. Don't want a rapist on the internet to see a picture of you and come rape you? Don't post any identifying factors of where you live on the internet. less

I smell a new article in the works! (I love the stuff you write, btw, Rayne.)

Exactly, my husband demands I post pictures and webcam. I mean he's not going to punish me if I don't or anything like that - it's just he enjoys the idea of sharing me but not actually having to share me. After fourteen years together, we've got to keep it hot somehow! Standard missionary just doesn't cut it any more. As we've grown closer our appetites for sexual adventure have expanded and we're comfortable moving within the boundaries we decide we want to live by. It's really that simple.

I post on a public forum and I cam with complete strangers - I've never been stalked. I've never been raped (by a stranger) or anything of the sort. I was very hurt by Kendra's response. I felt like my grandmother was shaming me for my behavior and that shame is something I've worked a really long time on getting rid of so that I can do these things. (And we don't do face shots, either.) less

My avatar on here is my own behind. It has taken me a decent amount of time to be proud of my body and now that I am I happily show it off. My bestie and I even have a pin-up calender for sale with some interesting pictures. (Check out the blog)

I believe to each their own. I won't call you vanilla as long as you don't judge me for being proud of my body. less

Ive posted naughty pics on my fubar account. I send dirty pics to my boyfriend sometimes. Heck, Ive even got a pretty naughty pics on Eden
<--- hee hee My only rule is, no face in my naughty pics!! Cant trust the people who see them! But other than that... jack off and have a good time! ; ) less