Perhaps.

It's tough to decide which is riskier.. There are different risks to each, but I don't think that one is really worse than the other, when you get right down to it. There are just creeps everywhere. I guess surely everyone you meet in chatrooms isn't a creep/murderer/kidnapp er -- in fact, the chances are, that they're not (statistically speaking, anyway), just as every person in the bar is probably not a creep/murderer/kidnapp er.

I didn't name names, and she's aware that I posted it. I posted the situation because both she and I wanted outside opinions on it. But, thanks for the judgment.

Warning - the vid link attached is not work safe and x-rated so please be aware of that if curiosity gets the better of you and you decide to click it. Yes it's really of this even below.

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LOL And to answer your question, yes. It was a real random hook up. My husband put an add on Ashley Madison for me - to find me a play date. This guy responded to the add and asked if we could meet for coffee. Hubby and I both went and met him at a local coffee place but hubby stayed back and we came in separately. He was super cool, very hot, and he had an office in the town we live in that he comes to a couple days a week. So a few days went by and he had been sending me emails asking if I wanted to get together for some fun. I said I would be down but where did he want to meet? I didn't want to bring him back to our house especially with my husband gone at work. He said why don't you come to my office? He had already told me that he works by himself so having company at his work was not an issue. I called my husband who said of course to go for it. I decided I would dress in nothing but my shaved pussy and big titties, covered with a knee length wool trench coat and some cum-fuck-me heels. A little perfume and some earrings and make up and I was on the way. I did bring other clothes in a bag but was otherwise totally naked under my coat. I get there and guess what? Three story office building with an office receptionist for the entire building. Here I am looking like a blow up fuck doll and smelling of perfume and probably pussy because I was reallllllllly wet in anticipation. "Hi! I'm..... her to see (Mr. smith)" LOL. "Oh take a seat. Is he expecting you? I will call up?" Fortunately I made it about five feet before she said he said to "Come on up" and I was directed towards the elevator. I was in the door for about ten seconds before the coat was off and the BJ started about a minute after that. He fucked me on the desk, on his chair, used a 8" Doc Johnson dildo on me and then doubled me with it and him... In addition to the blow job and eating me out. Now if you can tell from the video...(Yes I brought my video camera and he filmed us) I'm not always super quiet... And my heels I am sure sounded like Santa and the Reindeer tap dancing on the ceiling of the office below from his second floor office. So anyway... There is not a way in hell the receptionist didn't know what was up! In fact she asked him later if I was his wife. He said no that I was just a client. She said oh ok, I thought your wife was taller and had blonde hair. She then mentioned about the building isn't super well insulated to him- I.E. He was caught dead to rights from my loud orgasmic mouth. We hooked up one time since and got driven all over the place in my excursion while he did me in the back which was also very cool. He want's to do another office hook-up but this time wear a mask and do a full on porno out of it. He He Good for me. But I'm not sure yet if I am going to go for it or not. he has sort of been replaced by a 23 year old fitness instructor from my gym who I have been wrecking who has the biggest cock I have ever seen in person.

I was wondering where that NO WAY option went!!!????

I keep wondering the same thing.. LOL Wish it would let me edit it to add that option.

I read most of the posts after mine and totally agree to the validity of your points. Being more the odd girl out I would also bring up this perspective.

How many of you have been married and got divorced because the person you trusted and married turned out to not be who or what you thought they were? How many of you were cheated on by spouses or significant others that have potentially exposed you to risks from who they slept with when you assumed you were safe sleeping with the person you trusted? How many husbands and wives, girlfriends and boyfriends are beaten by the person they have trusted and been with? How many spouses have been murdered, raped or abdu ted by their significant other? How many children are beaten or kidnaped or worse by parents or family that youknew and trusted? The truth is no matter who it is there is a possible unknown. I choose to live the way I choose knowing and calculating the choices and decisions I make and take.

Not only well said, I agree.

Nope, I have not. I have considered it.

how is spending a week with someone any more dangerous than spending a night? I mean, if he did have negative intentions and was a danger.

LOL there was! -- but it didn't show up.

bahaha