Guys using toys - what do you think?

Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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My ex liked using dildos on himself, and my new bf claims that a guy cannot use a dildo without being guy gay at all. I believe that you don't have to be gay at all to want to use a dildo if your a guy. I believe its generally a feeling of pleasure. what do you believe?
06/19/2012
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Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by jjesssica
My ex liked using dildos on himself, and my new bf claims that a guy cannot use a dildo without being guy gay at all. I believe that you don't have to be gay at all to want to use a dildo if your a guy. I believe its generally a feeling of ... more
I believe that being gay means you enjoy the company of guys rather than women. It has nothing to do with liking anal play. Women like anal play, does that make them gay? There are probably 100 threads about this topic, have him read a few.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I believe that being gay means you enjoy the company of guys rather than women. It has nothing to do with liking anal play. Women like anal play, does that make them gay? There are probably 100 threads about this topic, have him read a few.
Yep, I agree with you Tim.
06/19/2012
Contributor: CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I believe being gay has to do with who you love, not how you play. Everyone likes different things.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Pinkshirt Pinkshirt
Nothing wrong with guys using toys. Exploration of the body and doing what feels good is always good
06/19/2012
Contributor: LoveYouLikeThat LoveYouLikeThat
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I believe that being gay means you enjoy the company of guys rather than women. It has nothing to do with liking anal play. Women like anal play, does that make them gay? There are probably 100 threads about this topic, have him read a few.
100% agree with this statement here.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
I think a guy playing with toys is sexy.
06/19/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I believe that being gay means you enjoy the company of guys rather than women. It has nothing to do with liking anal play. Women like anal play, does that make them gay? There are probably 100 threads about this topic, have him read a few.
What Tim said.

Men, whether their sexual orientation is hetero, gay, bi, flexible or whatever, have pleasure in their Prostate Gland and near it. Many women are also able to feel pleasure from anal play.

Liking anal sex doesn't make you a gay man. I like anal sex, I'm a hetero woman. Does liking anal sex make ME a gay man, too? No, of course not.

It isn't the activity, it's who you love.
06/19/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I believe that being gay means you enjoy the company of guys rather than women. It has nothing to do with liking anal play. Women like anal play, does that make them gay? There are probably 100 threads about this topic, have him read a few.
Thats exactly what I told him! I said, "girls like putting dildos up their butts,so does that make them lesbian, no". Thats ignorant and stupid.
06/20/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by Pinkshirt
Nothing wrong with guys using toys. Exploration of the body and doing what feels good is always good
yesss its all about exploring ha lol p:
06/20/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by P'Gell
What Tim said.

Men, whether their sexual orientation is hetero, gay, bi, flexible or whatever, have pleasure in their Prostate Gland and near it. Many women are also able to feel pleasure from anal play.

Liking anal sex doesn't ... more
Thank you (:
06/20/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by Gracie
I think a guy playing with toys is sexy.
so do i lmao.
06/20/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Anyone can play with them. Stereotypes can go to hell, lol.
06/20/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by CollegeFun2014
I believe being gay has to do with who you love, not how you play. Everyone likes different things.
Yea, and sometimes its both. thank you
06/20/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by GONE!
Anyone can play with them. Stereotypes can go to hell, lol.
ahahaha ! (: agreed.
06/20/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by jjesssica
My ex liked using dildos on himself, and my new bf claims that a guy cannot use a dildo without being guy gay at all. I believe that you don't have to be gay at all to want to use a dildo if your a guy. I believe its generally a feeling of ... more
I don't know about that. I'm just glad my partner doesn't have an interest in using toys. Anal is definitely a turn off to us both so it really works out that we both avoid it.
06/20/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by jjesssica
My ex liked using dildos on himself, and my new bf claims that a guy cannot use a dildo without being guy gay at all. I believe that you don't have to be gay at all to want to use a dildo if your a guy. I believe its generally a feeling of ... more
being gay means you are sexually attracted (mainly) to men. or it could mean a few other things, depending on how the person identifies themself.

that has nothing to do with using a toy on any bodypart. edumacate him on the definition of 'gay.'
06/20/2012