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has anyone stolen and used your sex toys?

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Contributor: Not here Not here
Quote:
Originally posted by Josh aka FootMan
Ew!

You need this!

You can find them at tag sales cheap too, and fix em up to your liking. Add a padlock and you have a great toy box - Esp with the insert for the top which is great for smaller items.

Ours is awesome but we need ... more
I agree

Here's a more affordable version- and you could lock up ANYTHING you don't want others touching.

I also have to agree with others that your sister is possibly a klepto and it is utterly horrendous that she's doing this to you! Have some words with her, and lock up anything you want private- because people who enjoy stealing don't stop easily.

Good luck!
01/26/2011
Contributor: IndependentlyHappy IndependentlyHappy
I'd certainly HOPE not...*shifty eyes*

In all seriousness, definitely not. My toys are currently locked up, and before I had cases for them, they were always safely hidden in a drawer.
01/26/2011
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
Nope, but I knew someone who took his mom's dildo and used it anally. He didn't know the proper way to clean it, so I can only imagine the nasties on it after he put it back for her to use. *shudders*
Oh... that's just ew. And wrong.
01/26/2011
Contributor: AU AU
I have never known anyone to do that to mine.

I did use a "massager" that may have been or may have not been used in a sexual way, but I didn't use it intimately.

I have a friend whose parents stole her porn and toys. I doubt they would use the toys, but she found her porn in their stash. I think this may have included some hentai I left in the friend's room. We watched it for laughs. I wanted it back, but it was an awkward situation.

Her parents occasionally searched her room. She had to keep her door open. She was a pretty good girl, too.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I can't even imagine someone doing that! That is very disturbing.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
No one here would take my toys or even my porn. Everyone has respect for everyone else.
If they want to watch my porn or even normal DVDs, they ask.
01/26/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Holy tamoly. No one's ever taken anything of mine, thank goodness. This thread is making me glad I don't have sisters old enough to even think of doing anything shifty like that (plus they don't live with me, so that drastically cuts down on the risk, hah)
01/26/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
No one has ever stolen any of my sex toys. But, I've had prescription drugs stolen. You really lose respect for someone when they do something like that.

This is an inexpensive locking case from Eden, and you can use your Valentine's Day discount and get it for a really good price.

Locking Sex Toy Case

In the meantime, casually mention to your sister you have an incurable STI that has no cure and is passed through bodily fluids, even dried ones.
01/26/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
Quote:
Originally posted by thatonegirl
next time she takes one tell your mom you think your sister has a sex toy that she stole from you in her room and you didn't want to make a big deal out of it so you were wondering if she would go get it.
I'm going to second this. Humiliating her in front of your mom could help. But definitely get something to securely lock up your stuff.

Also, it wouldn't hurt if you started fucking with her things. Does she have any stuffed animals, Justin Bieber cds, etc that you can ransom and threaten to destroy.

Best option yet, get out of the house and find somewhere else to live, or keep your shit at a SO's place or with a friend
01/26/2011
Contributor: Shumway Shumway
Quote:
Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
wondering how many people know someone that nasty or has had this experience
ew.. that's a little weird and unsafe Fortunately I've never had anything like this happen
01/26/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
My friend stole a vibrator that I didn't use or want, and that bothered me.
Ditto,it was my roommates little sister. We were friends but she was also like 4 years younger than I was which put her at about 17. She had a huge crush on both me and the bf. .... The older sister stole too but she stole our food out of the fridge and cooked it in her place upstairs.
01/26/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Josh aka FootMan
Ew!

You need this!

You can find them at tag sales cheap too, and fix em up to your liking. Add a padlock and you have a great toy box - Esp with the insert for the top which is great for smaller items.

Ours is awesome but we need ... more
ya that is really nice and expensive though....is it large inside? I was thinking about using my $30 in gift cards and my valentines day coupon for the toy chest on here...idk wat to do
01/26/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
ya that is really nice and expensive though....is it large inside? I was thinking about using my $30 in gift cards and my valentines day coupon for the toy chest on here...idk wat to do
Buy the one from Eden you can afford, I guess. I huge one would be nice, but if you only have the bucks for the smaller one, go with that. For now, anyway.
01/26/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Buy the one from Eden you can afford, I guess. I huge one would be nice, but if you only have the bucks for the smaller one, go with that. For now, anyway.
well I have $188 saved from my last check and I get paid the 2nd or 3rd...I need to invest in link

for all media..cds,movies,porn ...I will keep letting my points stack up but I hope the toychest doesn't go out of stock while I do that.

