The New Intimacy

Has being a member of Eden made you more confident in other areas of yor life? What do you contribute that to?

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Contributor: js250 js250
I have gained more confidence in my writing and speech since I have written reviews. I use them to help work with my ADD, they really have helped me to remember to follow through and to reach goals. They have really helped my speech, I lost a lot of words with my brain injury.

I have gained confidence due to increased knowledge about materials, lifestyles, and other topics, not all sexual. Since I am a mentor, was an editor last rotation, write the DR's, help many people off site with reviews, and am one of the top reviewers my confidence and pride in my accomplishments affect my daily life in a positive manner. I also have to say that the people on here really add to the boost in confidence!! The friendliness and appreciative comments help build me up as well. Thanks guys!

So...what is your story?
05/25/2012
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Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by js250
I have gained more confidence in my writing and speech since I have written reviews. I use them to help work with my ADD, they really have helped me to remember to follow through and to reach goals. They have really helped my speech, I lost a lot of ... more
I think that what helps me most is knowing that I have a whole community of people who appreciate me and are willing to be there for me when I need them. It makes me feel more grounded.

Other than that, I really do feel proud of what I do on here. I feel like it helps other people and I feel like it's something that I have done through my own hard work. This also helps me feel more bolstered, knowing that I CAN do something like work my way up the ranks and get awesome things to review (at first it seemed impossible!)
05/25/2012
Contributor: puppylove puppylove
I found Eden Fantasys in the wake of discovering infidelity in my relationship, we were at a point where we where trying to recover and rediscover the sexual aspect of our relationship and me my confidence that my partner still found me sexually attractive, and we were struggling on all fronts, me especially. Becoming a member here and learning all new things and about new toys, and trying a bunch of new stuff, has given me so much of the confidence I had lost in my own sexual prowess and in myself in general following my partner's affair and so much more. I couldn't begin to put into words how much the new found confidence has helped me in my relationship and on a personal level. Trying out new toys has become a hobby of ours and is like our own little form of couples therapy.
05/25/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Pssst...great post! Don't forget to comment here! Eden community rallies and supports a member down on her luck
05/25/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
Thanks, Stormy!! I checked out your link and added my story.
06/04/2012
Contributor: BG529 BG529
yes i do!!! it's really awesome i've come out of my skin!
06/04/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Just knowing that my perfectly healthy libido was not "freakish" and that I wasn't just "obsessing about a genital sneeze" made me feel so much better after I separated from my celibate husband and consequently found EF. Being able to read and talk with others about all aspects of sexuality helped in demystifying an act that I could see complete morons are able to do, but I couldn't figure out for all my brains. As a consequence, I am not as scared of sex ... now it's just my neuroses of wanting to believe that This One is the White Knight and True Love. (Needless to say, I still need to work out some things.)
06/04/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I'm usually a pretty confident person, but Eden boosted my confidence in my writing. Enough so that I was able to start my own review site. I never would have just started out that way without having Eden first.

I also gained confidence with masturbation. I had a lot of crappy toys before and I don't like using my hands. I thought I just couldn't bring myself to orgasm, but it turns out I just was buying the wrong toys for me my whole life. Now I know that I can make myself orgasm which is a very empowering feeling.
06/04/2012