Everyone I've had millions and millions of stocks for years it never does any good...It's up to the person to change their ways which is wrong they don't..but ya

I hope the lock is really good on the toycheast..since my room is so small the toychest will sit on top of my dresser next to my tv...and It would be nice to have things in reach my closet is tiny and theres really no room in there
01/26/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Not here
I agree

Here's a more affordable version- and you could lock up ANYTHING you don't want others touching.

I also have to agree with others that your sister is possibly a klepto and it is utterly horrendous that she's doing ... more
that one doesn't say it has a lock and key...it also doesn't appear to have an organizational options to separate things...


ya nothing gets through to her she's nasty she chats naked and like does things infront of her computer with strangers she has left her door open when doing it...someone who uses used sex toys is disgusting they don't care what you say or how much it bothers you they steal from you. SHe is so disgusting I was in the kitchen she sat in a living room char and touched herself and made nasty noises...she has also stayed in a hotel room with guy she met online for a week and had unprotected sex
01/26/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
No one has ever stolen any of my sex toys. But, I've had prescription drugs stolen. You really lose respect for someone when they do something like that.

This is an inexpensive locking case from Eden, and you can use your Valentine's ... more
I don't like that case..and if I'm going to invest in storage I will wait until I can get bigger and better
01/26/2011
Contributor: DustBunny DustBunny
I had a suit case that I locked with my stuff in it, but my older sister was always in my room going through my stuff. I'm sure she picked the lock at some point and went through it and laughed. She was a bitch like that. God forbid I use something of her's like a book she left laying around, I'd get screamed at and at trouble, but my parents knew she searched my room and never got mad at her for invading my privacy. I was so happy when she moved out, even happier when I moved out.
01/26/2011
Contributor: IndependentlyHappy IndependentlyHappy
Wow, reading some of these posts makes me glad that I was an only child and currently have an apartment to myself! People are so inconsiderate of others' things. :/

Also, I'm looking into the Devine Playchest, another good option if you have nosy busybodies who might get into your toys.
01/27/2011
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I have never had sex toys stolen out of my room. My family stays out of my stuff, just like I stay out of theirs.
01/27/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
That's pretty terrible that she'd do something like that. How would she like it if you did that to her? Ugh. I would definitely start messing with her stuff, stealing, destroying, etc. But that's just me. Definitely get something lockable for storage, though.

Anyway, I voted other. I let my friend borrow a couple of vibrators, oh, about a year ago? BORROW. As in "give back at some point." And one of them, she destroyed because she didn't bother to ask if it was waterproof until AFTER using it in the bathtub. Sigh. Some people.
02/02/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
This has never happenned to me, thank goodness.

However, I know of a guy who used his girlfriends vibrator (made of rubber) analy and he told her. She wasn't using that vibe, but the fact that he used it in that way made her not want to use it even more. I don't think he actually did it but rather, said he did it, to make sure she wouldn't use the vibe again. He was very jealous, controling and psychologically abusive. Their relationship is over now.

The funny thing about this story is that this person about a year or two after having shared this story with me, asked me if I wanted that particular vibrator...LOL I was like, "are you talking about the one your ex put up his ass?" I thought it was really weird of her to try to get rid of it in such a conning type of way. She replied "oh, yeah...I forgot"......yeah right!
02/16/2011
Contributor: girl next door girl next door
borrowing sex toys is gross! I am very into being clean and not spreading germs. So this creeps me out!
02/16/2011
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
No and hopefully I'll never have to worry about it. I don't like the idea of having to keep my sex toys in safe
02/16/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Other.
I'm pretty sure my old roommate used to go into my room and go through my sex chest.
03/19/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Quote:
Originally posted by Josh aka FootMan
Ew!

You need this!

You can find them at tag sales cheap too, and fix em up to your liking. Add a padlock and you have a great toy box - Esp with the insert for the top which is great for smaller items.

Ours is awesome but we need ... more
Ohh thats pretty awesome. Too bad its so pricey ><
03/19/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
I just don't understand why anyone would do that...
03/19/2011
Contributor: magicmac magicmac
I hide mine very well. So I don't think anybody has or will be able to steal and use them. (Ugh!)
03/19/2011
Contributor: REDRUM REDRUM
... I'm locking my toy box now. I usually leave it unlocked cause I trust that no one will steal and use any, but now that I read a few of the posts. I'm locking it... for sure.

I haven't had any experience with anyone stealing mine before though.
03/19/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
Nope never happened
03/19/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
That is nasty, specially since some of might tried them anally
03/19/2011